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Knowing you're in love feels different for everyone. Some have been in love often and know the feeling well, and others may be not so sure if it's love or just a deep infatuation.  Luckily, your body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping you off to whether these feelings for your partner are more than just a passing phase. Keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs the next time you catch yourself wondering if you're actually in love. 1.You can't stop staring at them. If your partner has ever caught you staring at them lovingly, it could be a sign that you're head over heels. Eye contact means that you're fixated on something, so if you find that your eyes are fixed on your partner, you may just be falling in love. Studies have also found that couples who lock eyes report feeling a stronger romantic connection than those who don't. It goes the other way too: when a study had strangers lock eyes for minutes at a time, they reported romantic feeling towards ea...

Dating and being in a relationship has become so normal now that couples have started seeing single people with sympathy- as if something is fundamentally wrong with people who are single. To break it to you guys, some people just like to stay single and it's not a problem. There's just so much more than sympathetic looks that single people have to deal with. Here is a list of a few things that singletons are tired of hearing. - You'll meet "the one" someday, don't worry. Hang in there. - There's someone for everyone. You just have to look around. - When do you intend to meet someone? Don't you think you should be seeing someone right now? - How are you even single? Look at you! You're so beautiful! - Do you know that you'd make for a great boyfriend? - You should really put yourself out there. You'll be surprised at how many people would find you attractive. - Why do you always want to be this lonely? This is the time you'r...

Don’t waste your time wondering about his motives, you have to pay attention to his actions and his words as they will reveal to you his true intentions. | Source 1. He Thinks You Have Someone Already Maybe he thinks you’re already taken, or maybe he noticed another “shark in the water” circling around you and he doesn’t feel like getting into a competition. Maybe he thinks some other guy you’re close to would be a better fit. Maybe his best friend likes you more than he does and he wants to let the man have his All sorts of reasons. If he thinks you’re in some kind of relationship already, even if it’s only like a half-relationship or an “it’s complicated” relationship or something equally vague, he’ll usually see that as your being taken, unless he’s the kind of guy who has no qualms about breaking up a relationship (or joining one). So if you’re available and he has any reason to think otherwise, make it clear. Sure, a lot of people like what they can’t have, but you don’t just want...

So, let’s say there’s this guy you really like and luckily for you, he also feels the same. Well, it’s great to love and be loved in return. Now, a new relationship involves a lot of first times for both of you and kissing is no exception. Kissing a guy for the first time can always prove to be a tricky affair. You likely to have a lot of questions going through your mind: What if I do it the wrong way? Will he like the kiss or not? Will he still like me if I make a mistake? Don’t think too much. A first kiss should happen naturally. Instead of panicking, just relax and do what feels right. Things will flow naturally but only if you take it easy. Do not be in a rush to show your romantic side. Even though kissing a guy you have never been intimate with may seem complicated at first, as soon your lips meet his, everything will fall into place. Remember that romantic kissing is the beginning of an enjoyable intimate life so, be good at it and keep him glued. Here are some tips that you c...

Love that lasts is the result of partners embedding themselves in each other's brains in a positive way. Memory circuits and pleasure get all wound up together so that the other person becomes integral to the very structure of your brain, and you become part of the structure of theirs. Here are some steps toward making your love last: 1. Take your partner's breath away. Do something amazingly thoughtful and out of the ordinary and try to incorporate an element of surprise to it: a loving note tucked into a pocket. A special dinner on an otherwise ordinary night. A playlist made up with his favorite songs. These thoughtful acts will embed you in your partner's memory. 2. Do something special on a regular basis. Call them every day just to touch base for a few minutes. Make their favorite meal once a week. Once they begin to expect these things, you will always be close to their awareness. 3. Engage in lots of eye contact. New couples seem to do this naturally, but don't ...

Women sometimes have weird ways of expressing themselves. It is one thing guys will never understand. They will say something but mean something else. Other times too, her emotions can get the better part of her and she can say something she probably doesn’t mean. I know it can get confusing for you men but to make it easier for you fellas, to understand her better, here are 9 things women say but probably do not mean: 1. I HATE YOU In the heat of the moment if she blurts out the three-letter words “ I hate you” do not panic cos I hate you, in this case, could probably mean the opposite which is “I love you” or it could also mean she wants you to treat her right or she wants you to show a little care unless you have been very bad to her then maybe she actually means it. 2. I DON’T NEED YOU If she says this when she is angry, she does not mean it. She says this just so you wouldn’t think she is weak or look at her as someone who is vulnerable. 3. IT DOESN’T MATTER This statement is a li...

Having sex for the first time with a new person can spark a little bit of anxiety. First off, I know you want everything to perfect but funny enough the things that we always wish for do not always come to past, that is the reality check you need but hey, not to be so much of a party pooper, here are some simple things you should avoid doing when having sex with your partner: 🥢Don’t act like a starfish What I mean by this is that, when your partner is in the mood and makes a move on you, do not lie on the bed and let him or her do all the work. Sex is for your pleasure and it takes effort from both of you to have the best time of your life. The truth is, that is the only place where you can be as wild and as crazy as you want, so why not take advantage of the moment. 🥢Don’t focus only on an orgasm We all know the end game of sex is to climax but If you focus too much on an orgasm, you won’t be able to enjoy all those other things to do with sex. You need to put some effor...

Let’s be real here. We’ve all told lies before. Even though lying can sometimes help you get out of dire situations, it isn’t always the right way to handle things. Usually, when the truth of the matter comes to light, things that can get very messy. Lying in relationships is no exception. However, a relationship built on lies is always a recipe for disaster. Now, not every guy will lie to you about big things. Sometimes the little lies could be the worst offence he’s guilty of  but there are some who are dishonest at their core and can’t help but to deceive you at every possible turn. While it’s impossible to notice liars from the beginning, there are some warning signs that he’s being dishonest that you should look out for. Here are 6 of those signs.  HE OFFERS FEW DETAILS Most guys tend to recognise that when they lie, less is more. Those that don’t know it tend to figure it out quickly. If he’s lying, he’s going to say as little as possible and try not to get dragged down ...

Within the vast abyss of countless relationships and love a woman has had in her life, she always tends to remember those who have left a lasting impression on her. Particularly, while shuffling in between life’s unpredictable chapters, a woman is believed to meet three types of men who leave the most quintessential experience in her life. These three men are the ones, least expected but fortunately the ones she will remember all her life. One, who she wishes to be with her in bed; second, who she wants to be with all the time; third, the one who fosters her memory. The first type of man every woman wants is someone who can quench a woman’s thirst in bed, with passion and warmth. Every time her bed feels empty, that one man will always be ready to fill the gap and nurture her with all sexual desires and passion. A woman fantasises a man who can make her feel feminine and delicate, and not have to put up as a strong woman all the time. The bed during night time is her own sanctuary wher...

If you still love your partner and are willing to work on your relationship, follow these easy steps on how to fix a relationship. They’re so easy it almost seems silly to try. But really, what have you got to lose? It’s easy and can bring back the happiness that’s lost in all the confusion and pain. 1. Start communicating again. How did you deal with the situation the last time you disagreed with your partner, or had a little fight? Most couples prefer to just end an argument with slammed doors and sulking evenings rather than face the situation, sort it out and clear the air. Blame it on egos! You could give each other some space for a couple of days and wait for the issue to get sorted out by itself. But by avoiding a confrontation, you would end a fight but you really can’t understand each other or help each other. Problems that are brushed under the carpet have a way of raising a stink every now and then. The next time you’re feeling frustrated and lonely, talk about it with your ...

While personal tastes vary considerably, there are certain things about a man that are almost guaranteed to turn a woman’s head, and ultimately her heart. The more of these traits a man possesses, the better. 1. Confidence This is a big one and is present in body language, tone of voice, and in every way you interact with her. A healthy dose of confidence says you have something to be confident about; let her guess all that it entails! 2. Handiness Men are valued more for their savvy when it comes to fixing things and it’s something women love since this doesn’t come as easily to them. Fix her computer, leaky faucet or windshield wipers and she’ll think you a big strong man capable of making her life a little easier when she hits a snag like this in the middle of her hectic day. 3. Hygiene Looking good and smelling good are crucial factors in the sexual appeal of a mate (and it’s only fair to assume that if you want to attract a woman who is put together nicely that you should put some...

If you’re going to make room in your already full life for a guy, he needs to be worth it. While some of the stuff you’re looking for in a relationship and a potential partner will be unique to you, there are certain qualities that any man who’s “boyfriend material” will have right off the bat. If he does these things, you may have finally found a keeper: 1. ERASING ANY DOUBTS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. A good boyfriend doesn’t keep you guessing about how he feels, where things are going or anything else because he knows you deserve better. Plus, he knows you’re a catch and that if he doesn’t step up to the plate, some other guy could swoop in and steal you from right under his knows. He knows what he wants, and that’s you. 2. THINKING YOU’RE THE HOTTEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.  Any guy who’s boyfriend material thinks you’re the most beautiful woman that ever existed and he tells you so through his words and actions. Yes, he’s physically attracted to you, but he also thinks you...

When you’re introduced to a girl or when you walk past her on the streets, you have to remember that she’ll judge you and build an opinion about you within the first few seconds. Want to turn her on and make her fall for you immediately? Use these 15 suggestions. #1 Dress really well. Dress like a million bucks. Improve your wardrobe and dress in clothing that enhance your assets. Girls are immediately attracted to a guy who looks good in the clothes he wears.  #2 Your confidence. Confidence is a huge turn on for any girl. Not cockiness, but confidence. Don’t be nervous or reveal your awkwardness when you’re around a girl and she’ll love your company. #3 A guy who can pursue her and make her feel special. This is rather important. Girls love to be pursued and wooed by a man. Giving her a good chase when she teases you is the best way to let her know how much you want her and appreciate her. #4 A man she’s proud to be with. Are you proud of yourself and your achievements? If you are...

Just like how women love sweet and flattering words, men also love hearing the right words that will lift his spirit. But most women always count it unnecessary to say sweet words to their man, therefore, forgetting that he is also human and that flattering word is not only meant to be said by the men to their woman, but it could be vice versa, love needs to be reciprocal. However, every man likes to hear from a woman to make him feel unique and special. In this context, there are some compliments, comments, strings of conversations, and even verbalized observations that a woman can say to her man as well. Here are a few selections that women can express to her man when on a date or in a serious relationship. I trust you Keeping ourselves guarded and not being able to trust anyone completely is frustrating. Trust is important in a relationship and if you don’t, your man will feel insecure. Having to bear a retaliation all the time is annoying. He will not open to you or speak out his m...

Honesty is very important and in fact, the best policy for a successful relationship, but no partner really wants to be the one to break the news that someone is pretty bad in bed. Many men suffer from sexual prowess and the truth be told, they hate it when anyone spill the beans. But don’t worry, we are going to give you some good tips that will help you to honestly tell him. 1.   Suggest you guys try something new It shouldn’t be something you have no idea of, but aware that it will make things better than before. By saying it’s a ‘new thing’, you avoid hinting that you’re not satisfied in bed but prefer a new style or position. 2.   Never fake out It might be a boost to his confidence, but not for long and once he discovers that you’ve been lying things will just get worse. There is no need to fake orgasm just to make him feel good, just hold on. 3.   Talk about it It’s either you do the talking during the act or right after the act that way,...

1. It relieves stress. Hormones and endorphins are released into the body during sex, which helps to reduce cortisol and relieve stress.  And whether you are in a committed relationship or a new one, anticipation provides mood altering sensations that benefit our desire for sex. 2. We sleep better. And who doesn’t like a good night sleep! Vasopressin, released during orgasm, is associated with better sleep, as is oxytocin. 3. We bond with our partner. Oxytocin, considered the love hormone, released during orgasm produces feelings of warmth and connection with our partners. And there are some studies that indicate that falling asleep shortly after having sex indicates that desire to bond. And isn’t it delicious to sometimes sleep in the arms of your beloved? 4. We live longer. Interested in living long and well. Cultivate good sex. Here’s my take away on this oh so hot topic: It may be about the destination (orgasm), but it’s the journey that gets me there. Ask yourself ...

A light brush of his fingers against her hand, a quick kiss on her bareback or just a touch here and there have a chance of making her heart lip. A touch from a guy could cause a lady to wonder what is going on with her body all of the sudden. There are that tinkling and several sensations she can’t prevent her body from enjoying, it’s like her heaven. Here are some of the things ladies feel after getting touched by a guy; 1.   Butterflies in the stomach When the man she is attracted to touches her for the first time, it is the most unsettling feeling. When the man she waited to touch her lets her feel the warmth of his skin, it is the most light-headed feeling, as a cluster of butterflies is released in the pit of the stomach.   2.   A chill down the spine When a man forces an unwanted cold touch of his skin to a lady’s body her blood boils in the pit of the stomach, the history of anger, the collective memory of violence floats up and she sees red. She feels b...

Sex is a wonderful, joyful, and pleasurable thing. You may just be discovering the joys of sex, or you might have been having sex for years. You may have had many partners, or you may have only had a handful, or even just one. No matter what your sexual history, knowing how to make love to a man can be the difference between having vanilla, okay sex and having a mind-blowing romp in the sheets. Sex is different for everyone. However, one thing does stay constant, and that is the need and desire to pleasure your partner. It doesn’t matter if it’s your husband or a one-night stand, knowing how to make love to a man can bring a huge number of benefits. Not only will it make him seriously grateful and amazed by your sexual prowess, but it will also make sex more enjoyable for you! So just how can you achieve the greatest sex you and your partner have ever had? Follow these 20 tips for mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex! #1 Talk to him. Being a good lover is all about having gre...

1. Go out with your friends Guys feel very insecure when girls go out without them. There is that constant feeling another guy will hit on her and that she will be drunk enough to cheat. So, if you want to make your man jealous, put on the sexiest dress that you have, apply some heavy make-up, and create a nice hairstyle.  2. Make him compete for your attention Do not answer his calls immediately. Do not text him back immediately. Do not talk to him immediately. Make him compete for your attention in all the fields possible because that’s the only way to make him feel helpless and wonder what the hell is going on. 3. Ignore his texts and calls When he texts you, don’t text him back immediately. The same goes for phone calls. Show him that you won’t be available to him whenever he wants you. Show him that you have your own life and that you enjoy spending time with a small circle of people.  4. Accidentally Touch another man  If you are sitting with your male f...