Indicators You're Not Ready To Involve Into Marrige Now

Every lady has the dream of one day walking down the aisle and tieing the knot with the man of their dreams, but it’s not something that happens out of the blue.

Before you decide to spend your entire life with this person, there is a need to be sure of yourself and the decision you’re about making.

If these points apply to you, it’s my advice that you hold on with the wedding plans until you are better;

1.   When you have cold feet

If you’re dreading your wedding day already, then it’s best to hold on with the marriage plans. You need to be excited about your decision, but if it is rather causing fear, then, it’s best to stay clear.

2.   Poor communication between you two

If you’re still having fights over simple things and not able to communicate properly with your partner, then this is all the sign you need to hold off the wedding. If you can’t communicate now, then your marriage is doomed.

3.   Still not sure if you want the marriage

Are you taking the relationship to the next step simply because your friends are getting married and you’re falling beyond? If you don’t know why you’re getting married, then you’re simply not ready.

4.   You love him but you’re not in love with him

There is a difference and if you don’t know this, then you’ve never experienced real love. If you only think he is good looking and could be a good husband, then you are still not ready to be a wife.

5.   You can’t be honest to your partner

Secrets have no place in a marriage, even those we term as white lies. If you have skeletons in the closet and not ready to let them out, then please girl, getting married shouldn’t be an option.

6.   The relationship stable

Do you breakup often and then get back again? Do you still have unsolved issues? If your relationship is not secure, then making a lifetime commitment doesn’t mean much.