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Choose your life partner wisely, something that you could have heard in your growing up years. You were told that having the right partner would be the key to all your happiness.  But chances are you were never told how to choose a life partner or what qualities to look for in a life partner. Choosing the right partner may not be an easy job because it’s hard to find everything you want in one person. And it’s equally hard to give you answers to the question when you ask how to choose a life partner? Here are some tips to guide you; 1.   Can you be yourself around them? Just see if they can accept you exactly as you are without the make-up and shave. Also if they are okay with the kind of life you used to lead maybe, hanging out with friends, travelling for work. 2.   Does communication flow like breeze? There is no problem in one person being an introvert and the other n extrovert, the question is does your communication flow when talking with them? Communication is key for the succes

Girls begins measuring a guy's performance well before his underwear come off. Enjoyment begins as soon as the first zipper makes a southern slide and what follows – the process through which two people become two naked people – colors the entire experience that follows. Luckly, it is mostly intuitive. but below are actually five tested methods for doing it correct. Method 1: Tell Her to Undress for You Sometimes, ladies love when their guy takes control in the bedroom. And they like when their guy focuses on them and only them. By telling her to undress for you, you exude her confidence and authority - forever a turn on. Tell her what to take off, step by step, until both of you are nicely primed for. Method 2: Take Your Own Sweet Time Slowly and steadily you will wins the race. While undressing a lady slowly, you are able to tease and take note. Put in mind how much a lady puts into her looks - she wants you to see her and compliment her. Take the time to kiss, feel, explore and

Did you ever wish you were as romantic and smooth as, let’s say, Ryan Gosling was in “The Notebook” or Richard Gere was in “Pretty Woman?” While watching these films, did you ever think to yourself, “Damn, wish it was that easy to get the ladies (or for the women reading this, to get the men)?” It’s a fact of life, the majority of us just suck at romance. Only a handful of people don’t get tongue-tied. Let’s face it, many of us are more of a Sheldon Cooper than a Leonardo DiCaprio. Flirting is like solving quantum physics. Instead of catching your crush’s attention, you end up scaring them away. If you want to get better at saying romantic things, without getting tongue-tied, it’s always best to start small. Start practicing one- to two-liner romantic phrases on your own in front of the mirror. Start reading on different ways to express yourself romantically. Try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes and ask yourself “How do I want to be wooed?” Get a pen and paper out, f

It is comforting to have a romantic relationship that remains steady and constant through the years, however, the daily hustles and pressure we encounter makes this difficult. But the good news is, there are plenty of ways to keep the chemistry alive and spice up your relationship—and I’m not just talking about having more sex. Here are 5 ways to spice up your relationship and keep things fresh: 1. Date Trying to spice things up in your relationship, then maybe it is time to surprise your partner with a date. It does not have to be something grand, it could be on a rooftop or a random day trip to a fantastic area, clear your schedule and make a quick weekend getaway, or just even make time to go out for coffee on a weekend morning. Make sure you make time to have these dates regularly. 2. Romantic atmosphere Set up your bedroom to exude the way you feel. You can put up beautiful flowers, with the lights turned down. Music that speaks to the heart of your partner, ensure it

Cuddles are the best! It’s the 21st century: it’s high time we normalize normal things for both genders, including cuddling for men. Writing ˜for men after cuddling made me cringe since an act of embracing shouldn’t be attributed to just half the species while the other half is as human as the first half. Men like cuddling, although they might not do it too often so as not to give you any false hopes when they are actually in it; they love to cuddle, and guess what? We can tell you 15 reasons why! 1.  They Instinctively Like To Protect: Cuddling, besides all the other feelings, gives men the feeling of being the protector. When they wrap their arms around you, they feel like they have somewhat contributed to their instinctive responsibility of protecting you, and you have got to admit that you do feel a sense of safety. 2. It Designs You Pleased: Guys very well know that we love cuddling, and sometimes, they do us to make us happy. Even if they fear that you won’t let him c

Whether you are high maintenance, are way out of his league, or just not the lovey-dovey type, it doesn’t matter when your guy is a keeper and loves you for who you are, despite your highs and lows, your flaws and cracks. To live in a world as judgmental as we do, it becomes pretty challenging to love ourselves and even harder to let someone else love us. So when you find yourself in that place, yet your guy is there for you through all of it, and rather than backing off, sticks by with you all the more, then he is definitely a keeper. Therefore, he will exhibit many signs that he isn’t your run-of-the-mill, average sort of guy. So here is a simplistic list to find out the quality of the guy you’re with and to evaluate his love and devotion for you. 1. Your bad haircut doesn’t faze him Have you ever had that awkward when you are in a public place, and some random person tells you that your hair is not set properly? Now, unless you are an advocate of being straightforward, y

When you think of what life is going to be like when you’re pregnant, there are all these ideas of beautiful moments with your husband, planning the nursery together, cooing over your growing belly – it all seems like a blissful time. How could you possibly drift apart? But with pregnancy comes all kinds of challenges. Hormonal changes, pain, discomfort, changes to your body that you just can’t wrap your head around. And sometimes, let’s face it, you just want to bite your husband’s head off. When I was pregnant, even the smell of my husband (which I love) would make me want to vomit. I felt so disconnected and foreign to him because we couldn’t be close without me needing to puke – talk about romantic! Not! I was tired, exhausted, sick, sick of being sick and frustrated, and he did everything he could to help, but even I didn’t know what I needed so how could he? It would have been so easy to let all of the frustrations and anger boil up and create such big problems. Thankfully, we di

For many long-term couples, the pressure to maintain a consistent sex life is a great source of stress, says the author, and, ironically, is often the reason they’re not having it consistently. Here are some techniques couples can use to get their accelerator going, according to Nagoski. 🍅Schedule time for sex Couples who stay in long-term, happy relationships usually prioritize sex and even put it on their calendars. Some people hear that and think, ‘Well that’s not really romantic, how much can your partner want you if they have to schedule it?, But is there anything we do in our lives that’s important to us that we don’t schedule? Scheduling sex gives you time to eliminate any stressors that are hitting your brake, whether it’s work-related stress or making sure the house is clean. There is preparation time where you can do whatever it takes for you to reduce your stress levels or get your accelerator warmed up. 🍎Avoid the ‘chasing dynamic’ You want sex. Your partner doesn’t. Or s

Do you ever notice a new haircut or a dress and compliment her, bringing up a wide smile on her face? Dinky things like these are the essence of a relationship. Grand gestures cannot make a difference as big as the small ones. To keep making a difference, do these ten things; they mean the world to her coming from you. 🍎Aiding Her in The Kitchen: When it is her turn to cook and although she is not complaining but there is a lot to do with the kitchen being a mess, your slight help at that moment would make her love you more than ever. It is a little gesture but it implies a hundred things and she knows them all. So it is always a good idea to turn the TV off and move on to the kitchen to offer your services. 🍎Sending Her Slicee Texts: Especially after a long time into the relationship, random untimely texts with a romantic one-liner or a cheesy pickup line do the deed. Excellent morning and good night texts make even more difference, implying that even after being with them for so lo

Those Instagram or Pinterest posts about being the perfect couple or girlfriend seem way too cheesy and easy. Don’t you think? The answer is actually subjective. Dating is undeniably one of life’s greatest experiences and love is truly, a feeling to be embraced by the heart. While couples or social media posts surrounding you suggest that relationships are a piece of cake, I’m sure you know that it isn’t true. It’s actually tons of hard work with compromise, understanding, sacrifices and more. However, no matter the relationship struggles, women always seem to focus on one thing: how to be the best ever girlfriend to their partners. This is a common opinion and want, that even researchers seem to levy upon. Studies suggest that most of the times, women only focus on being the perfect girlfriend, and as a result forget about the other important parameters in the relationship. For them, showing the portrayal of a perfect and idol-like persona of a girlfriend highly matters. However, wome

Sex is wonderful when done right. Sex not only feels good, but it can also be good for your health. Healthy sex life can do wonders for women, not only in the bedroom but mentally and physically. If you were looking for a reason to increase your activities between the sheets, grab your man and have him read these 7 hidden benefits with you: 1. Sex keeps a woman’s immune system active Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that couples who had sex once or twice a week had higher levels of antibody, Immunoglobulin A that fights against germs and viruses – cold/flu. This is not to say that sex is your cure to any cold or flu, but it certainly gives your immune system the needed boost it requires, which works hand in hand with eating right, staying active and exercising moderately. 2. Sex improves a woman’s bladder control At some point in every woman’s life, you will need to focus a lot of activity on strengthening your pelvic floor muscles. These muscles are y

Please save the other person’s feelings and don’t get involved unless you start doing these things! Being in a relationship has more duties than you officially realize. Sure, it is all rainbows and sunshine; but the going to long walks hand in hand with the moon and stars as your guides, having candlelight dinners and funny Valentines – all of that stays fresh and fun to do for a while. But alongside all these things, there are responsibilities you have to fulfil so that the relationship stays strong enough to have all those fun things for. There are traits you need to be sure you possess before you take the major step of starting a life with someone. It can overwhelming at times, having to cope with their issues alongside yours. Are you sure you are ready for that? There will be loads of compromises you have to make for the sake of your partner’s happiness. Are you sure you want to? A whole lot of others things need to be check-listed before you go on to make major relationship decisi

Naughty Truth Or Dare Questions For Guys Truth or dare is a real fun game to play with friends, partners, spouse, crush, or other guys. When you play with just each other, you can more easily turn it into a game of naughty truth or dare and find out some dirty secrets. It is entertaining to play this game! Playing dirty truth or dare with guys can give you a perfect opportunity to ask some questions that you may have wanted to know, but they were not appropriate to ask at any other time. You can ask some funny questions and get hilarious responses from the guys you play truth or dare with. Here are a few lists of questions and dares to help you with coming up with good ideas for your naughty game. These lists are made with asking and daring guys, but many can also apply to girls. Guys, It Strengthens Relationship Playing a naughty version of truth or dare can strengthen your relationship with those you play the game with. Playing with your partner or other guys will definit

A toxic relationship is a relationship that’s detrimental to your life and existence. When you enter a toxic relationship with a person who’s not an ideal match for you, you may actually end up losing yourself and becoming a person you wouldn’t be too happy to be. Some people that we date fill our lives with happiness. And toxic people just drain the happiness out of our lives. Lovers with toxic personalities may not necessarily be bad people. But when they impose their negative way of life on you, it could affect the way you look at life and destroy you from the inside. The bad part about toxic relationships is that you can’t really recognize it at first. But as time goes by, something about them starts to change and everything they do may start to frustrate you. Of course, you won’t be able to blame them because they’d still appear to be the same person you fell in love with.

Times have changed. Today’s woman is far more independent than ever, she is strong enough to support her family single-handedly, and she is progressing in every field. Women are undertaking ventures and taking up challenges that their fore-mothers couldn’t have ever thought of. Taking on an equal share with men in every field, succeeding in corporate sectors, and heading a family as a single parent, women have proven themselves to be as strong as men. When we expect a woman to embrace every challenge in her life strongly, why can’t we accept the fact that even a woman can ask her to crush out on a date? If you are a strong woman who is in control of her life, then what’s wrong with taking control of your love life? A strong woman has thousands of virtuous reasons to ask a man out on a date. 1. You Have The Power To Change The Norm A few decades ago, it wasn’t normal for women to get into relationships with men before their wedding or start living with their guy without gett

Everyone has different expectations when it comes to relationships. While some people love being close to their partner, others find comfort in the little gestures that their partner shows. It might seem that love is the same for everyone, but in reality, people have individual preferences and desires when it comes to relationships. That’s mainly because cater to a different language of love. The concept of languages of love was first introduced by Gary Chapman in the book The 5 Love Languages. Each person has their own way to express as well as receive love. The idea behind knowing your love language is to understand your partner better and maintain a healthy relationship. It can also help you make your relationship last longer. With that said, Below are some of the love languages that exist: 1. Words of affirmation This love language depends on verbal appreciation from a loved one. It does not have to be complicated, it could be as simple as a thank you. Words mean a lot