Reasons why you feel sore after sex

We all know sex is fantastic but you know what’s the one thing that is irritating and oddly uncomfortable about sex? The painful sore feeling in your vagina, every time you have intercourse. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?

Sex isn’t supposed to painful, but quite enjoyable. Rough sex is approved and considered to be a prime form of pleasure and enjoyment but if sex hurts, it becomes quite uncomfortable. Painful pangs of a sore vagina isn't something want to experience at all. You need to accept the fact that rough sex can result in unbearable cramps or agonizing pain and can be really inconvenient the next time you have sex.

This is a perfectly natural occurrence that no one needs to be ashamed of. In case, you are hurting from painful sex and frequently end up having a sore vagina, then you should talk to your partner or consult the gynaecologist. So, it’s important to identify the reasons why it’s hurting so much. We have listed down a few reasons why you might be having a sore vagina after sex.

Inadequate lubrication

This is actually really important for smooth sex, and a great way to avoid any hurt down there. When your vagina isn’t properly lubricated, the friction can cause the skin down there to tear and cause painful chafing that can be extremely uncomfortable. Rather, lubricants make the process a lot easier, giving a soothing effect. It can also moisturise the skin over there.

Extremely rough sex

Rough sex can be exciting and rough, *wink, wink* but what is exciting for the brain can be hurtful for your vagina. Often, rough sex results in dryness in the vagina and without lubrication, the extreme friction can cause sensitive skin to tear away. That, especially burns. Foreplay can be a good way to induce more arousal and natural lubrication in the body. This can prevent severe soreness or chafing over there.

Sensitive to latex

Believe it or not, some people are sensitive to latex. If you’ve been using latex condoms and it irritates your vagina, then the safest, instant relief is to place ice over your underwear to soothe the vagina. In cases like these, consult a gynaecologist who can best tell if you’re intolerant to latex. There are also many alternatives to latex condoms.

Chances of infection

If you experience constant itching, burning, irregular vaginal discharge, then it’s best to confirm whether you have a vaginal infection. Though they are not deadly, they can cause harm to our sensitive parts down there. It could be a yeast or bacterial infection, STDs or STIs or even more. Intake proper medicines only after consulting a gynaecologist about the matter and avoid having sex for some time. It can reduce uncomfortable situations.

Why you need to consult the gynaecologist

Sex takes large precedence over relationships with our partners. If we are experiencing physical discomfort in our vaginas or private parts and are unable to resolve them on our own, it’s time to take a trip to the doctor’s office. They will only resolve your issues and ensure that proper medication will reduce the uncomfortableness or soreness in your vagina to lead a happy and healthy, safe sex life.