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Negotiating sex with a more experienced and confident spouse can be difficult and awkward, especially for a young partner. There’s tendency for you to gain confidence as you get older thus, making it a lot easier to negotiate with your lover about your desires and wants. An older partner can be very vulnerable due to divorce/separation or coming out of long term relationships and hooking up with new lovebirds. The Importance of sex negotiation in marriage can’t be downplayed; imagine feeling aroused, but going to partner becomes a problem because of some preconceived reservation (perhaps stereotypical) about whether he/she will be game. Inasmuch as sexual intimacy is important in marriage, it is equally vital to respect one another’s sexual boundaries because no couple will have the same sexual desires: or it’s possible you do but on different levels. Here’s how to negotiate your sexual desires with your significant other when you’re not on the same page for greater intimac

You want to find a meaningful relationship, but sometimes that means you end up putting some pretty intense expectations on the guy you end up dating. Love, respect, and care are must-haves for any solid couple, but your list is much longer than that. In fact, if he wants to do what it takes to be considered a good boyfriend, there are several roles your guy needs to play — and he needs to play them well. Your best friend. Yes, you’ve got your girls (and hopefully you’re still nourishing those relationships), but you still believe that your boyfriend should double as your best friend. He should be one person who can make you smile, make you laugh, and make you feel better after a rough day. It only seems fair. Your nurse. When you’re sick, your boyfriend should be willing to make you soup and plug in the laptop when the battery runs low during your Netflix marathons. He should take you to your doctor and pick up your prescription for you. He doesn’t have to be your caretake

Guinness Record Holder and celebrity chef, Hilda Baci leaves many drooling as she shows off what a soup made with a N60K fish looks like. The celebrated culinarian took to her TikTok page to share the step to step process of making a barracuda fish soup with other proteins like shrimps and snails. Hilda Baci, however, caught the attention of many after revealing the cost of the fish to be worth a whooping N60K. “We call this fish soup at home. Some call it fisherman soup and they are so many recipes to this. I just thought to share one of mine with you. Was it helpful? Will you try it?”  she wrote while sharing the video. Reactions trailing soup made with N60K fish by Hilda Baci DoubleM  said:  “Did I hear 60,000? Abi ear dey pain me?” VICTOR THE VAMP  commented:  “She gave you Guinness World Record price for that fish.” UrIntrovertGf  said:  “Did I hear 60k or 16k? My ear is not working well. Someone should tell me.” Lifestyle_With_Cuss commented:  “Can I be your assistant when cookin

Nollywood actress Stella Damasus has opened up for the first time about how her marriage with her husband Daniel Ademinokan ended. It would be recalled that Stella Damasus and Daniel Ademinokan were once married, but their marriage ended in 2020. Ademinokan was rumored to have moved away from the couple’s home state in the United States of America and ended their marriage. According to both parties, there were irreconcilable differences that caused the union to dissolve. Speaking about how her marriage ended in an interview with Teju Babyface Oyelakin, the actress disclosed that she heard about her crashed marriage on Youtube. She stated that she did not know her husband had left her until she started receiving calls from friends asking her to log on to Youtube. According to her, after watching a series of videos about her crashed marriage online, her husband called her on the phone to announce the end of their marriage. Watch the video below.

Reading a girl’s mind can’t get any easier. Understand these 8 things girls wish guys knew, and you’ll be a charmer and a better lover, all at once. #1 Staring at other girls. If you’re on a date with a girl or spending time with your girlfriend, try to avoid staring at other girls. And if you can’t help yourself, take a quick, casual peek at the girl in the next table and avoid looking at that girl again. Trying to exchange eye contact with another girl is disrespectful and insulting to your date. #2 We love talking about feelings. Almost all the time, as humans, what we say isn’t always what we mean. So instead of just using our imagination to decipher harsh words, accusations and sweet words, girls like talking about it. Have a warm conversation with a girl, and it’ll definitely bring her closer to you. After all, all girls think a great conversationalist is an excellent catch. #3 Chivalry is not dead. Many girls may not like to wait for a guy to hold the door open for them or pull

If want to know how to get a guy to like you, there's one thing you need to stop doing: Here are the 5 most common early dating mistakes women make. 1. Calling him before he calls you. This includes calling him because you heard or read about something interesting. Or maybe you knew there was a great band playing somewhere and thought he might like it. Or someone told you about some great event that you want to invite him to or — anything at all. It also includes calling to ask why he hasn’t called you. Instead, wait for him to call you and this will show that he has an interest in you and actually wants to see you again. 2. Thinking you can change him. If you're going out with a guy who you know has something that you think you could help with or treat him like your new project then that's going to scare him away immediately. Never date a guy intending to change him for the better or stay in a relationship because you think he will change over time. That's not the case

We’ve had a lot of articles on things people do, but this one is going to be about things people don’t do. Successful relationships are developed over some time. They are nurtured with trust, respect, love, and sincerity. To make a relationship healthy and flourishing, you need to put in deliberate efforts. Achieving a healthy relationship requires positive contributions from both the partners. Maintaining fruitful relationships is an ongoing struggle. A study was carried out on several couples who are enjoying flourishing relationships. The research result reveals some of the most amazing secrets of having a happy life with your partner. We have listed down these tips that can help you build a lasting and robust relationship bond with your significant other. There are do’s and don’ts for everything in every relationship. Here are some of the most common things people don’t do in a successful relationship. 1. Don’t Rush For A Better Future – Appreciate The Present Pleased couples live

Sex is an important part of every relationship but there are always a few questions that can bother everyone such as…. How can you tell if a night of passion was as good for him as it was for you? Did you bring on your A-game or did you bore him to death? He probably won’t tell you the truth about your performance, especially if you sucked. So, if you are not sure if you’re bragging about being good in bed for no reason, check out some of the tell-tale signs to get rid of your doubt for good. You have a natural groove that cannot be learned, or to quote Shakira: “You know my hips don’t lie”. Your hips don’t lie either. If you can dance, you’re probably good in bed. Everyone knows that passionate nights require some serious moves to make them memorable. If you got it, you will rock it! But, there’s always the other side of the story. I hate to break it to you, but if you are glued to a wall every time you’re on a dance floor, guys won’t ‘boogie’ with you, if you catch my dri

Popular actress, Nancy Iheme rolls around excitedly after Sandra Iheuwa‘s lover, Morachi publicly announced the end of their few-months-old relationship. Earlier, it was reported that the Nigerian musician took to his Instagram page to publicly declare himself single after it was reported that he and the businesswoman were in a relationship. He had maintained that any information alleging that he’s in a relationship from today onwards is false. Nancy Iheme who had had a fall out with Sandra earlier this year was extremely thrilled with this news. She rolled around her room, kicking the air in her excitement as she laughed at Sandra Iheuwa’s misfortune. Nancy derided Sandra Iheuwa saying that they’ve removed her from the relationship. Watch video below… View this post on Instagram A post shared by Instablog9ja (@instablog9jamedia)  

Your heart tells you one thing, and you want to listen to it so badly, but your mind interferes and stops you. Your mind is the voice of reason, the voice of what should be right, but your heart wants to do things on its terms. Although you know you should listen to what the right part of you is saying, you can’t help but listen to your emotions, to something you want to do, and not something you should do just because it’s right. You got your heart broken so many times, so you built this cold and harsh exterior to prevent that from happening ever again. You’ve become strong and not because you wanted to, but because you had to. Once, you wore your heart on your sleeve. Once, you gave everyone a second chance. Once, your soft heart was out there for everyone to see. But someone used your kindness, and someone used your fragile and loving heart, and they made you close up and hide in your suffering. You denied anyone from having just a peek into what was deep inside of you.

Men are quite different when it comes to expressing or sharing feelings. I can say that they are not much communicative.  But that doesn’t mean that they conceal their emotions and later come up with unnecessary drama. It is like they want to keep some emotions to themselves only. There can be different reasons for it. In this article, you will learn Why Does A Men Hide His Feelings When He’s Very Interested. I will focus on the topic of men hiding their feelings when they are interested in you. It would help you out in determining if he really likes you or not. The rest depends on you. Let’s have a look at some important points that are linked with the physiological aspect of men hiding their feelings for someone they are interested in. Is He Scared To Lose Your Friendship By Going Further? Men have feelings too, it’s just their way of expressing which is totally different from women. According to behavior experts, men want to retain their image of masculinity. Regardless,

I am well aware that you have been through so much in your life that you want to be sure about your current partner. Asking questions like, “Is he going to treat me well enough?” “Is he going to respect me?” or, “Does he love me?” are very common, mostly if you’ve gone through a severe heartbreak. You can never know for sure if the relationship will work out and if you will stay together forever, but there are some obvious signs that he will treat you just the way you deserve with little everyday gestures. 1.  He doesn’t just love your body. He loves your mind too. He loves to compliment you on your body, how beautiful you are to him, but he will also compliment your brain when you say something that blows his mind. Also, as much as he nourishes your body by making you dinner, he has no problem buying you a book to show you that he cherishes your mind so much that he wants to expand it. 2.  He includes you in his plans. There is nothing more superior to him than you, so he

Former Level Up housemate Doyin David has confirmed the dating rumors surrounding Neo Akpofure and her friend, Beauty Tukura. The confirmation came after a viral video surfaced showing the duo at a hotel, sparking speculations among netizens. Earlier this month, it was reported that a budding romance was developing between Neo and Beauty, as eagle-eyed fans spotted them together at a hotel. Although the video did not capture them side by side, viewers alleged that they had been spending time together inside the hotel for several days. During a heartfelt conversation in the house, emotions ran high after the Saturday night party when Ilebaye, another housemate, broke down in tears in the privacy of the toilet. Ilebaye confessed her feelings for Neo and expressed concern that he seemed upset with her, claiming that he accused her of not being there for him when he needed her the most. In a moment of solace, Doyin comforted Ilebaye and revealed that Neo was indeed in a serious romantic re

The idea of a committed relationship always scared the hell out of me. I’m a highly independent woman and I always thought you could either have independence or a relationship, not both. Of course, I was wrong — you can absolutely be a great girlfriend and a badass independent woman at the same time. You don’t have to compromise either of them — you just need to find a balance. Have your own interests. This is one of the most important things — you need your own hobbies and interests that you love, not your boyfriend’s. It’s fine to share an interest with him or pick up something new that you never knew about previously, but don’t give up your own passions for the sake of the relationship. Take time for yourself. Yes, you still need time to yourself when you’re in a relationship. I love having some much-needed alone time. I don’t feel the need to be around him 24/7, and it’s actually made our relationship better because of it. Stay yourself, no matter what. It’s easy to get sucked into

He’s definitely Mr. Right! This one is for the ladies, another one will be posted tomorrow for men. So you’ve spent a substantial amount of time with your boyfriend and want to take things to the next level, this article is going to help you in that decision-making process. Let’s begin. 8. He tells you to have your “Girls Nights” This is something I haven’t seen in a lot of men but it should be more common than it already is. A guy who pushes you to have girls’ nights is a guy who knows how essential your girls are for you and he knows you need to spend your own “me time” with them to stay happy. It also means that he isn’t a need freak who can’t see you have fun on your own without him being there. Hold in mind, a guy is writing this article and I tell my girlfriend to go out with her girls all the time. It’s a very healthy trait to have for men. 7. He understands you, completely When I say “understand”, I don’t just mean that he knows your likes and dislikes. Anyone who spends a few

Your BFF confessed she’s been cheating on her boyfriend. You’re shocked, horrified and don’t know how to deal. Should you be completely supportive or should you tell her to stop her shady behavior or else your friendship is over? It doesn’t have to be so extreme. Here’s what you should do instead. Be honest. She’s your best friend, so she’ll value your honesty. Tell her what you really think. Yes, she’s being unfair to her partner. Yes, she risks wrecking her life. Getting real with her will help her to figure things out and hopefully get a reality check, but give it to her kindly. Focus on support. She’s opened up to you about something really personal, so don’t lecture her. The last thing she needs is for you to tell her she always picks such idiots for boyfriends or she’s a huge commitment-phobe. Even though she’s cheating on her partner, it doesn’t mean she’s going through a blissful time. She’s probably torn up about what she’s doing, so she needs support. Don’t enable

Getting down is seen as the pinnacle of intimacy, but that’s not exactly true. There are a lot of ways to bond with someone, as I recently found out. I slept in the same bed with a guy and we didn’t have sex, and I’ve actually never felt closer to someone in my life. Sleeping next to someone you like is really special and this experience proved it. I wasn’t ready for anything more. It was early on in our relationship. We’d been dating for a few weeks and I just didn’t feel ready to take our relationship to the next level. I like to be sure that the guy I’m with is looking for more than a quickie, y’know? So, one night when I stayed over at his house, I fell asleep during a movie and he suggested I spend the night. I hesitated, but he was quick to clarify that we didn’t have to do anything. I was tired and he seemed sincere so I agreed to sleep over. I really liked the guy and felt I could trust him. I also liked being with him and didn’t feel like going back home. He suggested I sleep

If you want to win in the game of love, you have to learn how to play smart rather than hard. While it’d be great if every guy you met was on the same wavelength as you about what he wants in a relationship, that’s just not the reality. That doesn’t mean you can’t meet someone amazing and find your own happily ever after, but you’ll have to up your game. Here’s how to stop being disappointed by men once and for all. Never need a guy. You’re so much better than that. You don’t need to be desperate for love. Instead, you need to find a way to be content with the single life. You can still want a relationship, but you don’t need one to survive and that’s going to make all the difference. Don’t go back to your ex. He doesn’t deserve another chance. You broke up for a reason, so don’t forget that reason just because you’re feeling particularly lonely. That loneliness is just a state of mind and it’s going to pass. Your ex doesn’t deserve you. Instead, hold out for a man who does because set

The Attraction of Cougar Women Admit it, most of us find it normal when, in a couple, a man is older than the woman or both are the same age. A relationship where the man is younger was not even something widely accepted in the past.  Fortunately, today, people have a more open mind, and things like age difference no longer play an essential role when it comes to talking about love. According to an in-depth survey conducted by an online platform, it was found that 27% of young men are attracted to older women. The same survey also revealed that 9% of single people would probably look for couples ten years older or younger than themselves. I bet you didn’t even think the numbers were so large! 8 Reasons Men Don’t Tell On Why They Love Cougar Women! It may seem surprising, but many men are attracted to older women for different reasons. It is just that they basically keep it in secret and say nothing about it. We have decided to shed some light on this mystery and help you understand wha