7 Guide Tips To Choose A Life Partner

Choose your life partner wisely, something that you could have heard in your growing up years. You were told that having the right partner would be the key to all your happiness. 

But chances are you were never told how to choose a life partner or what qualities to look for in a life partner. Choosing the right partner may not be an easy job because it’s hard to find everything you want in one person.

And it’s equally hard to give you answers to the question when you ask how to choose a life partner? Here are some tips to guide you;

1.   Can you be yourself around them?

Just see if they can accept you exactly as you are without the make-up and shave. Also if they are okay with the kind of life you used to lead maybe, hanging out with friends, travelling for work.

2.   Does communication flow like breeze?

There is no problem in one person being an introvert and the other n extrovert, the question is does your communication flow when talking with them? Communication is key for the success of the marriage.

3.   How different are you?

For instance, you both could be into books but your choice of books could be very different. It’s very important to know how different you are in order not to live a boring life with them.

 

4.   What kind of attraction do you feel for each other?

There is no doubt that sexual attraction wanes over time and it’s the mental and emotional connection that cements a relationship. But physical incompatibility can become a big issue in a marriage.

5.   What’s the financial status and social standards?

It is not always important to be from the exact same social status, but having a similar financial and social standard helps in thriving together.

6.   Are you expecting perfection?

If you are expecting perfection in your life partner then that’s a cardinal mistake you are making. Nobody is perfect. But it depends on how much imperfection you are willing to accept.

7.   Does your partner respect you?

Mutual respect helps a relationship sail through the ups and downs of marriage. You would stand up for each other, support each other, and be there for each other if there is respect.