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There are hundreds of things that come into play in order to decide whether a relationship is going to last or not. Compatibility, shared interests, respect for each other, love, etc. are a few factors among them. Though these are very important, they are the obvious ones. Apart from them, there are a few factors that are quirky but can predict if you will stay together or not. Here is a look at some of them. 1.You speak each other’s languages Learning to speak your partner’s language is a really important way to bond. It shows that you are actually listening and understanding each other. So, it is important to figure out that language so you can speak to your partner in a way that promotes growth and shows engagement with their interests. 2.You tease each other playfully According to a 2018 study published in the Journal of Research in Personality, couples who enjoy playfully teasing each other, are often much happier in their relationship. It can be a great way to connect. Also, it’s

What Is A Tough Girl? A tough girl is upfront about everything in her life except when she is in love. Tough girls find it hard to open up, especially about their feelings. When she falls in love with you, she has a hard time admitting to herself. Outwardly, she looks tough, but in the real sense, she has a very soft interior. Tough girls are only comfortable where they feel safe; therefore, until she feels safe, she can be very cold. Her emotions are caged, and not let out easily which she uses as a protection mechanism and makes her feel. 5 Reasons Why People Fall In Love With The Tough Girl 1. She’s a go-getter Tough girls know what they want, and with that in mind, they do everything within their reach to achieve the same. Whenever she has her goals set, she works towards them and actively pursues them. At times the pressure to pursue the goals may render them forgetting when to slow down, and you will need to be there to show a little support. 2. She is confident  A tough girl is

The mainstream media has corrupted our mindsets on what’s attractive and what’s not. Everything that we used to know has been replaced with materialistic things which have a price but no value. One thing we all stumble over is what the opposite sex finds attractive. For a man, people think that it’s all about muscle and that perfect jawline whereas many women would prefer many other things over this. Women on the other hand think that men prefer what’s ‘sexy’ on the outside. True, some women do it for themselves too but when it comes to a strong relationship, there are many other things in play. There are so many things women have misjudged on attracting men. This article gives you six things that will hopefully make you consider some legit attractive things. 1. Realness. If you act fake in front of your date to get them to like you, then you have no idea what havoc you’ll bring about. You pretended to be someone you’re not for the sake of that one date but what if the guy

If you learn how to keep a text conversation going, and have a fun conversation, you can get close to anyone you like and impress anyone you want. Try this! #1 Be yourself.  If you’re used to texting sarcastically, then that’s your style and you shouldn’t change it. This person will learn and get used to the way you text if they like you. Though, I do want to tell you to write with proper words, don’t text like you’re in Junior High School. I mean, “brb” and “idk” are outdated. #2 Know when to pull out.  If you feel the conversation is dying, end it. Just end it before the flame goes out. This doesn’t mean you lost your chance with this person, this just means the conversation ended. Tell them you should get to work or that you have something to do. Then, text them later. But, if you end the conversation, let them know instead of just disappearing. #3 Bring up details from past conversations.  If they spoke to you about the shirt they bought yesterday or the exam they had last week, as

Do you know the meaning of true love? It is said to fall in love is very easy, but to maintain that love relation forever is not everyone’s cup of tea. Love is a pure feeling. Love is something you can’t negotiate with. It’s essential for you, just like oxygen is. If your love connection is strong, you will be happy both mentally and physically. Love brings out the glow and charm in your face. Love is something which you don’t have to express it or you don’t have to prove it from time to time. It is a feeling that is conveyed without words. It’s a person’s actions that say how much they love you, they will show you with every move of theirs. Those small gestures to make you feel special, those special moments spent with each other, those small fights. These are signs of true love and signs that say you are so lucky to have found true love in today’s life. True love is very hard to find. If you get it, cherish every moment of it. But does love last forever? You have surely h

Rarely does it happen that both the partners share equal amounts of power and respect in a relationship. And even then, the balance may shift to either side now and again. No one would mind having the upper hand. What troubles people is when their partners enjoy more power in the relationship, due to a number of reasons. Relationships ought to be equal partnerships. And here are a few things you could do to restore the balance of power and respect in your relationship; Be vocal about your needs You shouldn’t shy away from being upfront about your needs and wants. If something doesn’t seem right, talk about that as well. Don’t expect them to read your mind and figure everything out on their own. If there is something you need or want from them or the relationship,  tell them! If you don’t do so, they’d think that you’re happy with the way things are and wouldn’t want them to be any different. The relationship would go on in the same manner, while you would find it unfulfilli

To Chase Or Not To Chase? Only a novice at dating would agree that women can sometimes be complicated in their expressions of emotion. Sometimes they cry when what they mean to do is to laugh. At another time, they mean what they show or say. And for you, the guy, you become somewhat confused because what you expect is not what you see. Should you give up on that lady or chase her? Don’t worry also much. As most ladies share a lot in common when it comes to dating, all you have to look out for between you and her are some signs. This way, you will have no difficulty deciding whether to chase her or not. Never Mind Your Friends, The Chase is Worth It So, you are considering listening to your friends’ advice to let her go. After all, they say, there are many other alternatives. You don’t need to follow that path. Quality relationships surely demand quality effort. If you don’t do the chasing, somebody else will. And come to think of it, we all chase something in life, even th

Breakups, heartbreak, and rejection are tough to handle; it’s difficult to heal from heartache. Learning how to get over someone you can’t have is hard, because you may have “the grass is always greener” syndrome. According to the Cambridge Dictionary, people who suffer from “the grass is always greener” think other people have it better than they do. It’s a saying about being envious, but it’s why we always believe the other way is more appealing. We want what we can’t have, and if we could have it, we would find fault with it. This is why it’s so hard to accept that we just cannot have someone. It’s hard to rationalize with ourselves, explaining that it’s unrealistic to want this person who we can’t have for whatever reason because our feelings trump our minds. But you can take control of your feelings! Believe me, I’ve done it! You eventually learn how to handle your feelings and  let go of the cause of your heartache . So, how can we best let go of the unattainable pers

If you’re in this kind of relationship, you need to start packing your bags. It’s pretty easy to spot a disheveled relationship; you cannot live a damaged, hurt life. It’s better to let go of a relationship if it brings you more pain than comfort. It might be a difficult decision to take but trust me; it’s going to be all worth it in the end, not only for you but for your partner too. There are sure things a relationship just cannot function without. Is your relationship worth holding on to? Go through the list and see for yourself. 1. No acceptance in the relationship Acceptance is the foundation of lasting relationships. A good partner is one who accepts you for who you are, rather than transforming you into someone who he/she wants you to be. Everyone has their negative and positive traits, but a good partner would usually be more accepting of all your flaws. Your partner doesn’t have to enjoy doing things that are essential to you, or things you love doing, but they sho

Classic Signs of Infidelity in Wife in a Marriage When the nagging thoughts of questioning your wife’s behavioral change are constantly in your mind and you cannot shake the feeling of suspicion, you probably do not want to shrug that off as jealousy. What, she now takes more time preparing herself, puts on more makeup than before, and goes the extra mile to smell and look good? She is now happier than you’ve ever seen her and you have even caught her a couple of times giggling to herself. Her job is now as busy as ever and that’s why she has to stay behind to finish up on the extra work. Well dude, your wife might be cheating on you. However, you cannot go raising claims against her without proof of your wife’s infidelity, as you could end up making false allegations. You also wouldn’t know if she is telling the truth when you confront her. Not to mention, finding out that your wife has been unfaithful is something devasting and handling such a truth would be difficult. So

You remember how it all began, how you could not stay away from each other and how time seems to run faster when you are in each other’s arms. During those times you just wish you could regulate what’s going on between you two by pressing the pause button so that the moment can last forever. Now, it’s a different ball game altogether, you are asking where did all the love go? What happened to love? Is my mate tired of me? You wish someone would tap you on the shoulder and say “look at me, I’m ‘love’ and I’ve come to stay”. How to fall back in love with your partner is the question you should be asking now. It may seem difficult and involve a lot of work and fixing here and there but you can succeed in falling back in love again with your mate. We will be exploring some tips on how to get love back in a relationship. It could be your marriage or even a relationship you have been involved in for some time now, it happens that where you seemed to be connected starts to show si