Ways To Make A Guy Want You Instead Chasing

Yeah, don’t deny it, I know you know his every move. If you’ve been eyeing a guy and you want him, well, there are a couple of things you can do to help avert his attention in the right direction… you know… in YOUR direction. So, it’s time to switch your method up and read about these 5 ways to learn how to make a guy want you.

#1 Confidence. This is huge and probably the most important factor in learning how to make a guy want you. You need to be confident, and you need to show that you love yourself.

There’s a reason why men drop their jaws when they see a woman walking confidently down the street  she is spewing sex appeal and confidence. She doesn’t need them, and that’s what makes her sexy as hell. If you want the guy, you need to think that you don’t need the guy.

#2 Body language is key. Have you ever seen a couple sitting at the bar? They’re facing each other, leaning forward with feet pointing in the other’s direction.

Before you even have to open your mouth, you can signal your feelings to him through body language and wait to see if he responds by copying your body language. I know it sounds a little off, but you’d be amazed by how it works.

#3 Open up to him. You can only talk about the rain for so many minutes until it’s time to get into a deeper conversation. If you can’t open up to him, well, he won’t open up to you, and then you won’t be able to develop a connection.

But, that means one of you will have to make the first move in opening up. It can be scary, but if you feel that you can trust him as a person, then you should be able to share something personal about yourself.

#4 Keep a little mystery. This is a great lesson in how to make a guy want you. Men like mystery, women like mystery  that’s why we love the chase. So, right now, you’re trying to lure the guy in and grab his attention.

You want to be a little mysterious. Don’t be completely silent, however, don’t give him everything he wants. Keep some information to yourself  it’ll make him even more curious about you.

#5 Work your feminine side. Being feminine isn’t a negative trait. People always think it means that the woman is fragile and weak, but that isn’t what femininity is. You can wear a dress and makeup and still be a strong woman.

It’s okay to tap into your feminine side and sit with your legs closed or chew with your mouth shut. These things don’t make you a weak woman. So, throw out those misconceptions and if you feel like showing your feminine side, then show it. Plus, men appreciate a woman who is strong and can still look like a woman.