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1. He is inconsistent with his time and effort. There are times wherein he really shows up and he acts all sweet with you; and then there are times wherein he will disappear off the map. You don’t know what you’re going to get with him at all. He’s always so hot and cold with how he treats you.  2. He replies to your texts; but he takes a long time to do so. Sure, he replies to your messages. But he doesn’t really show any sense of urgency. It’s more like he’s only replying to you out of courtesy. And he doesn’t even want to take time out of his schedule to reply to you in a prompt manner. 3. He only ever wants to hang out with you in a group setting. He likes spending time with you; but not in an intimate setting where it’s just the two of you. It always has to be a group. He doesn’t want to make it seem like you are getting really hot and serious about being together. He just wants things to remain casual. 4. He changes the topic whenever you want to define your relationship. He alwa

All relationships are going to have their fair share of problems. It’s normal. You’re not going to have a perfect relationship with anyone you meet. It’s impossible. Even the most influential couples are going to have to endure a few hardships. It’s all a matter of how couples can address their issues and tackle their problems. The strongest relationships aren’t the ones that don’t have issues at all – they are the ones who do whatever it takes to save their romance despite the hardships. A relationship is never going to be a walk in the park. Whether you’re in a marriage or any kind of long-term relationship with someone, you know the amount of time, dedication, effort, and commitment to making sure that the relationship doesn’t die. You need to spend a substantial amount of time and effort into making sure that a person’s needs and expectations are being met. You need to be doing everything in your power to minimize the resistance and friction in your relationship. It’s been said tha

1. He is always prioritizing his friends over your relationship. Granted, he doesn’t necessarily have to make his entire life just about your relationship. That would be foolish. That would place too much pressure on your relationship. That’s the kind of codependency that creates toxic relationship environments. But that doesn’t mean that he should be completely disfavoring your relationship all the time. He should still be able to make you feel like a priority in spite of everything else going on in his life. 2. He refuses to make compromises for you and the relationship. Compromises are absolutely essential in any relationship. And if you have a guy who just refuses to make compromises for you and your romance, then he’s not a guy who is worth fighting for in any capacity. The reason why compromises are important is that relationships aren’t always going to offer couples perfect conditions. The both of you are going to be tested. You are both going to be forced to adapt and change a

Don’t be that stupid guy who doesn’t know a good woman when he sees her. If you don’t see the value of your woman, you will most certainly end up taking her for granted and she will not react well to that. Value her like the queen that she is. So how do you know when you’ve managed to land a good woman? There are a few signs that you could be on the lookout for. 1.  You have great rapport and emotional chemistry. Chemistry is very important in any relationship. Each of us as individuals will have our good and bad qualities. It’s only normal. The key in being in a balanced and steady relationship with someone is if our individual personalities manage to complement each other well. That’s why it’s important for men to never let go of women they have great chemistry with.  2.  You think alike. Another great indicator of longevity in the relationship is if the both of you think alike. When your girl is somehow able to know how you’re thinking or feeling at a particular situation, then that

1. She has been hurt so much before. She is a girl who has been hurt and betrayed so many times in the past. She has tried her hand at love and she has lost multiple times. She put herself out there but none of it really paid off. She took some risks but they all ended up failing her. And she’s so tired of getting hurt at this point. She doesn’t want to get hurt anymore.  2. She is a very complicated human being. She knows that she is a very complex That’s why she doesn’t really believe that anyone could ever love her anymore. She knows that people are just bound to be put off by her personality. She believes that her eccentricity is going to be her biggest weakness. 3. She is very strong and independent. She is also strong and independent. She has convinced herself that she doesn’t really need to be in a relationship for her to find happiness. She knows that she doesn’t need to be with a man for her to find success in life. She knows that she is perfectly fine of just standing on her

1. You have to work hard at persuasion There is no harm in having excellent persuasion skills. In fact, I encourage it. Similarly, having a reward-based system is great too if that’s what works for you. “You do the dishes,” you tell him, “I’ll treat you in ways beyond your imagination in the bedroom.” But when you are constantly having to make an inordinate amount of effort to persuade someone to do something that shouldn’t require much effort, then something is not quite right. Having to bend over backward just to gain someone’s approval, threatening someone to get them to comply, and growing accustomed to rejection are all indicative of a relationship that’s being forced. 2. You make all the compromises You generally do what he/she likes, you go out when he/she likes, you even work your career around his/her needs. You are so used to hearing ‘no’ for most things, you’ve grown weary of even thinking of what you would like to do. Sacrificing your happiness has become the norm in your r

There have been several reports by scientist that suggests that sex is a pleasurable experience for most women. They say there is a lot going on in the body that makes sex feel good. One can say it was out of such good feeling that a lady identified as Shamiso Dohunye after engaging in a steamy d0ggie-style sex session with her best friend whose name has also been given as  Naison Chimusoro, forcefully begged him to marry her, but the friend denied. This did not go down well with his best friend as she began to send him very bitter and denunciation attacks via WhatsApp messages. The devastated male friend disclosed, “After I had a very steamy sex session with my best friend Shamiso Duhunye, she told me that she enjoyed so much after that she suggested that I marry her saying she loves me, but I refused her demand and requested that we remain good friends. But she got angry at that and is started accusing me of using her.” Shamiso Duhunye after noticing that she had failed to lure Naiso

Texts To Help Win Back Your Ex Texting can be an  extremely  effective method of establishing rapport, trust, and attraction with your ex… if executed correctly. BUT… Beware! If you have no idea what you’re doing, then texting your ex can be a one-way ticket to  “staying single and looking desperate” . So, that’s what I’m going to teach you in this article:  how to use a handful of sneaky text messages to change your ex’s mind about the breakup, and eventually decide (on their own!) to take you back. Texting Your Ex: Is It The Best Way To Communicate? A lot of clients ask me,  “should I call or text my ex?” Personally, from my 12+ years of experience as a breakup coach, I believe texting is a much safer way to communicate with your ex. It doesn’t require you to have a full-blown, face-to-face conversation and it’s extremely non-invasive. Your ex is free to reply to you whenever he or she wants, and you’re able to reply to your ex’s text whenever you want to. This sort of dy

When things go bad, it is always wise to remember that tough times don’t stay forever. Stick by your partner’s side and get through the bumpy road; you’ll eventually come out smiling. Relationships won’t always be perfect because human beings are just inherently imperfect. We’re all bound to screw something up at anything we try, and relationships are not immune to our imperfections. Whenever you find yourself in a serious relationship with someone, it’s reasonable for you to expect that things won’t always go as smoothly as you like. Your relationship will have its high points and its low points. The key is to weather the storm during troubling times and make sure that you still have a relationship worth keeping despite the bumps and bruises. You always want to make sure that you’re maintaining a team effort to make your relationship work. It can be a lot of baggage for one person to handle alone. A lot of times, a relationship can leave you feeling suffocated and exhausted. Is it sti

Know the difference. For plenty of people, dating is the one vehicle that they can use to land themselves in a relationship. And so you might try your hand at dating because you’re willing to take a chance on love. And you might get lucky on your first try or you might have to wade through your share of terrible relationships for a bit; but eventually, you might find someone who really has a chance of making things work with you. You meet someone you are absolutely smitten by and you start to emotionally invest yourself into the relationship. But then, the deeper you get into the relationship, your insecurities start to creep up as well. Maybe the novelty of the early relationship has started to wane a little bit and the doubts are beginning to become more prominent. Is this really a relationship you can sustain? Is he really the kind of guy who is worth taking a chance on? Can you trust him to take care of your heart when you give it to him? These are all very valid questions that you

Here are promises men are quick to make but will probably break: 1. He promises never to check any other girls out: First of all, it’s impossible to keep your eyes on everyone in the world. Its very natural to look at people. However, your man will promise you he will never take a look at girls, and you’re the only one he will lay his eyes on. The truth is, he WILL look at girls. He will steal a look at the girl passing him by just like you would do when there’s some guy who you think is super attractive. The next time he promises you not to expect him to be human about it. Sometimes he will keep this promise, but other times he won’t. 2. He promises he will never stop doing things that he did to win you over Remember when he did super sweet and special things for you back when the two of you were only starting to get to know each other? He’s a keeper if he keeps his promises, but most men will stop doing those things somewhere down the road. Its human nature to stop being as excited a

When a relationship isn’t meant to be, it just isn’t meant to be. That’s a concept that a vast majority of us have to learn to stomach – no matter how hard it might be. Just because a relationship is off to a great start doesn’t mean that it’s going to be destined for a happy ending. It doesn’t work like that. There are just too many factors to take into consideration when determining the strength and longevity of a relationship. Sometimes, even when the love and effort are present, the relationship still fails to go all the way. And as sad as that might be to comprehend, it’s the truth – and we all have to come face to face with the truth if we want to be mature about it. Relationships aren’t easy. Love isn’t easy. Don’t believe those who tell you that true love is always going to be easy. It’s not. But that’s okay. Nothing in life that is worth having ever comes easily. So you always have to make sure that you are exerting as much effort and commitment into your relationship as much

1.  Flirt to let the guy know you like him It may not be enough to sit pretty and expect the guy to show interest in you just because you look like a princess. To show him that you are interested, why don’t you try flirting with him? Complimenting a guy will help to boost his ego.The moment you make a guy feel special, he will start noticing you. If you tell him that he looks like a certain handsome celebrity, that’s a great start to helping him figure out that you like him. You need to be careful not to show much interest in the dude. Instead, you can casually comment on things like his new hairstyle or his awesome 6-pack. You need to let him know that you would like to spend more time with him without being very obvious.  2.  Use eye contact to let the guy know you like him One of the best ways that you can show a guy that you like him is by maintaining eye contact in a seductive way. The moment you look a guy straight in his eyes before shifting your gaze, this will leav

Falling in love is such an amazing and complex experience. On one level, it’s the single most beautiful experience that you could ever share with another human being. And on another level, it’s also the most frightening and bravest ordeal that you could ever put yourself through on an emotional level.   Yes, you are allowing yourself to get closer and closer to another person, but you are also opening yourself up and making yourself more vulnerable to this individual. And not all relationships have positive pay-offs. You really do risk your feelings when you fall in love but ultimately, you know that it’s worth it.   And women tend to be much better at dealing with the matters of the heart than men are. They know just how to manipulate men into falling for them even without being completely overt and forward. Sometimes, you might be just hanging out with a girl and she’s already putting the moves on you without you even knowing it. But there are also some men that are perce

And that’s why an article like his is important. It can serve as a valuable reminder of you to always stay thankful for all the great things that your girl does for you. If you have a girl who is guilty of a lot of the things that are listed here, then you should know that she’s an amazing woman. And she is definitely worth holding on to. 1. She always pushes you to be the best version of yourself. She is constantly pushing and motivating you to be the best possible version of yourself. She is always inspiring you to be better. She truly sees a lot of potential in you. She really believes that you can make something of yourself. And that’s why she always pushes you.  2. She stays honest with you about everything in life. She really stays honest with you about anything and everything. She never wants you to feel like you have to doubt or question what she tells you. She always wants you to know that you can always trust her whenever she tells you something. 3. She doesn’t ac

Have you ever been in an “emotionless relationship”? It happens. Two people can fall in love with one another, get into a relationship, and then eventually, the feelings fade into nothingness. And when that happens, they break up. They fall out of love. It’s unfortunate, but it still does happen. And the reasons why you could potentially fall out of love with your partner could vary. It’s a case-to-case kind of thing. It depends on the nature of the relationship and the personalities of the two people who are involved in it. But still, the subtle pain of realizing that you’re in a relationship with someone who you aren’t genuinely in love with can sting. It can feel like you’ve somehow lost your footing on a steep slope, and you’re fighting like hell to keep yourself from stumbling down completely. But as fate would have it, you fell and you stumbled all the way done into a feeling of nothingness. There are some cases where people just outgrow their relationships. And it’s

Heartbreak may be a natural aspect of everyday life, but that doesn’t mean that everyone is equipped to handle it when they have to go through it. You may be feeling like your whole world is ending. Your voice may be cracking and your hands might be shaking as you struggle to make sense of everything that is going on. You are grasping at anything you can grab hold of to give you a sense of stability and safety. You are slipping but you’re desperately trying to hold on.  It’s really painful to go through what you’re going through right now . And even the people you love; the people you reach out to for help and support; their hearts are breaking for you as well. They are also in pain as they see you struggling with your pain. They hurt as they see you feeling the hurt in your life as well. And it’s because your pain is so real; is so genuine, that somehow, one’s heart can’t help but break once they see you in the state that you’re in. You look like you’re a complete mess and

1.  They gravitate towards you Do you notice him or her gravitating towards you? When someone gravitates towards you, it means that this person has been thinking about you.  2.  They get playfully touchy Yes, this person cannot hide the fact about what he or she wants from you. They subconsciously touch you. He or she gets playfully touchy. They find every opportunity to touch you when they are with you.  3.  They always fix themselves around you They just want to cancel all of their schedules just to be with you, it doesn’t matter how important those schedules are. They just want to get attached around you. They can be available from morning till night with you. It can only mean that they are thinking about you. 4.  They subconsciously lick their lips around you. Have you recently noticed someone licking his or her lick around you? If the answer is yes, it means they want to sleep with you. They are subconsciously doing that with them unknowingly because you’ve been in their thoughts

It’s no secret that women typically have significantly tricky times trying to read men. Men aren’t always so expressive and open about how they feel. And it can be a struggle for women when all they want to do is know what their men think about their relationships. Of course, when you’re in a relationship with a guy, you would always want to know where his mind and his heart are at. You will want to know if he’s just as invested in the relationship as you are. You want to make sure that you aren’t taking things too seriously, even if he’s just taking a casual approach to things. You so desperately want for the both of you to be on the same page, but he’s making it just so difficult for you. If only there were a way for you to figure out just how committed he is to you without having to wait for him to open up about it. Commitment is important. No relationship could ever survive without it. But it’s also scary. You don’t want to be committing to something that isn’t built to last, after