The Way He Needs To Spend His Life With You

Many women have admitted to planning their big day even before finding the right guy. Men behave very differently. Only once they have determined that they have found their ideal woman will they even start thinking about settling down. Even then, it may take them years to finally pop the question. This can be very frustrating for women, especially those who sense their biological clock madly ticking away.

Sure he may say he loves you, but that alone is not an indication that being with you forever is part of his grand plans. There is no denying that if you poke and prod too hard, you may send him running off into the arms of the next sexy charlatan who comes along.

So how do you know if the man you’re with wants to marry you? Be on the lookout for these 5 signs below and it may give you an inkling into whether or not he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

#1 He uses the word “we.” When a man peppers his sentences with ‘we’ instead of ‘me’, he already thinks of the two of you as a team. Whether it is referring to the present or far into the future, it’s always a good sign when he refers to you and him as a single entity. It means that he see himself going through life not as a swinging bachelor, but as your partner.

#2 His family loves you. Do not underestimate the importance of being loved by his family, especially if he is close to them. Their opinions matter, and if they love you, there is a higher chance that he will want to make you a part of the family.

What the family thinks matters to a man. So if you got off on a bad start with them, go make amends now.

#3 He doesn’t run from the tough stuff. A man who sticks around and shows true grit through tough times is a man who takes you seriously and does not want to lose you. Whether it’s holding your hand through a serious illness, helping you get back on your feet through a financial crisis or just being a solid shoulder to cry on, a man who can stomach the tough stuff is someone who truly loves you.

If he can stay strong and be with you through your darkest hour, he will be able to make it with you through anything. Love is not just about sailing through fun times. Seeing how he captains your ship through stormy weather is a great way to tell if he wants to be with you long term.

#4 He gives you the “you are the one” speech. Whether he did it intentionally or it just slipped out, once he starts hinting along the lines of you being “the one”, you can probably be sure that you are indeed “the one.”

Men don’t take these words lightly! Telling you this means that he has stopped thinking of other women, that he has forgotten about being a lifelong bachelor and that he has finally found the woman he wants to start the next chapter of life with.

#5 He trusts you completely. Whether it’s with his ATM card or with is heart, once a man fully trusts you, it is a clear indication that he sees himself potentially creating a future with you. Moreover, once he takes your thoughts and opinions seriously and confides in you no matter how embarrassing the problem, you can be sure that he values you being in his life and fully trusts that you will take care of him in every sense.

These signs can help shed some light on where your relationship may be headed.