5 reasons he won't let you break up with him
It is always difficult to break up with someone. Even the thought of it brings in a wave of memories and emotions. When you have spent and shared a significant amount of time with someone, it is extremely hard to think of a life without them. Despite all this, relationships don’t always stand the test of time. Sometimes, either partner becomes too toxic towards the other person, making them doubt everything. This leaves them with no choice but to break up with such partners. However, it is not always that easy. They come with one reason or the other and manage to manipulate you into not ending the relationship. If you are also dealing with a similar situation, here are 5 reasons he won’t let you break up with him.
1.He is power-hungryHe is power-hungry
Many people feel valued and confident when they have some amount of power. Whenever you bring up the topic of ending the relationship, if your boyfriend threatens you, and says that he will be the only one who decides when you two are over, then he is power-hungry. He might even walk out, only to reappear after a few days, like nothing ever happened. In such a case, dig deep and get some power of your own. Tell yourself that you have the power in this relationship and in your life.
2.He wants someone to take care of him
It is very natural for a person to feel the need to be taken care of. No matter how successful or independent one is, it always feels good if there is someone to care for them. Taking you for granted, your boyfriend wants you to always look after him. He fears who will take care of him if you leave. Hence, he always manipulates you into staying.
3.He doesn't want to go through the struggle of dating again
The idea of putting himself out again and dating again makes your boyfriend stressed out. The simple question here is that why will he put himself through that, especially if you are taking care of him and getting intimate with him? All his desires are being met, and he is quite comfortable. Thus, stop making his life so cozy. Start going out with your friends rather than sitting around waiting for him.
4.He likes the physical intimacy
He is in a constant fear that if you break up with him, who will satisfy his sexual needs? He will need to put in more effort for it, and that is just too much work. So he will rather pursue you to stay with him.
5.He is egoistic
Your boyfriend might be too egoistic and you breaking up with him rather than the other way round is too embarrassing for him. The idea of facing rejection because of you breaking up with him fills him with dread. Hence, he doesn't want to face it. Failing in another relationship is very hurtful to his pride.
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