Ways To Make Someone Fall In Love With You With Little Effort

There are so many definitions of love but there is one thing we should all understand when it comes to this. You see no matter your love language, you should know and understand that love is a selfless act. Loving someone is about giving and not necessarily looking for what you would receive in turn. Back when I was in high school, my friends and I tried to create “love potions” to get our crushes to fall in love with us. Obviously, it didn’t work. You can’t necessarily make someone or force someone to love you but doesn’t mean you can’t give it a little push. As I got older, I realised that there are certain manoeuvres you can do to make yourself more likeable as a person and catch the eye of the person you’re falling hard for. Interested? Here are 4 tips that can help.

ALWAYS LISTEN TO THEM

Take one week and analyse how you talk to other people. Do you interrupt them? Are you negative towards them? These aren’t attractive traits or whatsoever. Try to listen to what someone has to say and provide follow-up questions, like, “What did you do then?” Give them literally all of your attention. It’ll make them feel important, and they’ll feel more comfortable and calm around you.

SHOW EMPATHY

Showing someone, you care about them in this type of way tells them that you have a big heart. Even if they’re facing a situation that seems common (like they’re studying hard for their exams and are nearing a breakdown, or if they got in a fight with a friend) make sure to let them know you feel for them. Even saying something like “that’s really difficult” will show them you can empathise with the situation. Just make sure you don’t twist the situation and make it about you. There’s a good chance they’re not asking for life advice.

TEXT THEM FIRST

Note that I didn’t say to text them excessively, just text them first. Make the first move. Send them a message just to ask how their day was, or if they’ve got anything going on. This shows them that you’re interested in them and their lives and also proves you’re confident.

 MAKE EYE CONTACT

Eye contact plays a huge role in improving any relationship. It shows that you’re focused on them, and a lot of people like that. Just make sure not to stare. If you’re a little worried that it may come off as being unnatural, try making eye contact with your parents, or siblings, and see what their response is like. People who you already have established relationships with are great to practice these subtle moves on.