Avoid These 5 Conversations With Your Partner To Overcome Divorce



According to research, nearly 60 percent of couples don’t disclose their salaries or actual salaries to each other before saying, “I do”. It’s only after the wedding that reality hits couples to begin to wonder why they never had specific conversations before saying ‘I do’.

They never talked about job relocation, fertility issues, extended family and the new lifestyle. However, these are the kind of things that are supposed to be discussed. Whether you’re deeply in love or too obsessed, talk about these five things with your partner;

1.   Handling your finances

it is one of the most exciting things to talk about with your partner and it is for the better. From savings, financial goals, debts and everything relating to finance, make sure to talk about it.

2.   Sexual views

This is a must-have discussion. Understanding each other’s sexual opinions is no more a taboo because what happens between the sheets is a marriage factor. If you suspect that you and your partner might not be sexually compatible, then start searching for solutions.

3.   Talk about the children

Before you talk about the names for the children or how to raise the kids, make sure your partner wants to have kids as much as you do. You will be surprised that even though your partner wants the kids, they end up changing their minds later.

4.   Division of chores

Resentment mostly starts to build up once it looks like one partner is always and almost doing everything. The question of who does what in the house needs to be sorted out quickly.

5.   The responsibility of parents

This is another topic you need to discuss with your partner before marriage. Although your parents would want to get involved with your offers, it is important that you come up with a way to prevent them from influencing your home.

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