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Far too many people get it wrong about what it takes to really make their women happy. They think girls are so complex it’s like they think we’re aliens. Knowing how to make a girl happy isn’t as complicated as you think it is and in fact, it can be super easy. Why do you think pleasing a girl is so complicated? What guys tend to misunderstand most is the fact that men and women don’t always want the same things. So they do nice things for their girls, but they aren’t things that they really want. It’s what the guys would want. They’re then super-confused when the woman in their life is less than impressed. It’s a fast track to dissatisfaction and even arguments. It’s not that guys aren’t making an effort or that they don’t know their girls. It’s about the fact that they don’t think much about what the girl would want. They assume what would make them happy would also make her happy. How to make a girl happy with ease If you’ve found that you just can’t seem to do anything right when i

Instagram hottie Faith Nketsi got people talking after removing her husband’s name Njilo from her Instagram account. Faith Nketsi got married secretly and says it was love at first sight and we could not dispute that. It was a glorious day when Faith Nketsi married her husband Nzuzo Njilo and the pair made rounds on social media for quite a long time. The reality TV star of Have Faith is not strange in the limelight and her fame in stardom started a long time ago when she was in a dance group where she earned herself the name Queen Twerk. However, things have taken a direction when a question has been posed to Faith Nketsi who raised eyebrows when she removed her husband’s surname from her Instagram bio. One fan has put it to her and asked why is that.

Starting a new relationship comes with so much uncertainty. Those first few months feel like a rollercoaster (and a great one at that)! But right after you start to feel confident enough to disclose your relationship, another foreign, daunting task comes along: telling your friends and family. Telling your loved ones about your relationship shouldn’t be a big deal. But in today’s society, it is. You’re essentially saying, “Hey, just a heads-up, this person is my favorite human being. Please like them as much as I do.” It’s a big deal to share this with people who know you so well. On the other hand, receiving the news isn’t always so easy. It’s hard to know how to react, what questions to ask, and what to say when they describe their new partner. So, in efforts to prevent frustration and awkward silence, here is a (non-exhaustive) list of things to never say to someone in a relationship. And yes, before you ask, all of these are actual quotes friends and family told me when I announced

After the damning accusations leveled against rappers Gigi Lamayne and Big Zulu on the controversial Omakhwapheni (Sick Chicks) Podcast. Reportedly, Gigi Lamayne and her manager have allegedly called it quits. The past few days have been a roller-coaster for some and that includes rapper Gigi Lamayne and Big Zulu. Following the damning allegations that were raised during a confession on Omakhwapheni (Side Chicks) Podcast. Guest to the Podcast Queen Lolly together with the controversial Musa Khawula spoke gravely of Gigi Lamayne and Big Zulu. Rapper Gigi Lamayne was also caught in the crossfire following Musa Khawula’s claims that she and Big Zulu have a relationship. With his whole chest, Khawula said while on record that, Gigi Lamayne and Big Zulu have a sexual relationship. Musa Khawula “But then you had a three-year relationship with him. You did know about the baby mama, of which Gigi Lamayne is saying that bitch is on drugs and Gigi Lamayne is f**king Big Zulu right now” Queen Lol

A new breed of woman—the high-earning, successful woman—is on the rise. From company CEOs to business moguls, more and more successful women today are out-earning men. Traditionally, men were the breadwinners. Increasingly, women are bringing home the dough. Here, I will show you all the ways to date successful women. If you are one of those men who feel having a girlfriend more successful than you is a blow to your ego, you’d better read up on these tips to help you deal with dating successful women. #1 See her as a person and not a title or bank account.  Having a girlfriend more successful in her career than you are in yours is no different than having a girlfriend who is not as successful or is just starting out in her career. Especially in the first few months of your relationship, get to know her as she is. She is so much more than her job or her bank account. #2 Be honest about your insecurities.  Instead of always looking at how successful and intimidating she is, think of the

Nollywood actress Eniola Badmus has taken to social media to react after being dragged for showing off Tinubu’s swearing-in asoebi. On Monday, February 26th, Eniola Badmus begun the distribution of the asoebi selected for the celebration and swearing-in ceremony of the All Progressives Congress, APC, presidential candidate Bola Tinubu whom she believes will be the next President of Nigeria. Showing off the Kampala fabric on her Instagram page, she called for those interested to reach out to her so that more fabrics could be produced. The actress wrote: “Swearing in Kampala is ready, holla if you want.” However, celebrities and netizens who are not supporters of Tinubu have continued to drag Eniola Badmus after she begins distribution of Tinubu’s swearing-in asoebi. In a post, actress Destiny Etiko says Eniola Badmus is a useless and senseless woman. Reacting to those several backlashes, Eniola Badmus claps back at trolls by replying them with hit song “Won Kere Si Number” by Fatai Roll

Nigerian singer Ayra Starr real name Oyinkansola Sarah Aderibigbe, has caused a stir online once more owing to her usual weird and skimpy outfit. The Mavin star who is known for her mini dresses recently took to her official TikTok handle to share a video of herself grooving to her recently released track, ‘Sability’. Ayra Starr could be seen dancing and singing along to the new song. However, TikTok users faulted the songstress over her loosed and unconventional dress. Some went on to advise her to stop dressing in such a manner and learn to wear good clothes. Watch the video below: @ayrastarr Let me teach y’all how to enjoy this song ♬ Sability – Ayra Starr Check out some reactions that trailed the video below:  

The debate of whether premarital sex is moral or not entirely depends on people’s perspectives. In some parts of the world, the notion of having sex before marriage is not looked down upon, but the sex culture between teens and adolescents are quite common. Whereas, in relatively conservative countries and communities, premarital sex is considered to be a sin in the eyes of God, which leaves people reeling from guilt of engaging in sexual activities with their lover. For ages, women have been bestowed with the concept of virginity that correlates with their body’s purity. ‘A woman’s body is only pure until she gives herself away to a man before marriage.’ This notion has been widely followed by people across countries where women have been taught to protect their virginity and only give themselves away to their husband after marriage. And marriage, being the sacred bond of all relationships justifies sex as a marital ritual used to satisfy both the partners and also as a wa

Despite initial scepticism from many about the veracity of their relationship during the show’s first season, LaConco stood by her truth and cited various reasons for keeping their romance under wraps. Social media users were sent into a frenzy after photos and videos of LaConco and Jacob Zumacirculated online. Some users even went so far as to label Zuma the true “infamous Petal” who had subjected LaConco to significant scrutiny. Meanwhile, others have claimed that the couple’s relationship never ended, citing LaConco’s previous statements. Nevertheless, there has been a mixed response, with some social media users feeling that the pair’s public display of affection was bordering on inappropriate. Many others have taken a more critical stance, aiming at LaConco and former President Jacob Zuma and criticizing them for various reasons. Is LaConco and Jacob Zuma dating again The internet was abuzz as Nonkanyiso ‘LaConco’ Conco, a former star of Real Housewives of Durban, and former presi

Whenever you enter a new relationship, you look forward to “getting physical” with your partner. On one hand, it makes you feel excited and eager but on the other, it also makes you nervous and anxious. What your partner likes in bed, whether you will be able to satisfy them or not, what they will be expecting you to be like - all are some common questions that pop in our head. Apart from doing these things right, there are a few things that you should always do before having sex. Here is a look at 6 of them. 1.Hint at it Creating some sexual tension before you hit the bedroom can make for a more exciting encounter. Some signals include giving your partner a long kiss in the morning, a flirtatious text during the day, or a seductive wink when they walk in the door. All this gives you time for your imagination to wander and your body to get warmed up.  2.Set the mood Thoughtful gestures and touches to your environment help set the mood for a great night. It could include pla

American actress, Keke Palmer and her boyfriend, Darius Jackson have shared the excitement of welcoming their baby boy. Recall that Injanury, 2023, Palmer shared that she was expecting a boy and wondered if she would be too blunt with him. The Akheela and the Bee actress shared the news via the micro-blogging platform, Instagram, where she revealed a couple of interesting details about her child, including his name. Keke Palmer announced the name of her baby boy to be “ LEODIS ANDRELLTON JACKSON”.  She also revealed he was born 48 hours ago, which suggests the date to be the 26th of February, 2023 . Fans and well-wishers have shared their joy, via the comment section. See her post below; “Hey Son!!!! 1. Only 48hrs of being parents! 😳 2. Darius always made me playlists when we first started dating, “Someone” by El Debarge was a favorite. We became each other’s someone and made a someone, look at God! 😆 3. The baby love Rolling Ray, cause purrr. 4. “I’m not hiding the world from my son

Being in love can make a man feel as if he has found a priceless treasure that he knows he would spend eternity with. If you’re one of those persons who just got engaged and is looking for sweet romantic words to shower and butter your baby every morning as she wakes up, then you’ve come to the right place. Here are 10 sweet words to text your girlfriend every morning as she wakes up. 1. I would rather spend one lifetime with you, than face all the ages of this world alone. 2. I hope your morning is as bright and gorgeous as your smile. 3. I know that you enjoy wearing makeup, but you you’re beautiful when your first awake. 4. Good morning sweetheart! I will fill it with my unconditional love, burning passion, hours of laughter and endless happiness. 5. The best feeling is goosebumps from your kisses, I want to feel them for the whole life. Good morning princess. 6. Wake up my sunshine. Flowers, smiles and laughter are waiting for you. 7. The beautiful morning DEW and the lovely mornin

It was a seventh heaven feeling for several Kenyan celebrities who have been chosen to feature in reality TV franchise The Real Housewives of Nairobi. But there’s the feeling that a couple of celebrities missed out on the show and could have spiced things up. Below is the list. Amber Ray Amber Ray turns year older The mother of one has been a social media sensation for years and has dated a couple of men. Currently, she’s dating flamboyant businessman Kennedy Rapudo, whom they have been together for a while and are expecting their first child together. Recently, they hinted that they’re not together anymore after unfollowing each other on Instagram. Huddah Monroe Huddah Monroe pens advice to fans The flashy socialite is among the most admired in Kenya. And her beauty is quite admirable. She has had an impeccable career over the years and she’s among the exquisite Kenyan socialites who were hyped to join the Real Housewives of Nairobi but she hasn’t been able to make it in the reality s

Being bored with your usual sex routine is inevitable. Having sex on the bed is as vanilla as it can get. If you have tried every possible way to make your intimate sex life better, but still can’t then the problem lies in where you have sex. Have you considered trying sex positions in certain parts of your home? If not, then these creative places in your home will give you the spiced-up sex you’ve been craving for a long time. 1.Sex on the couch Is your couch small or not bumpy enough? Then, in this case, trying the doggy position or any other relative sex position on the sofa can require menial effort and assure maximum pleasure. The thrill of having sex on the couch, rather than the bed will arouse you and your partner. 2.Sex in the shower or bathtub Sex in the shower is for the brave-hearted, literally! It may seem very sporty and dangerous, because the sloppy floor and walls may not provide you and your partner the reliability of getting creative with sex. However, thi

Renowned Mugithi  Samidoh is celebrating her daughter in tandem with his baby mama as she turns a year older. Through his Instagram stories, Samidoh shared a photo of his daughter Wairimu on her first birthday and wrote a sweet message to her. “Happy birthday, my little one.” On the flipside, his baby mama Karen Nyamu also celebrated their daughter as she wrote; “My bottom-up baby has turned a year old! Well, little princess, your reign over the kingdom of our hearts has reached a full year, and you looked absolutely angelic today at your birthday celebrations. You’re smart, you’re cheeky, and you’re destined for greatness, baby,” she wrote. Karen Nyamu went ahead to also thank her friends and family for joining her in celebrating her daughter. “To those who joined us at home to give thanks and celebrate this blessing, you’re our friends. Mubarikiwe,” she said. Karen & Samidoh already have two kids together. But Nyamu has been left to raise the kids on her own after the tiff that o

Someone once told me most of these celebrities like wearing sunglasses to conceal their aging eye lines and this clearly explains why Huddah, Anerlisa Muigai and other females cant stop walking around with sunnies even on rainy days. Anyway could be true or could be for fun but all i know i that the only two places that dont lie about someone’s age are their eyes and of course neck….which are normally hit by wrinkles…an obvious sign of aging – which is why fans can’t stop commenting on Anerlisa Muigai’s new photos. Well you see, she recently shared new photos from a certain event and despite the gorgeous outfit she stepped out in…many couldn’t look past her red tired eyes that actually left one fan asking whether she’s on cocaine…i mean the Eyes have it…see what i did there…but again could also be sparkling wine. Eyes don’t lie Apart from the eyes, the other thing fans pointed out is the fact that her neck appears to already have wrinkles…..but at 33 years? How is that possible? Maybe

Life was getting out of my hands Times were flying, as seasons kept coming and going, I finished my Quranic memorization at age 14 while still in JSS3, and I now have a class of my own teaching the minors. One night during our night conversation over suya; Mallam asked, “Sumayya, who do you think is a Muslim?” I was stunned, of all the questions why would Mallam ask this simple question and I gladly answered, a Muslim is someone who prays (5) times a day, fast during the month of Ramadan, gives out zakat and performs hajj if he has the means. I looked at Mallam proud of myself and he smiled and said; a Muslim is someone who neither lies nor cheats, he is someone who stands against injustice even if it’s against himself, who shuns away from deceit and deception who will take pride in his integrity. These among others are the conversations that lead me to wabi-sabi on my bed until I drifted to sleep. These among other conversations from both Mallam and Ummi made me question myself about

When it comes to getting a girl’s attention, a lot depends on the first impression. Guys have always been drawn to girls who look good and have a cheerful aura. But girls aren’t far behind either. While stunning looks may not be the sole criteria for a girl to like a guy, appearances do play a big part at the beginning. Want to know how to get a girl’s attention, be it on the streets or after an introduction? Find out how to get her attention and make her like you. #1 Compliment her.  Good compliments are the way to a girl’s heart. Girls never forget a genuine and appreciative compliment. If you want a girl to think of you, tell her something nice but lace it with a s3xual remark. #2 Be chivalrous around her.  Behave like a real man around her. Be dependable and make her feel protected around you. When a girl feels safe around you, she’ll love spending time with you. Just a word of caution, don’t get into her friend zone by accepting all her demands or behaving like a doormat around he

Selena Gomez and Gracie Elliott Teefey   Jordan Strauss/AP/Shutterstock North West  and  Gracie Teefey  would like to be excluded from this narrative.  Kim Kardashian ’s eldest daughter and  Selena Gomez ’s little sister hung out after their famous relatives were wrapped up in social media drama. The 9-year-old girls made “homemade pasta” and documented the cooking process on Saturday, February 25. North posted five videos via her joint TikTok account with mom Kim, 42. Gomez, 30, recently made headlines for announcing she was stepping back from the app after commenting on a series of videos speculating about the alleged drama between the Disney Channel alum , Kylie Jenner  and  Hailey Bieber (née Baldwin) . While Gomez previously told fans that she doesn’t “let these things get me down” when Bieber, 26, and  Kendall Jenner   were accused of throwing shade her way earlier this month, things escalated when Kylie, 25,  denied she and Bieber were mocking Gomez’s post about her eyebrows  on

It's surprising that we are no longer entertaining bedroom talks in this part of the world. The man is not allowed to tell the wife if he's satisfied or not, and also the woman is not even allowed to make mention of it at all, else she would be tagged as promiscuous.  This debilitating situation has continued to drown many relationships, resulting in failed marriages and broken homes. This explains why we need to address this issue. Women seem to be the most affected by this societal malady, they are not allowed to tell their man that they aren't satisfied with the bedroom activities, without being labelled as a prostitute or adulterer. It's now your duty as a man, to know the signs to look out for when your woman is not satisfied in bed. In this article, I will be showing you ten signs your woman is not satisfied in bed. 1. If she starts telling you to do more Women are very smart, and before they start keeping silent about their bedroom satisfaction, they would first

Homewrecker: Reality TV star Inno Morolong confirms extramarital affair with a married man Reality TV Star and Club Host Inno Morolong have been hiding a relationship for months. Those close to her say she didn’t like talking about it because she wasn’t sure about the guy yet. However, she’s now ready to be taken as a second wife because the guy has proven himself over the months. Morolong and her Venda stallion Thendo also known as “Sibeko”, met in Venda in December 2022. Sibeko was all over Morolong, and everyone noticed the chemistry, though Morolong was reluctant to be in a relationship at that time, as it was still early stages; however, Sibeko hit her with dangerous strokes that hypnotised her to the point that she is now ready to be a wife now. Watch videos of Inno Morolong partying with a married man   Those close to Morolong say they would divulge more, but Morolong warned that she would cut them off as she doesn’t want other slay queens or socialites knowing who her Man is be

“Body shapes come in and out of fashion, but the classic ‘hourglass’ figure is something a lot of people want to achieve, regardless of what is in trend,” says trainer Luke Worthington of the near-universal pursuit of a honed waist. You only need glance at Billie Eilish, resplendent in a corset in British Vogue’s June issue, or Jennifer Lopez, Kim Kardashian, Serena Williams or Jennifer Lawrence’s early summer looks to know that this erogenous zone is truly having a moment. But working on your waistline is about more than just its aesthetic appeal. Studies show that excess fat in the area is linked to a higher risk of early death, while a strong waistline actually helps to improve issues with posture. What to eat for a healthy waistline The trouble with abdominal fat is that it is often indicative of visceral fat. “Visceral fat refers to the fat inside your belly that starts to surround your organs,” explains Rhian Stephenson , nutritionist, naturopath and founder of Artah . “This is a