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A Nigerian woman named Chukwudi Somack Mmesoma shared her unsettling experience after being confronted by the wife of a man who had been pursuing her romantically. Chukwudi Somack Mmesoma took to Facebook to recount her ordeal, expressing a mix of emotions ranging from disbelief to amusement. She disclosed that she had been in communication with a man named  Ben , who had shown keen interest in her. Throughout their interaction, Mmesoma reportedly questioned Ben multiple times about his marital status, seeking assurance that he was not already married. To her dismay, Ben consistently reassured her that he was single and unattached, even swearing on his credibility. Mmesoma admitted that she had not engaged in any significant interactions with Ben. She had plans to meet him, but for reasons unknown to her, the meeting did not materialize. In a surprising turn of events, Mmesoma woke up to a call from an unfamiliar number, which turned out to be Ben’s wife. In her Facebook post, Mmesoma

Notable Nollywood actress, Nkechi Blessing has claimed that someone credited her bank account with 50 million naira without seeking her permission. The curvy screen diva took to her Instagram page to make this known as she raged at the insolence. According to her, someone credited her account with millions of naira, but what vexes her is that the person hadn’t asked her permission to do so before sending the sizable amount to her account. She publicly enquired to know who was responsible for the disrespect. Nkechi Blessing wrote … “I hate nonsense! Who paid 50 million onto my account without my permission.” Check out her post below …

Seduction is truly a performance art form; everyone has sex, but few do it with finesse, and that takes skill, practice, and ingenuity! Turning your partner on is an exciting game that can be played in virtually infinite tantalizing variations. The key is in creating mystique and a story during buildup; sex devoid of this spicy experimentation will be underwhelming and flat line and who needs that! Troubles in the bedroom also often, leak into all the other areas of our lives and erode relationships from within. So, what are some skills in the bedroom that you can use to get some steamy detox in the sheets and drive your man crazy? Say no more! Here are 15 ways you can move him insane in bed and have him begging for more! Why you need to spice things up in your bedroom Sex, in its bare bones, is just mechanical, and if your end goal is to make babies, maybe that’s enough. But pleasure and lovemaking is a beautiful, exciting, and infinitely diverse domain to play around in. There is so

A toxic relationship is a relationship that’s detrimental to your life and existence. When you enter a toxic relationship with a person who’s not an ideal match for you, you may actually end up losing yourself and becoming a person you wouldn’t be too happy to be. Some people that we date fill our lives with happiness. And toxic people just drain the happiness out of our lives. Lovers with toxic personalities may not necessarily be bad people. But when they impose their negative way of life on you, it could affect the way you look at life and destroy you from the inside. The bad part about toxic relationships is that you can’t really recognize it at first. But as time goes by, something about them starts to change and everything they do may start to frustrate you. Of course, you won’t be able to blame them because they’d still appear to be the same person you fell in love with.

Squabbling is a part of every relationship, from the most random to the essential things, arguments are part of the relationship package. It all boils down to how often you and your partner argue and how you react to disagreement and conflict. Constant arguments and poor management of random outbursts will affect your romance in so many ways; that’s why it’s essential to be able to navigate them properly. When it comes to knowing how to handle and avoid relationship arguments, having the right attitude is everything, it will determine if your love story goes the distance or not. Check out several healthy ways in which you can handle and avoid relationship arguments.  1.  Listen Usually, when you argue, you are both focused on talking; everyone wants to talk more, yell louder, or have the last word. Both partners speak at the same time over each other, but no one listens. To avoid long and frustrating arguments with your partner, listen, and pay attention to what they’re say

There isn’t a standard list of things that equally applies to all relationships. What works for me, might not work so well for others. For instance, you should see each other as often as possible. But if either of you has way also busy schedules, or it’s a long-distance relationship; this might not be possible. That doesn’t necessarily mean you cannot make it work. On the other hand, loyalty is a necessary constant in all sorts of relationships; even if you’re miles apart. So here are 20 secrets that would help you have the relationship of your life; Know yourself to know others Only when you learn to go dig deep within yourself, you begin to learn about others more as well. You’d know how to reach the very depth of people. The more you allow people to connect with you; then you’d get to know them better in return. You alone are responsible for your feelings Don’t give people the power to control your mind or heart. You’re your own person and perfectly capable of deciding h

Fake orgasms; we all absolutely fear them. What feels worse than finding out your girl has been faking her orgasms all this time? Yeah, we can agree that almost nothing. But pal, do not let it crush you just yet! Yes, there is a solution, and we have got it right here just for you. All you have got to do is stay calm, not freak out, and follow all of our advice on this topic. Enough talk, let us just get right to it. A common confession on women faking orgasm Not all of us actually know it, but women faking orgasms is more common than you might think. It is actually freaky and quite scary. According to a recent investigation by the University of Kansas, 68 percent of women have on occasion pretended to reach the height of sexual arousal. The truth is that thanks to this, they would enjoy greater confidence, self-esteem, and physical health since they are the benefits of acting altruistically. And it is that increasing the pleasure of others without expecting anything in ret

When you are in a happy and healthy relationship it speaks through your general behavior because a good partner enhances your overall well-being and happiness rather than causing undue stress or negativity. Their company brings a lot of positive changes in your life and brings positive changes in your interpersonal relationships with others. So, here’s listing 7 signs that mean they are the onone. 1.Mutual respect​ A healthy relationship is built on mutual respect. If the person treats you with kindness, and consideration, and values your thoughts and feelings, it's a positive sisign. 2. Effective communication ​ Open and honest communication is crucial. If you both feel comfortable discussing your thoughts, emotions, and concerns without fear of judgment, it suggests good communication skills. 3.Shared values and goals​ While you don't need to agree on everything, having similar values and long-term goals can make a relationship smoother. Aligning on important issues like fami

An ex-polygamous man has divorced all his three wives on the same day, making himself a single father of seven children. The Ugandan man, Mutiatya, who claims to have visited 14 countries revealed the reason why he decided to divorce all his wives while being interviewed by Afrimax. He explained that he was tired of his wives’ behavior towards him ever since he lost his job. Mutiatya said that his wives began to disrespect him after he went broke and they had begun having affairs with other men. He said … “The reason I chased them is because of their bad behaviour. At the very beginning, they were all humble and hardworking women who were ready to build a good big family. In the end, they all started misbehaving, something I could never tolerate and the decision was to chase them away. It was harsh but a decent one as they no longer want to be decent women in the house.” He notes that he now makes a living by selling jewelries and any other valuable thing he can lay his fingers on, add

A video shared by an American lady captures her boyfriend’s reactions upon being confronted with evidence of his affair with her best friend, and it has gone viral on social media platforms. The shocking footage portrays a dramatic scene of tearful pleas, bizarre behavior, and a relationship swiftly unraveling. The video, shared by an American young woman who chose to remain anonymous, has generated widespread attention due to the raw emotions and unexpected actions exhibited by the parties involved. In the video, the man is seen crying uncontrollably, adopting a posture of supplication by kneeling before his girlfriend, and offering tearful apologies as the gravity of his actions dawns upon him. The heart-wrenching confrontation unfolded within the confines of the couple’s home, where the lady presented undeniable proof of her boyfriend’s affair with none other than her closest confidante, her best friend. The initial shock and disbelief on the man’s face were palpable as he was confr

Once you realize your spouse is having an affair, you become frustrated, disgusted, sad, and angry. You can choose to end the engagement or mend it. Whichever way you choose, you will undergo several phases of recovery which include the following: 1. Phase one (1 – 6 months) During this phase, you are emotional, in shock, and stressed. You tend to raise many questions and trying to figure out what you were not doing right to make your spouse cheat on you. At this point, your sense of judgment goes down, and you are not able to make rational decisions. You lose your appetite and may lose weight or add a lot of weight if you are the type that eats a lot when stressed.It is essential to keep your close friends close to help you with decision making at this time. They are the people that allow you to cry yourself out and listen to you without judging. The cheating spouse is also adjusting and trying to make you forgive them. Guilt and shame are written all over their faces, and

Are you wondering whether your ex wants to get back with you?  Do you suspect that he’s pretending to be over you?  Are you looking for ways to find out how he feels?  If so, you’re in the right place. This guide reveals 16 common behaviors of men who are pretending to be over their ex.   However, before these are revealed, I urge you to read the following sentences carefully.  It’s usually challenging to get an accurate impression on how your ex is doing after a break-up.  Men are often keen to put on a brave face, rather than reveal their genuine emotions.  The problem is: this makes it difficult for women to reach out and ask for them to come back. After all, no-one wants to be rejected twice…  That’s why I would like to tell you about this powerful online communications tracker.  This intelligent and discreet tool only needs some of your ex-partner’s necessary details to get started.  Once it has these, it can generate a massive database of information regarding his rec

Cheating is a topic that many don’t find comfortable talking about, especially when it comes to women who are unfaithful or who cheat, but let’s face it, some women cheat! Cheating is mostly said to be a man’s thing, where unfaithful men outnumber the ladies, but let’s be honest and real, women nowadays are cheating on their husbands/boyfriends too much, and it has come to a point where we should talk about it. Ama? Well, one would wonder why a lady with dignity would stoop low to sleep with another man who is not her boyfriend or husband. It is for this reason that I sought to get some views from a few ladies and this is what I gathered from the talk. Check out some reasons that may lead a woman would cheat on her spouse. 1. When They Are Bored With Their Sex Life Women can get bored pretty easily, and without some spice in their sex life, one can be lead to trying out something new with another man for more adventure. There are women who want to try out new styles in bed

Sometimes when we are going through a hard time in a relationship, we find it hard to express our feelings in words. We want someone else to explain precisely the things we are feeling. This is when we read articles or quotations written by other people as it makes us feel better knowing someone else out there can explain precisely what we are feeling. The authorities are not always sad; there are quotations about romance, Love as well as intimacy. Reading these quotes, especially when you are struggling in a relationship, can hope that we are not the only ones who are in a tough spot. We develop a bond with the writer that helps us get through the heartbreak. The Ups And Downs Of A Relationship Relationships are no joke! They can be a roller coaster ride, sometimes fun but sometimes leave you begging for mercy. It’s all about the ups and downs. You gotta learn to enjoy the highs and stay healthy during the lows. Here are a few things your girlfriends can do to silently sup

The little naughty at your room every now and then is what keeps the marriage spicy. Sex is often too underrated in its importance in marriages. What people don’t realize is, incoherence and dissatisfying sex life is the root problem that stems from a lot other issues in a troubled marriage. Happy sex life equates a happy married life. There’s no equation and rule to how many times you need to have sex a week. As a general rule of thumb, you should be having sex at least once to twice a week to keep a healthy married relationship going. The frequency of sex life varies, depending on what stages you’re in. For the first year, the “honeymoon” period, is always the most sexually active period for most couples, leading to possible, sex on a daily basis. Followed by a calm period in the following few years, the frequency may drop to twice a week only. Frequency is likely to rock back up to once every other day when you enter the “rekindled period”, usually around the fifth year