Tips To Give A Guy Space To Make Him Chases You

I must admit that most of us have done some silly things just to get the attention of someone we like. I’m guessing that was when we were younger and didn’t know much. Now, we’re older and with age comes wisdom. Frankly, it can be difficult trying to get someone’s attention when they’re not giving it to you. But rather than constantly blowing up their phone with messages or asking them to hang out, sometimes the best thing you can do is give them space. Creating distance between you and your crush is a good way to gain their attention. Once they feel you pulling back or if they think your attention is being focused elsewhere, they’ll be motivated to get you back. The following ways to give him space are sure-fire ways to get him to pursue you.

1.        GO ON A TRIP WITH YOUR FRIENDS

Going out of town is the ultimate way to put distance between you and your love interest. He would be left in the dust knowing that you’re with your best friends having a blast. To be fair, going on a vacation isn’t always realistic, especially in the current climate. However, there are always options to take a day trip. Let your man know that you won’t be available for a day or two (or three if you want!) because you need some quality time with your friends.

2.     DON’T BE THE FIRST TO TEXT HIM

If you’re the one that always initiates the conversation, take a step back. It may take him a few days to realise that things aren’t the same between the two of you. But if he’s really interested, he’ll have no problem sending you a message or giving you a ring. You pulling back will signal to him that he needs to step things up if he wants to make sure he’s still on your radar.

3.     TELL HIM YOU HAVE OTHER PLANS

Create an air of mystery by telling him that you’re busy the next time he tries to plan something with you. Of course, don’t be rude about it. But simply tell him that you’ve got other plans already made. Resist giving him another date when you’re free. Instead, leave it up in the air by telling him you’ll figure something out later. You’ll remain in his mind as he wonders what it is you’re up to.

4.      DON’T SPEND THE NIGHT

We’re not telling you not to hook up with him – do what you want. But resist spending the night every time you go over to his place. You don’t want to make yourself seem overly available or too attached. Tell him politely that you have other plans in the morning and want to be well-rested for the day ahead of you. Not only will you be creating space between the two of you, but you’ll be adding to his intrigue.