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“From The Ashes We Rise” – Alex Ekubo Breaks Social Media Silence After Ex-fiancee, Fancy Acholonu Drama

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Nollywood actor, Alex Ekubo has broken his silence on the aftermath of his social media drama with ex-fiancee, Fancy Acholonu. The light-skinned actor had marked his return to social media after his messy relationship drama. The actor had described the saga as ashes, which he would rise up from. He made this known as he reacted to a fans comment on his page. While sending New Year greetings to his millions of fans, a fan had described the year as The Year of Phoenix. Agreeing with him, Alex Ekubo stated that he is rising from the Ashes. “From the Ashes we Rise”, he wrote. Alex Ekubo had made his first return to Instagram after messy social media drama with his ex, Fancy Acholonu. The actor had been off all social media platforms after his ex-fiancee mercilessly dragged him for manipulating her. Kemi Filani reported that the last time the actor posted on his Instagram page was on December 30, 2022. Taking to Instagram to make his first post for the year, Alex wished his fans a happy new

7 critical mistake men make when approaching women

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Do you know about the common mistakes men make when approaching  women  , and how it affects their chances of getting that coveted date? Getting turned down after you’av summon the courage to walk up to a total stranger because she looks good or appealing can be demoralizing and embarrassing. Other than the unrest and nervous reactions, the feeling of rejection often kills the confidence we have in ourselves and makes us feel like we’re of a lower status or less worthy. But just as you know, not every guy who approaches a woman gets rejected. Why? Because they know what to do and what to avoid. 1. Forgetting a woman’s comfort zone It is important for men to realize that most women  will be on their guard when they first  approach  them. 2. Trying to fool  women Women  know that men are trying to pick them up, so they shouldn’t beat around the bush. Men should be direct and let them know exactly what they want. By doing so, they’ll come across as a confident and straightforward man. 3.

The Love Of Other Women Is What Keeps Me Going

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I have been through some intense changes to my life the last six months – I separated from my husband, graduated from a Master’s program, and just recently filed for divorce. I have had many friends, family, co-workers, and acquaintances reach out to me to provide comfort, encouragement, and support. Their words inspire me and often give me the confidence that I need to keep moving forward. Some days it might not even be moving forward, but moving period. At times, for women, it is easier to tear each other down than for us to support one another and give each other strength.  My decision to leave my marriage was not one taken lightly, but I’ve received nothing but respect from my peers. I hear comments like,  “You are so strong”, “I am so proud of you”, “You are brave for going after what you want” and, “I admire you.” These are certainly not words that I would use to describe myself. I do not feel strong, there are days that it takes every fiber of my being to get out of bed, to plas

Questions To Ask After Six Months Of Dating — What You Need To Know

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Six months of dating is a big milestone, but it doesn’t mark a specific point in the relationship timeline. Some couples are married within six months, while others wait years to even move in together. The important thing is for you and your partner to know where you stand. Here are some questions to ask after six months of dating. Have you met their friends and family?  When you choose to introduce your partner to your family varies widely depending on how far away they live, how close your relationship is with them, and your work schedule, among other things. But if you and your partner are serious about each other, you’ll likely have met at least one family member and many of their close friends. Meeting your partner’s inner circle is part of getting to know them. You can’t fully know who you’re dating until you meet the people they are closest to. Have you defined the relationship?  After six months of dating, you will probably have some hopes and intentions for your relationship.

Girls Feel Loved When A Guy Does Some Of These Things In A Relationship

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Undoubtedly, every guy has a way they use to make their girl feel loved. But the following are all things that count if you want to make a girl feel loved in a relationship. (1). Spend time with her. Spending time together with your partner strengthens a relationship. No matter how caring you are, if you don’t make time to be with your girl sometimes, the love you are showing is not complete. (2). Show appreciation. Appreciation stimulates people to continue their good work. As girls easily feel discouraged, a little sign of appreciation makes them feel motivated. You don’t need a special occasion to tell a girl how grateful you are. Let the words of appreciation be continual in your mouth. (3). Share your plans and goals with her. This creates an assurance that you will spend the rest of your life with her. (4). Listen if she trying to suggest something to you. Girls love it when a guy makes them feel carries along, and listen to their suggestions at times. (5). Do something that you

Signs She Is Pretending To Love You

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“I love you” is really easy to say, anyone can say it to anyone but not everyone means it. So she said she is in love with you? Not sure if she really meant that or she is just faking her  love  . Chances are she is pretending it, many do. Well then how to make it sure? Well, you make it sure by reading these signs she is pretending to love you. The word love means so many different things, depending on the context and the person using it. Continue reading to find out what she meant when she used it on you.  Well, it’s not that difficult to figure it out. First thing you want to see is how helpful she is in the relationship or for you. You are in a relationship with her cause you need her help and support. What’s the point in calling her your girlfriend if she is not going to help you with anything. She helps if she cares. Another thing is she will run away from commitment. She will never show any initiation to take the relationship to the next stage and won’t cooperate when you do. A

Tips for Building a Healthy Relationship

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Want to feel loved and connected to your partner? These tips can help you build and keep a romantic relationship that’s healthy, happy, and satisfying. Building a healthy relationship All romantic relationships go through ups and downs and they all take work, commitment, and a willingness to adapt and change with your partner. But whether your relationship is just starting out or you’ve been together for years, there are steps you can take to build a healthy relationship. Even if you’ve experienced a lot of failed relationships in the past or have struggled before to rekindle the fires of romance in your current relationship, you can find ways to stay connected, find fulfillment, and enjoy lasting happiness. What makes a healthy relationship? Every relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. Part of what defines a healthy relationship is sharing a common goal for exactly what you want the relationship to be and where you want it to go. And t

Better Sex as You Age

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You can have a healthy, rewarding sex life at any age. These tips will help you increase intimacy and enjoyment as you get older. Good sex at any age Sex can be a powerful emotional experience and a great tool for protecting or improving health, and it’s certainly not only for the young. The need for intimacy is ageless. And studies now confirm that no matter what your gender, you can enjoy sex for as long as you wish. Naturally, sex at 70 or 80 may not be like it is at 20 or 30—but in some ways, it can be better. As an older adult, you may feel wiser than you were in your earlier years, and know what works best for you when it comes to your sex life. Older people often have a great deal more self-confidence and self-awareness, and feel released from the unrealistic ideals of youth and prejudices of others. And with children grown and work less demanding, couples are better able to relax and enjoy one another without the old distractions. For a number of reasons, though, ma

How to Enjoy More Fulfilling Sex

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Whether the problem is big or small, there are many things you can do to get your sex life back on track. Your sexual well-being goes hand in hand with your overall mental, physical, and emotional health. Communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, availing yourself of some of the many excellent self-help materials on the market, and just having fun can help you weather tough times. 🍋Enjoying a satisfying sex life Sex. The word can evoke a kaleidoscope of emotions. From love, excitement, and tenderness to longing, anxiety, and disappointment—the reactions are as varied as sexual experiences themselves. What's more, many people will encounter all these emotions and many others in the course of a sex life spanning several decades. But what is sex, really? On one level, sex is just another hormone-driven bodily function designed to perpetuate the species. Of course, that narrow view underestimates the complexity of the human sexual response. In addit

5 signs of a happy relationship

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There are all kinds of relationships in the world. Some are the fun type, some complicated, while some exist solely based on the tag. While we engross ourselves with the different relationships surrounding us, there are some relationships that just seem, pure, happy and content. These type of couples whose bond is as wholesome as their personalities are in fact a rarity. So, we bring to you some common signs of a happy relationship to help you figure out if you’re one of them too! 1.It gives you your own identity In most relationships, couples find themselves slowly getting dependent on each other in terms of likes and preferences. Unknowingly, a person starts to mould their identity in a way that their partner likes. Such relationships slowly turn toxic as either of the partners or both become completely dependent on each other for their existence. However, a true, happy relationship makes you realise your potential as an individual and helps elevate your identity as a person. 2.Accep

Reasons why a relationship can end even when you both love each other

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When it comes to relationships, there are too many variables that you need to take note of if you want yours to last. Apart from just loving each other, you must both be willing to put in the effort for your relationship. On top of it, you're going to need a whole lot of luck so that your relationship doesn't have to go through difficult challenges. Even compatibility is essential in a relationship. That's why it's totally possible for two people to still break up even if they love each other a lot. Here are some reasons that can break your relationship: 1.There are trust issues between you two Trust is something that is going to be just as important as love is. You should be able to trust that your partner is going to be there for you. If you find yourself incapable of doing so, then just your love isn't going to be enough for your relationship to last long. 2.Your future plans don't align Your relationship isn't going to have a future unless you two can ag

8 Questions To Ask Yourself If You’re Falling For Someone Outside Of Your Relationship

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Falling in love is meant to be one of the best feelings you’ll experience. However, falling for someone outside of your relationship is a difficult position to be in and can be destructive and heartbreaking to you and your partner if you let it. However, before you make any major decisions that you’ll only end up regretting, ask yourself these questions. What can the new guy give you that your boyfriend can’t? When you’re considering leaving your boyfriend for another guy, you have to analyze everything. One of those things is determining what the new person might give you that your current boyfriend can’t. Can the things that you are not getting from your current boyfriend be resolved? You have to consider that when you first start dating a guy, he’ll give you all your wants and needs just to impress you to keep you around. If the new guy you’re interested in gets comfortable and stops making a fuss over you, will you still want to be with him? Are you looking for an escape hatch out

19 Things To Say Instead Of “I Love You” If You Just Aren’t Ready Yet

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You’re in a relationship with a really wonderful person and while things have gotten pretty serious, you’re not quite ready to utter the L-word. It’s not necessarily that you don’t feel it, you just want some more time to process and sit with your feelings before you make any big declarations. However, you want to say something to let the person know how much you care about them. If you’re not ready to say “I love you,” here are some alternative options that should do the trick. I’ve never met anyone like you in my whole life.  Obviously tone counts here — you don’t want to sound sarcastic or mention this when they’re doing something that annoys you. Let them know how unique you think they are and how much you love getting to know someone so different from everyone that came before. You make me so happy.  This expression is classic. It’s a lot to say to someone that they’re contributing so much to your happiness. That’s a pretty big well to add to since you’re totally fulfilled and com

11 Signs You Should Never Let Her Go

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Here’s why you should NEVER let her go! True love cannot be found easily, and especially not in today’s world. You see, people are so busy chasing so many things nowadays, that they barely ever stop to fully admire one thing or one person. They’re always trying to find something new, something presumably better. Only a few people actually stick around. Finding someone who genuinely loves you and cares for you is, without a doubt, one of the hardest things to do. Everyone’s running after something; make sure that you find someone willing to take you along with them. A ‘partner’ is literally someone who goes along with you every step of the way. As I mentioned, there are only a few people who actually stick around are worth the wait. If such a person does come into your life, then you should make sure that you hold onto them strongly and fight for them. Hold these people near and dear to your heart. Let them know their worth, make them realize yours. There are sure signs which help you i

How to make a girl fall for you

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Do you wish to know how to make her fall for you? Are you disturbed on how to get her to love you? Are you looking for what to do to make her love you? Well no matter what the case may be, just relax for I will show you what to do for a girl to fall in love with you and love you freely. Dressing  Since you are working towards attracting her and to also make her fall in love with you. I suggest that you start by making changes on your attire and clothes you put on. So that you can easily make her to fall. Also make sure you find out the type of outfits she likes on guys and adjust to it, but not completely just combine yours and the one she likes until she falls. Buy her gifts. Buying her gifts is also a part for you to make him fall for you. In fact if you want to easily get a girl to love you, try to spoil her with gifts. Because women love gifts so much and giving her gifts will make her to have you in mind and she also be thinking about you too. Communicate with her always. Try to a

Dear Men, Don’t Go Into Marriage Without Having These 4 Things in Place

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Marriage is such a beautiful thing most people dream of and everyone wants to be in a happy and peaceful marriage. However, most marriages are not like that. Before you go into marriage, make sure you are prepared enough. Like they say, marriage is a school where you get your certificate before attending the school. As a man, your marriage depends a lot on you. Imagine a man who can’t take care of himself, how will he care for two? It all starts from within. Today I will be sharing with you things that must be in place before you get married. 1. If you know you are yet to have a Stable source of income, I would advise you chill a little before going into marriage. The question is, how will you fend for two when can barely fend for yourself? Your single days are not for you to have fun and while away time. It is the time for you to work on yourself, improve yourself to be the best. If you can take care of yourself, how will you take care of two? If you want to have peace of mind, have m