3 Things To Do When You Feel Your Man Pulling Away From You



It’s always unfortunate whenever you feel like the guy that you’re in a relationship with is actually pulling away from you somewhat. But the worst part of having him become distant and withdrawn isn’t necessarily that it hurts you.

It’s not even the fear and the terror that you feel that you might end up losing him in the long run. Those are terrible feelings but that’s not the worst part of the situation.

The worst part of the situation is that a woman’s initial instincts to remedy this scenario are often what ends up driving their men away even farther. They actually end up worsening the situation instead of fixing it to be better. This is because a woman’s usual reaction to a man becoming more distant and withdrawn is usually counterproductive. 

So, now that that is out of the way, here are 3 other steps that you need to take if you really want him to come back to you and return to the man that he had been in the relationship before he started pulling away.

1.  Calm down and realize that it’s natural for a man to pull away for a bit.
Don’t freak out. It’s perfectly normal for a man to pull away when the relationship starts getting too serious. It’s just his way of trying to gather perspective for a bit.

2.  Make sure that he realizes that he WANTS to get closer to you again.
You have to let him come to that decision to come back to you on his own. That’s the only way that the two of you can be sure that he genuinely wants to be with you for the long-term.

3.  Communicate calmly and maturely when he reaches out to you again.
When he chooses to come back and bridge that gap between you, don’t antagonize him. Be honest about how you feel but always be sensitive. Make him feel safe and secure with you. 

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