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Honesty is very important and in fact, the best policy for a successful relationship, but no partner really wants to be the one to break the news that someone is pretty bad in bed. Many men suffer from sexual prowess and the truth be told, they hate it when anyone spill the beans. But don’t worry, we are going to give you some good tips that will help you to honestly tell him. 1.   Suggest you guys try something new It shouldn’t be something you have no idea of, but aware that it will make things better than before. By saying it’s a ‘new thing’, you avoid hinting that you’re not satisfied in bed but prefer a new style or position. 2.   Never fake out It might be a boost to his confidence, but not for long and once he discovers that you’ve been lying things will just get worse. There is no need to fake orgasm just to make him feel good, just hold on. 3.   Talk about it It’s either you do the talking during the act or right after the act that way,...

1. It relieves stress. Hormones and endorphins are released into the body during sex, which helps to reduce cortisol and relieve stress.  And whether you are in a committed relationship or a new one, anticipation provides mood altering sensations that benefit our desire for sex. 2. We sleep better. And who doesn’t like a good night sleep! Vasopressin, released during orgasm, is associated with better sleep, as is oxytocin. 3. We bond with our partner. Oxytocin, considered the love hormone, released during orgasm produces feelings of warmth and connection with our partners. And there are some studies that indicate that falling asleep shortly after having sex indicates that desire to bond. And isn’t it delicious to sometimes sleep in the arms of your beloved? 4. We live longer. Interested in living long and well. Cultivate good sex. Here’s my take away on this oh so hot topic: It may be about the destination (orgasm), but it’s the journey that gets me there. Ask yourself ...

A light brush of his fingers against her hand, a quick kiss on her bareback or just a touch here and there have a chance of making her heart lip. A touch from a guy could cause a lady to wonder what is going on with her body all of the sudden. There are that tinkling and several sensations she can’t prevent her body from enjoying, it’s like her heaven. Here are some of the things ladies feel after getting touched by a guy; 1.   Butterflies in the stomach When the man she is attracted to touches her for the first time, it is the most unsettling feeling. When the man she waited to touch her lets her feel the warmth of his skin, it is the most light-headed feeling, as a cluster of butterflies is released in the pit of the stomach.   2.   A chill down the spine When a man forces an unwanted cold touch of his skin to a lady’s body her blood boils in the pit of the stomach, the history of anger, the collective memory of violence floats up and she sees red. She feels b...

Sex is a wonderful, joyful, and pleasurable thing. You may just be discovering the joys of sex, or you might have been having sex for years. You may have had many partners, or you may have only had a handful, or even just one. No matter what your sexual history, knowing how to make love to a man can be the difference between having vanilla, okay sex and having a mind-blowing romp in the sheets. Sex is different for everyone. However, one thing does stay constant, and that is the need and desire to pleasure your partner. It doesn’t matter if it’s your husband or a one-night stand, knowing how to make love to a man can bring a huge number of benefits. Not only will it make him seriously grateful and amazed by your sexual prowess, but it will also make sex more enjoyable for you! So just how can you achieve the greatest sex you and your partner have ever had? Follow these 20 tips for mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex! #1 Talk to him. Being a good lover is all about having gre...

1. Go out with your friends Guys feel very insecure when girls go out without them. There is that constant feeling another guy will hit on her and that she will be drunk enough to cheat. So, if you want to make your man jealous, put on the sexiest dress that you have, apply some heavy make-up, and create a nice hairstyle.  2. Make him compete for your attention Do not answer his calls immediately. Do not text him back immediately. Do not talk to him immediately. Make him compete for your attention in all the fields possible because that’s the only way to make him feel helpless and wonder what the hell is going on. 3. Ignore his texts and calls When he texts you, don’t text him back immediately. The same goes for phone calls. Show him that you won’t be available to him whenever he wants you. Show him that you have your own life and that you enjoy spending time with a small circle of people.  4. Accidentally Touch another man  If you are sitting with your male f...

1. Self love Finding love starts with loving yourself because, really, if you do not love yourself, who will? It will be difficult to show people how to love you. It will be difficult, as well to give people what you do not have. If you love yourself, you do not only become more independent and in charge of your life, you also become easier to love and will find it less difficult to find love. 2. More social Social skills are really, really important if you are going to meet people and build any form of relationship with them. Smile more, go out more, get on social media and use the platforms wisely, learn to communicate your thoughts more effectively, and basically just develop in the art of creating good impressions on people. Meet people, be open-minded and just enjoy your life.  3. People are more than their looks Learn to pay more attention to character than a person's appearance. This is something of a dilemma in the sense that appearance counts when meeting someo...

 Most women believe they know most things about Guys, what turns him on and off during bedroom time , bit that's not real true as your going  to find more things you're not aware from your man The act of sex is mostly familiar to everyone but there are some things you need to understand on your man that will make sex enjoyable  these are ,, >During the middle of intercourse  men become happy with everything he sees >When he is in deep thrusting all his physicalogical sysmptoms including heart rate , breathing and muscular tension are at peak >And when he is in the way of finshing or climaxing  he surrenders by touching your body parts tightly these parts includes boobs,nipples thus when you observe such situation try to do the same to create same ending too.

Nowadays the issue of what women want is quite difficult to get a answer to. Knowing what people want in a partnership has been difficult, the majority suggest people are obsessed with wealth, so if you don't have that, you don't have a chance to be accepted. Women are different and they're going to be more interested with the little stuff than the big issues, you 're going to find that in a partnership scenario the popular perception that women only want money is just not true. In a relationship those that are involved in money appear not to be real. There are four things here that would help them stay in your life, which they are never going to be honest about. Intelligence Many women are sapiosexual i.e. they are drawn to individuals who are creative and who can find answers to problems in real time. Such groups of individuals involve anyone who can talk fluently in public, which attract people's attention for the insight they show while discussing problems. Thes...

I am all about giving everyone the needed respect and never bring anyone down out of spite especially women. In fact, one of the reasons I like to write about relationships is so that other women can benefit from it and share our experiences online.  That way, we can at least not feel alone in what we experience. We are all in this together and we deserve to be loved in a way that makes us happy. We really don’t need men who are terrible at being good boyfriends while we are trying to be the best versions of ourselves.  So how can you tell if he is a good boyfriend? There are several ways but coming down to the basics, he shouldn’t ask you to do these things. CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK Be yourself as a woman and a good boyfriend would love you the way you are. It shouldn’t matter what shape, size or colour you have. It wouldn’t matter if you prefer a certain look or clothes.  He lets you express yourself the way you want and would never make any silly demands lik...

Modern dating is an infamous concept nowadays. How the previous generation viewed dating has a high contrast to the current millennia's dating concept. A person’s way of perceiving their dating life can be via old-school books, online dating perceptions and even through peers. Meeting countless people in your life can also engrave different ideas and opinions within you and as a result, people nowadays are really picky while considering the ideal dating partner. We understand that you might have some preferences, but you should let go of the ideal list of things your partner should have. After all, truth be said, love is blind and feelings and understanding are the only things that matter at the end of the day. So we have rounded up a list of things you should completely avoid while looking for a fulfilling life partner. 1.Their overall looks No matter how much we deny it, we do end up considering the person’s hair, looks and height. We are normally attracted towards the exterior p...

Easy tips to make the oral sex go way better. The point of oral sex is for pure pleasure, let your partner feel good with your mouth exercise on each other. You probably know how to give oral sex but tips here and there can take you to expert level especially for ladies who can have clitoral orgasm. With these amazing tips compiled by Cosmopolitan below, you can turbocharge your oral sex game. 1. Deepthroat isn’t compulsory You don't have to swallow the entire thing, forget those porn videos. (Pinterest) The truth about oral sex is that you have to pick what you’re good at, if you have gag-reflex then you shouldn’t do it. The most sensitive part of the penis is the tip, the head, it has a lot of nerve endings, so if you can stimulate that enough then you can give as pleasure as possible. If you cannot deepthroat, don’t do it. 2. He doesn’t have to cum for it to be good Oral sex sometimes is like an appetiser for sex, so if he doesn’t reach orgasm during oral sex then it can still b...

As much as everyone wants to enjoy sex, there are those who few or think it is a taboo to want some aggressive sex with your partner. The truth be told, no one would love to talk about what they really do in their bedroom, however, it is important to know how to enjoy good sex and rough one. But what does it mean to have or enjoy an aggressive sex? Rough sex means any sexual activity that is more physically aggressive and possibly dangerous. But it differs from one person to the other as what one will seem aggressive same for the others. Moreover, rough sex does not have to necessarily include any physical pain or discomfort. Watching a hardcore p0rn, sexting, dirty or naughty talks all form part of aggressive sex. Here are some tips on how to enjoy an aggressive sex; 1.   Consent is a must It is important that both of you have to agree before engaging in any sexual activity. Unless it is a hundred percent agreement, it should not be done and no partner should be forced. 2....

You’ve finally met a nice lady and you had series of conversations with her. The next thing you know, you’re on a date. You question yourself if she’s into you or shares the same feelings you feel for her. Knowing whether a person likes you or not can be very difficult especially with women. Here are some tested signs to help you know if that girl is really into you. 1.       She wants to make you laugh: This is when she tries a lot to see you smile or laugh. Her teasing and sarcastic jabs are there to make you laugh and feel comfortable with her. This is one of the most classic signs that she’s into you. 2.       Caring gestures: She will spend time finding ways to meet your needs and care for you. She offers you more help on your projects or bring you coffee in the morning frequently. If you notice these things and more, that is a game-changer. 3.       She’s relaxing around you: This is where she is very comfortable around y...

Everybody has this phase in life when you are truly, madly and deeply in love with someone or so you think so. You stalk him on social media, know his likes and dislikes, love the way he smiles, waits for him to look at you and just mush at everything he does. If you find yourself doing similar things, well then it is time you realize that yes you have a massive crush on that boy you have been staring at for so many days. But have you told him yet that you have a crush on him? We are assuming that you haven’t since we know it isn’t an easy task. It does take a lot of courage for someone to admit their feelings to somebody.  But there is nothing to worry; there are several ways to tell your crush that you like him.  Of the several ways, you just need to pick one that you think best suits your personality and put it to good use.  You might fail in your initial attempts, but eventually with a lot of practice you will do it with much ease. Also, gone are the days when only a ...

Relationships are complicated and it only takes a serious-minded person to established and builds a lasting one. Although, we humans are not perfect there are things we need to compromise to attain perfection in a relationship. But there are many reasons that a relationship led to a breakup or divorce. Many times, the clouds, in a relationship, appear for no important reasons and here we present you some things that women do, and guys really hate. As you will see some of them may sound a bit silly, but they are important reasons for many breakups. Never underestimate them and keep them in mind if you want your relationship to remain healthy. She’s too Jealous Jealousy can keep the fire, in a healthy relationship, burning. But too much jealousy has exactly the opposite results. Your relationship is still healthy if one day he announces to you that he wants to hang out with his friends, or you catch him staring at another woman. Both are natural. As we already mentioned above, men need s...

Relationships are sometimes the best moments one can ever experience in his or her life. It's something that we are always meant to undergo provided we are very normal. Now, we all have different approaches when it comes to this. That is there are certain things that men will always feel happy when they are done to them. These vary from what ladies will always feel happy and excited when touched. Of course, for all genders, the basic thing that everyone wants is being shown, true love. However, deep down, there are certain specific things that we always want. When it comes to ladies, there are certain things that they will always feel happy when happens to them. Of course, we know that they always like it when they are shown love by either being touched or when anything positive is done to them. Like most of the time, when you find ladies seated together, they will always dedicate their time and mend each other's hair. This is something that keeps them together and ...

Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for couples. Many of us feel embarrassed about our bodies or have been sexually rejected at some point. Not to mention our culture and life experiences which have created feelings of sexual shame, making romantic and intimate sex a scary endeavor to even talk about. Sexually satisfied couples are emotionally attuned to each other inside and outside of the bedroom. The key to long-term happiness then, sexually and otherwise, is for both partners to support and value their friendship. Below are five steps to make sex more romantic in your relationship. •Learn the art of sex talk A major obstacle to having good sex is talking about sex. Since it can be such a sensitive topic, many couples “vague out” rather than vulnerably tell each other what they need. Only 9% of couples who can’t comfortably talk about sex with one another report they’re satisfied sexually. Talking about sex is a powerful way to deepen intimacy and emotional connection. It allows partn...

“Last night was fun, but will he call me back again?” If you find yourself asking that question after you had sex with the guy you were dating, then it’s time to stop and think. If you don’t prefer one-night stands then you have to be careful with whom you share extremely intimate moments like sex. Most women fear giving themselves to guys as they feel they’ll lose their power once both of them have had sex. Since ages, sex has been emotionally constructed as a powerful tool that can determine one’s intentions towards their prospective partners. If they prefer to not talk after they’ve had sex, means that they are not interested to pursue it further. While others who want to go for dates after such an intense night can be considered as ones genuinely interested. Modern pop culture has portrayed sex as an easy tool to satisfy one’s needs without ever considering their feelings. Women often find themselves asking if they like the guy they just slept with and question if their decision to...

In a relationship, you find many people always protecting the interest of the women and giving the man most of the jobs to do. Meanwhile, the man also deserves those goodies. Don't be deceived that men are strong and can handle everything. 1.Men Don’t Read into Things Very Much. That's why a lot of times, ladies will get upset when they ask for our opinion on things that matter to them, and we reply I don’t know. Ladies please don't get too upset about that, though it can be annoying but know that he isn't trying to hide anything from you. Safe Ways To Avoid And Remove Skin Tags 2.Men Cry Too Remember It’s a new age now and it’s okay for men to cry. Guys can get very emotional too. They’re humans, right? Don’t ever expect that men will always be the hard, strong, rough, and unbreakable figure that they try to present themselves to be.  3.Men Also Crave Attention. It may interest you to know men also yearn for attention and time. Don’t, even for a second, think that guys...

According to research, nearly 60 percent of couples don’t disclose their salaries or actual salaries to each other before saying, “I do”. It’s only after the wedding that reality hits couples to begin to wonder why they never had specific conversations before saying ‘I do’. They never talked about job relocation, fertility issues, extended family and the new lifestyle. However, these are the kind of things that are supposed to be discussed. Whether you’re deeply in love or too obsessed, talk about these five things with your partner; 1.   Handling your finances it is one of the most exciting things to talk about with your partner and it is for the better. From savings, financial goals, debts and everything relating to finance, make sure to talk about it. 2.   Sexual views This is a must-have discussion. Understanding each other’s sexual opinions is no more a taboo because what happens between the sheets is a marriage factor. If you suspect that you and your partner m...

You can try to turn yourself on, but for most of the time, you may just end up feeling lost or even bored after a while, especially at the beginning. But instead of focusing on turning yourself on or orgasming, if you could just relax and try to have a good time by yourself, you’d be able to see how simple and liberating self help can actually turn out to be. For the first timers and even the seasoned pros who want to have a great time turning themselves on, here’s a guide on how to turn yourself on, using nothing more than your five senses, and a few add ons that can pleasure you and satisfy you, more than you can imagine. If this is your first time, try not to stress yourself out. Instead, just give yourself an hour or so of self time and have a great time, all by yourself. Sight – Watch what excites you Watching a bit of nudity can be exciting for anyone, be it a man or a woman. Lie down or sit down with your laptop nearby and visit a few of those websites your nanny wouldn’t allow....

When you feel it, say it. It’s that simple really. But as simple as it may seem, there are a few things you should remember to make sure your loving words have the impact you desire. Firstly, before you say ‘I love you’, you need to have a vague idea about your date’s feelings towards you. Saying ‘I love you’ is like a binding contract, even if just one person says it to the other. And once you’ve said it, there’s no turning back. Your date has to accept your proposal at some point of time or the whole things gets called off. But you don’t have to be scared though. Love is a leap of faith, and there’s no point in playing safe in the world of dating and love.

Knowing you're in love feels different for everyone. Some have been in love often and know the feeling well, and others may be not so sure if it's love or just a deep infatuation.  Luckily, your body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping you off to whether these feelings for your partner are more than just a passing phase. Keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs the next time you catch yourself wondering if you're actually in love. 1.You can't stop staring at them. If your partner has ever caught you staring at them lovingly, it could be a sign that you're head over heels. Eye contact means that you're fixated on something, so if you find that your eyes are fixed on your partner, you may just be falling in love. Studies have also found that couples who lock eyes report feeling a stronger romantic connection than those who don't. It goes the other way too: when a study had strangers lock eyes for minutes at a time, they reported romantic feeling towards ea...