How to date a girl using humor

Now before you ever try to date a girl using humor, you need to know how to make a girl laugh and have a great time when she’s around you.

Now humor and wit is not something that can be developed overnight. It takes a lot of time. In fact, it’s harder to learn to be funny than every other trick in the book to impress women. But at the same time, humor and wit is something that can make you popular and loved by everyone, not just the woman you’re trying to attract. 

To be the popular guy and get any girl you want by making her laugh, you need to be witty and charming all at once. Think Russell Brand, Adam Sandler and Hugh Grant. They’re all exceptionally talented funny men with their own styles of humor. And the best part, no matter what kind of humor you pick, you can always end up with the girl.

How to make a girl laugh

To be a funny guy, always look at the bright side of everything and try to find a funny side to everything that happens around you. Being funny isn’t just about what you say, it’s also how you behave when you say something. While it’s never easy to preach about humor, for starters, watch a few standup comedians in their finest hour. You’ll be able to pick up a few beginners tips in no time. 

Why does making a girl laugh work so well?

Humor is a great ice breaker, no matter where you are. It works at a party, in the office and with women too. When a guy approaches a girl, the tension starts to build almost instantly at the introduction. The girl’s on her guarded best, assuming you may be a cocky wannabe who’s going to try and pick her up.

But instead of trying to show her that you’re a wise guy, if you reveal your funny side almost immediately, you’d be able to ease the tension and any girl you talk to will warm up and lose her inhibitions in no time.

The best kind of humor to woo a girl

As soon as you’re introduced to the girl you like, be warm and friendly. You don’t need to turn on your bad boy charm here. You’re trying to play the nice guy.

For starters, talk about the place, or about the friend who just introduced you. Speak about anything that you believe will create more interesting conversations, as long as both of you are aware of it and keen on talking about it. That’s why speaking about the place or a friend or even a game is a great way to keep the conversation going. A minute into the conversation, talk about a funny incident that happened to you around the same time you met her.

If there’s one thing that can make a girl burst into peals of laughter and like you almost instantly, it’s the kind of humor where you ridicule yourself for doing something stupid or pretend like you lack in something when you really don’t.

Girls always assume a guy would try to dominate a girl as soon as they interact with each other. But when you ridicule yourself with humor, it makes a girl feel like the dominant and powerful person in the conversation. And when she feels like she’s the one in control of the situation, she’d open up to you and even carry the conversation forward with ease. It may make you look weaker at first, but a few clever lines and wit can bring you back into her dating book in no time.

Ridiculing yourself by using a few self deprecating jokes is always a great hit with the ladies. Here’s a great one for a first conversation.

“You know I never really know what to talk to a girl as soon as I’m introduced to one. Almost always I end up sounding like an idiot. Wait a minute… damn, I sound like an idiot right now, don’t I?”

Never overdo self deprecating humor

While using self deprecating humor may be a great way to open a conversation, don’t completely rely on it to woo a girl. If you want to date a girl, you need to use humor to make her feel comfortable, not to give her a chance to walk all over you.

If you’re a really funny and charming guy and tell a girl that you think you’re boring her, she’ll obviously laugh and deny it. But if you’re a boring guy and you use the same line, you’d end up ruining the conversation right away.

Make fun of your good side, and never your bad side, if you want to impress a girl. When you reveal something that’s truly lacking, it’ll make it look like you have no ego and self respect. A guy who cares about himself doesn’t constantly ridicule himself.

Don’t ever fall into the friend zone

As the conversation warms up, two things could happen. She could get extremely comfortable with you and look at you as a funny guy who could be a great friend. Or she could start falling for you.

Never let the conversation enter the friend zone. Within a few minutes of meeting her and getting comfortable with her, compliment her or start flirting with her. Let her know that you’re not having a conversation to become her BFF. Make it clear that you think she’s attractive and just the kind of girl you’re looking for.

Bring sexy humor into the conversation

Once you’ve established that you’re smitten by her and think she’s attractive, bring humor back into the conversation now and then, but bring it back with a lusty twist.

“God, if only I knew how to dance… I could use any excuse right now to get my hands over you! But hey, you know what, I do know how to drive. How about I take you out for a drive and we get a cup of coffee? And since my hands are going to be busy at the steering, you’re completely safe around me, at least until we get to the coffee shop!”

You don’t have to say the same lines. Just innovate and say something that lets her knows that you think she’s hot and you can’t wait to go out with her.