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Ways to Enjoy Rough Sex With Your Partner

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As much as everyone wants to enjoy sex, there are those who few or think it is a taboo to want some aggressive sex with your partner. The truth be told, no one would love to talk about what they really do in their bedroom, however, it is important to know how to enjoy good sex and rough one. But what does it mean to have or enjoy an aggressive sex? Rough sex means any sexual activity that is more physically aggressive and possibly dangerous. But it differs from one person to the other as what one will seem aggressive same for the others. Moreover, rough sex does not have to necessarily include any physical pain or discomfort. Watching a hardcore p0rn, sexting, dirty or naughty talks all form part of aggressive sex. Here are some tips on how to enjoy an aggressive sex; 1.   Consent is a must It is important that both of you have to agree before engaging in any sexual activity. Unless it is a hundred percent agreement, it should not be done and no partner should be forced. 2.   Identify

Signs She Is Really Into You

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You’ve finally met a nice lady and you had series of conversations with her. The next thing you know, you’re on a date. You question yourself if she’s into you or shares the same feelings you feel for her. Knowing whether a person likes you or not can be very difficult especially with women. Here are some tested signs to help you know if that girl is really into you. 1.       She wants to make you laugh: This is when she tries a lot to see you smile or laugh. Her teasing and sarcastic jabs are there to make you laugh and feel comfortable with her. This is one of the most classic signs that she’s into you. 2.       Caring gestures: She will spend time finding ways to meet your needs and care for you. She offers you more help on your projects or bring you coffee in the morning frequently. If you notice these things and more, that is a game-changer. 3.       She’s relaxing around you: This is where she is very comfortable around you and relaxed enough to even enjoy moments of silence with

3 traits that will increase your chances of finding love

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1. Self love Finding love starts with loving yourself because, really, if you do not love yourself, who will? It will be difficult to show people how to love you. It will be difficult, as well to give people what you do not have. If you love yourself, you do not only become more independent and in charge of your life, you also become easier to love and will find it less difficult to find love. 2. More social Social skills are really, really important if you are going to meet people and build any form of relationship with them. Smile more, go out more, get on social media and use the platforms wisely, learn to communicate your thoughts more effectively, and basically just develop in the art of creating good impressions on people. Meet people, be open-minded and just enjoy your life.  3. People are more than their looks Learn to pay more attention to character than a person's appearance. This is something of a dilemma in the sense that appearance counts when meeting someo

How to tell your crush you like him ; Here are 7 ways to let him know about your feelings

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Everybody has this phase in life when you are truly, madly and deeply in love with someone or so you think so. You stalk him on social media, know his likes and dislikes, love the way he smiles, waits for him to look at you and just mush at everything he does. If you find yourself doing similar things, well then it is time you realize that yes you have a massive crush on that boy you have been staring at for so many days. But have you told him yet that you have a crush on him? We are assuming that you haven’t since we know it isn’t an easy task. It does take a lot of courage for someone to admit their feelings to somebody.  But there is nothing to worry; there are several ways to tell your crush that you like him.  Of the several ways, you just need to pick one that you think best suits your personality and put it to good use.  You might fail in your initial attempts, but eventually with a lot of practice you will do it with much ease. Also, gone are the days when only a man was allowe

Things Guys Hate But Women Does It In Relationships

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Relationships are complicated and it only takes a serious-minded person to established and builds a lasting one. Although, we humans are not perfect there are things we need to compromise to attain perfection in a relationship. But there are many reasons that a relationship led to a breakup or divorce. Many times, the clouds, in a relationship, appear for no important reasons and here we present you some things that women do, and guys really hate. As you will see some of them may sound a bit silly, but they are important reasons for many breakups. Never underestimate them and keep them in mind if you want your relationship to remain healthy. She’s too Jealous Jealousy can keep the fire, in a healthy relationship, burning. But too much jealousy has exactly the opposite results. Your relationship is still healthy if one day he announces to you that he wants to hang out with his friends, or you catch him staring at another woman. Both are natural. As we already mentioned above, men need s

Ladies Feel Excited When Touched These Parts

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Relationships are sometimes the best moments one can ever experience in his or her life. It's something that we are always meant to undergo provided we are very normal. Now, we all have different approaches when it comes to this. That is there are certain things that men will always feel happy when they are done to them. These vary from what ladies will always feel happy and excited when touched. Of course, for all genders, the basic thing that everyone wants is being shown, true love. However, deep down, there are certain specific things that we always want. When it comes to ladies, there are certain things that they will always feel happy when happens to them. Of course, we know that they always like it when they are shown love by either being touched or when anything positive is done to them. Like most of the time, when you find ladies seated together, they will always dedicate their time and mend each other's hair. This is something that keeps them together and

5 Simple Ways to Make Sex More Romantic

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Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for couples. Many of us feel embarrassed about our bodies or have been sexually rejected at some point. Not to mention our culture and life experiences which have created feelings of sexual shame, making romantic and intimate sex a scary endeavor to even talk about. Sexually satisfied couples are emotionally attuned to each other inside and outside of the bedroom. The key to long-term happiness then, sexually and otherwise, is for both partners to support and value their friendship. Below are five steps to make sex more romantic in your relationship. •Learn the art of sex talk A major obstacle to having good sex is talking about sex. Since it can be such a sensitive topic, many couples “vague out” rather than vulnerably tell each other what they need. Only 9% of couples who can’t comfortably talk about sex with one another report they’re satisfied sexually. Talking about sex is a powerful way to deepen intimacy and emotional connection. It allows partn

Qualities you should definitely overlook in your partner

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Modern dating is an infamous concept nowadays. How the previous generation viewed dating has a high contrast to the current millennia's dating concept. A person’s way of perceiving their dating life can be via old-school books, online dating perceptions and even through peers. Meeting countless people in your life can also engrave different ideas and opinions within you and as a result, people nowadays are really picky while considering the ideal dating partner. We understand that you might have some preferences, but you should let go of the ideal list of things your partner should have. After all, truth be said, love is blind and feelings and understanding are the only things that matter at the end of the day. So we have rounded up a list of things you should completely avoid while looking for a fulfilling life partner. 1.Their overall looks No matter how much we deny it, we do end up considering the person’s hair, looks and height. We are normally attracted towards the exterior p

Lady ; When should you finally have sex with the guy you’re dating

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“Last night was fun, but will he call me back again?” If you find yourself asking that question after you had sex with the guy you were dating, then it’s time to stop and think. If you don’t prefer one-night stands then you have to be careful with whom you share extremely intimate moments like sex. Most women fear giving themselves to guys as they feel they’ll lose their power once both of them have had sex. Since ages, sex has been emotionally constructed as a powerful tool that can determine one’s intentions towards their prospective partners. If they prefer to not talk after they’ve had sex, means that they are not interested to pursue it further. While others who want to go for dates after such an intense night can be considered as ones genuinely interested. Modern pop culture has portrayed sex as an easy tool to satisfy one’s needs without ever considering their feelings. Women often find themselves asking if they like the guy they just slept with and question if their decision to

Ladies; Secrets About Men That Will Amaze You

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In a relationship, you find many people always protecting the interest of the women and giving the man most of the jobs to do. Meanwhile, the man also deserves those goodies. Don't be deceived that men are strong and can handle everything. 1.Men Don’t Read into Things Very Much. That's why a lot of times, ladies will get upset when they ask for our opinion on things that matter to them, and we reply I don’t know. Ladies please don't get too upset about that, though it can be annoying but know that he isn't trying to hide anything from you. Safe Ways To Avoid And Remove Skin Tags 2.Men Cry Too Remember It’s a new age now and it’s okay for men to cry. Guys can get very emotional too. They’re humans, right? Don’t ever expect that men will always be the hard, strong, rough, and unbreakable figure that they try to present themselves to be.  3.Men Also Crave Attention. It may interest you to know men also yearn for attention and time. Don’t, even for a second, think that guys

Avoid These 5 Conversations With Your Partner To Overcome Divorce

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According to research, nearly 60 percent of couples don’t disclose their salaries or actual salaries to each other before saying, “I do”. It’s only after the wedding that reality hits couples to begin to wonder why they never had specific conversations before saying ‘I do’. They never talked about job relocation, fertility issues, extended family and the new lifestyle. However, these are the kind of things that are supposed to be discussed. Whether you’re deeply in love or too obsessed, talk about these five things with your partner; 1.   Handling your finances it is one of the most exciting things to talk about with your partner and it is for the better. From savings, financial goals, debts and everything relating to finance, make sure to talk about it. 2.   Sexual views This is a must-have discussion. Understanding each other’s sexual opinions is no more a taboo because what happens between the sheets is a marriage factor. If you suspect that you and your partner might not be sexuall

How to turn yourself on with your senses

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You can try to turn yourself on, but for most of the time, you may just end up feeling lost or even bored after a while, especially at the beginning. But instead of focusing on turning yourself on or orgasming, if you could just relax and try to have a good time by yourself, you’d be able to see how simple and liberating self help can actually turn out to be. For the first timers and even the seasoned pros who want to have a great time turning themselves on, here’s a guide on how to turn yourself on, using nothing more than your five senses, and a few add ons that can pleasure you and satisfy you, more than you can imagine. If this is your first time, try not to stress yourself out. Instead, just give yourself an hour or so of self time and have a great time, all by yourself. Sight – Watch what excites you Watching a bit of nudity can be exciting for anyone, be it a man or a woman. Lie down or sit down with your laptop nearby and visit a few of those websites your nanny wouldn’t allow.

When is the right time to say "I Love You" for the first time

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When you feel it, say it. It’s that simple really. But as simple as it may seem, there are a few things you should remember to make sure your loving words have the impact you desire. Firstly, before you say ‘I love you’, you need to have a vague idea about your date’s feelings towards you. Saying ‘I love you’ is like a binding contract, even if just one person says it to the other. And once you’ve said it, there’s no turning back. Your date has to accept your proposal at some point of time or the whole things gets called off. But you don’t have to be scared though. Love is a leap of faith, and there’s no point in playing safe in the world of dating and love.

11 Signs that show you're falling in love

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Knowing you're in love feels different for everyone. Some have been in love often and know the feeling well, and others may be not so sure if it's love or just a deep infatuation.  Luckily, your body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping you off to whether these feelings for your partner are more than just a passing phase. Keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs the next time you catch yourself wondering if you're actually in love. 1.You can't stop staring at them. If your partner has ever caught you staring at them lovingly, it could be a sign that you're head over heels. Eye contact means that you're fixated on something, so if you find that your eyes are fixed on your partner, you may just be falling in love. Studies have also found that couples who lock eyes report feeling a stronger romantic connection than those who don't. It goes the other way too: when a study had strangers lock eyes for minutes at a time, they reported romantic feeling towards ea

Why Fights In A Relationship Are Very Important

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We have all have the same dream, a perfect relationship, our wedding and the marriage that follows with a lot of love and care from a partner. Which is why, when anything shifts from the thought-out plan, it leads to disappointments. Relationship arguments are not uncommon, remember it’s about two people sharing their lives and it’s natural they have different opinions and ideologies. However, trouble starts when fights become more important than the relationship itself. This can also be the fault of society who always teaches us the idea of a soul mate. One person cannot become everything to you and neither should it be like that. You cannot always dump all your problems on your partner and expect them to understand. They are human as well and have issues to deal with. They shouldn’t expect you to have all the answers to their problems. But this is something we all ignore. We often burden our partners even if they are not in that headspace to deal with it. Are you wondering, is it hea

12 Thoughts All Women Have During Foreplay

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Have you wondered how long foreplay is supposed to last? I don’t think it is supposed to go on for 5 minutes or 10, but for as long as the two of you want to keep things going. In the early day's, foreplay lasts hours, fast forward a year, well not everyone is a fun of the game. There is always one thing in mind once you get to the bedroom, sex. However, what do women really think during foreplay? Here are some of the things they think of; 1.   We have been kissing for more than 30 seconds, this means he’s definitely going to go for the big show, sex! Good. 2.   Wow, how does he already have one hand in my pants and the other grappling my b00bs? How is he so good? 3.   Okay, this is uncomfortable and it kind of hurts. Why wouldn’t he just remove my jeans and go ahead? 4.   Huh, I have no clothes on. Is this happening, like seriously and now! 5.   Why does he keep rubbing his hard p3nis against my thigh? That’s cute, but am I going to deal with it today? BJ, oral sex and all?   6. 

Interesting Things Ladies Do To Get Over A Guy

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When a friend tells you, “Love really hurts” there is always a reason and you don’t have to laugh about it. Sometimes even the happiest relationship comes with a lot of agonies, problems you never saw coming. There are a few things that a girl does after a break-up. For example, they might start stalking their ex on all social media channels, they might think of messaging their ex again. We think these things are mostly done by girls just to get over a guy they’ve so much but broken up with; 1.   Hangout with friends This is the first thing she does especially if she was close to her friends while dating. Doing this will help her to get over the guy quickly and sometimes, they end up doing a lot of crazy stuff in the process. 2.   A lot of shopping Her friends will encourage her to now focus on herself and spend what she used to spend on the guy for herself. They go out buying everything they think they need but don’t really have use for. 3.   Try new things Yeah, ladies mostly want to

The great secret of seducing that most men's don't know..

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If you've been wondering when love feelings come to you and for a woman let me tell you the truth ... not the first time you will meet for a date but the second time. Here's where the two of you romance begins. This is a major problem that many men fail to understand.   You find a man dropping all his weapons on his first day with a woman ... a very serious mistake. Ok I know what you think.   What about meeting a woman the second day when you can score the first time you meet?   Well, I'm not suggesting that it's not bad to close the game the first day.   In the beginning I am among those who are proud to receive such an allocation. But believe me if I tell you that over time the flange will reach a level where you will give up your pro women's quest and you will want to find a normal woman to start another level relationship.   Sex is just the beginning.   So it is best to start looking for a woman who matches you with your mind and attitude. THIS SECR

Deepest Desire Of Men In A Relationship

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Do you think you really know what your man is craving for in the relationship? I’m sure some ladies would probably give answers such as; “Men want a woman who always agrees with him” or “Men crave for sex or possibly want someone with a perfect body. The truth be told, every man or most men would like to have everything that has been mentioned above, but they would do whatever it takes to get pleased by a woman without putting in too much effort. Men crave praise and admiration more than anything else. Men are in fact powerless when it comes to resisting a woman who truly and wholeheartedly shows her admiration for him and what he does. Another thing is that it isn’t as simple as just saying a nice thing to him, there is much more to it than just admiration. Here are 3 ingredients for making him powerless to resist you. 1.   Be a woman worth his admiration It’s not about being perfect, but actually demonstrating the values. Does he feel lucky to have you in his life? Are yo

Things To Keep In Mind When You Bump Into Your Ex

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Running into an ex is not the best feeling in the world. But here are 7 tips to make sure you still feel super-awesome after that awkward moment! Read the signs when you bump into your ex #1 Keep it simple and brief. Don’t stretch the conversation with your ex. Be warm and friendly, but keep the conversation short to avoid awkward moments or new complications in love. #2 Prepare your mind. Visualize yourself having a short and courteous conversation with an ex of yours. It’ll help you stay prepared for that chance meeting. #3 Reading between the lines. Don’t try to read between the lines while talking to your ex. Exes can be sarcastic and rude, or at times, they may speak in riddles or hint that they’re still missing you and want you. Trying to decipher your ex’s mind will only confuse you or trick you into assuming something that may not be the truth. #4 Don’t be bitter. Life is too short to hold on to grudges with an ex, unless they tore your heart and shoved it through a paper shred

Things A Husband Material Would Never Ask You To Do

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I am all about giving everyone the needed respect and never bring anyone down out of spite especially women. In fact, one of the reasons I like to write about relationships is so that other women can benefit from it and share our experiences online.  That way, we can at least not feel alone in what we experience. We are all in this together and we deserve to be loved in a way that makes us happy. We really don’t need men who are terrible at being good boyfriends while we are trying to be the best versions of ourselves.  So how can you tell if he is a good boyfriend? There are several ways but coming down to the basics, he shouldn’t ask you to do these things. CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK Be yourself as a woman and a good boyfriend would love you the way you are. It shouldn’t matter what shape, size or colour you have. It wouldn’t matter if you prefer a certain look or clothes.  He lets you express yourself the way you want and would never make any silly demands like asking you to change you

Qualities you should definitely overlook in your partner

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Modern dating is an infamous concept nowadays. How the previous generation viewed dating has a high contrast to the current millennia's dating concept. A person’s way of perceiving their dating life can be via old-school books, online dating perceptions and even through peers. Meeting countless people in your life can also engrave different ideas and opinions within you and as a result, people nowadays are really picky while considering the ideal dating partner. We understand that you might have some preferences, but you should let go of the ideal list of things your partner should have. After all, truth be said, love is blind and feelings and understanding are the only things that matter at the end of the day. So we have rounded up a list of things you should completely avoid while looking for a fulfilling life partner. 1.Their overall looks No matter how much we deny it, we do end up considering the person’s hair, looks and height. We are normally attracted towards the exterior p

Ways To Learn To Trust Men Again After Being Betrayed

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Trust is the foundation of a great relationship. When that trust is broken, and you’ve been betrayed by your former boyfriend or husband, it can feel like you can’t trust anyone but yourself. Learning to trust men again after a devastating betrayal might seem like a long shot, but it is definitely possible. Here are some of the ways you can work towards learning to trust men again. 1  Stop blaming yourself. It wasn’t something you did or said that caused your partner to betray you. It was as simple as the fact that you picked a bad egg. You got it wrong last time by putting your trust in someone who didn’t have the decency to value that trust, and you most definitely learned from that experience. Remember that when someone betrays their partner, they are not a loyal and honest person of good moral character. You didn’t want  someone like that in your life, and you shouldn’t blame yourself for someone else’s bad behavior. 2  Feel your feelings. Make sure you go through the feelings of g

Compliments That Will Make Her Heart Melt

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Women love receiving compliments from the man they love but for so many men out there, this isn’t an easy task. Every man ought to master the art of giving compliments because it makes women feel loved and desired. Before giving compliments, you should identify what the woman likes about herself, the things she wants for herself, and the things she wants to improve about herself. You should also ensure your compliments go beyond her beauty and only use compliments about her beauty when it makes sense like when you’re together for a special occasion. Compliments appeal more to women when they happen naturally as this shows you are honest. This is because she knows you didn’t have the time to plan. Now you understand the basics you need to know before giving compliments, here are compliments that would make her heart melt: 1. I’ve learned a lot from you Women appreciate it when a man acknowledges how knowledgeable they are. Women hate it when it is just their beauty that appeals to you.