Ladies; Encouraging words that proves he truly cares about you
๐I love you
The simplest and most clear of all the signs is if he tells you he loves you. However, several people will say this without meaning it, and while he might actually be truthful when he says this, it's an even better sign when he says this while also saying or asking some of the other things on this list. I love you alone, with none of the others on this list, might not be real love.
๐I miss you
The guy who truly loves you will love to spend time with you and will think about you all the time. Two people in love simply cannot get enough of each other! If it's easy for him to ignore you and fill his time with other activities and people, he probably isn't all that vested. Guys that just pop up every once in a while and say they are too busy to text you back, probably isn't truly in love with you.
๐You are my best friend
True love usually has a great friendship base, and that doesn't mean who two had to be BFFs before you started dating. You might have started dating and then a friendship blossomed out of that, but in the end, you two see each other as your best friend. If he lets you know that is how he sees you, then chances are there is true love between the two of you.
๐Are you okay?
The man who truly loves you will always want to see if happy. If he sees you as anything but joyful, he will reach out and find out what he can do to help, or at least listen. The man who asks how you are feeling is a keeper and it shows that he truly loves you.
๐I want to make this work
A man that tells you this is the one who really loves you and wants to stay with you. If someone books it when times get hard, that just goes to show that they wanted it as long as it was easy and wasn't willing to put in the work. The man that truly loves you will always be willing to fix things, talk issues out, and find out how to make the relationship better. True love sometimes takes a lot of effort and he is unafraid of it.
๐How was your day?
If your man takes the time to genuinely ask you how your day was, that's a sign he cares about you. Only men who truly want to have a relationship with someone and care about them will take the time to ask how her day went. If your man only pops up and texts every once in a while and doesn't make an effort to ask about you, then he probably isn't that into you.
๐Why does this bother you?
When you and your man are having a fight, the one who asks you why something bothers you is the one who truly loves you. The man who brushes you off puts you down, makes you feel guilty, or does not ask why you are upset probably doesn't care enough to fix things and hang around when times get rough. This doesn't indicate someone who really loves you or who is in it for the long haul.
๐I want you to meet my parents
This is always a good sign. When a guy keeps you away from his friends and family, it might be because he doesn't have long-term future plans with you. If he wants you to become more involved in his life by meeting important people, it means he most likely loves you and wants to make this work, for good.
๐How did the other day go?
If you turn to your partner as a shoulder to lean on and you let them know that you were worried about an upcoming event and they ask about it, later on, that's a good sign. The man that takes the time to follow up with something you confided in him about, is the one who cares about how you are feeling emotionally and if you are happy. That's a sign of real love.
๐Can I help you with that?
One of the five love languages is acts of service, which means showing love by offering to help with errands and chores in order to alleviate work for your partner. This is even more meaningful if you are sick or feeling down, and your man offers to help because he knows you're not feeling your best. The man who truly loves you will not hesitate to help you when you need it.
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