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Don’t waste your time wondering about his motives, you have to pay attention to his actions and his words as they will reveal to you his true intentions. | Source 1. He Thinks You Have Someone Already Maybe he thinks you’re already taken, or maybe he noticed another “shark in the water” circling around you and he doesn’t feel like getting into a competition. Maybe he thinks some other guy you’re close to would be a better fit. Maybe his best friend likes you more than he does and he wants to let the man have his All sorts of reasons. If he thinks you’re in some kind of relationship already, even if it’s only like a half-relationship or an “it’s complicated” relationship or something equally vague, he’ll usually see that as your being taken, unless he’s the kind of guy who has no qualms about breaking up a relationship (or joining one). So if you’re available and he has any reason to think otherwise, make it clear. Sure, a lot of people like what they can’t have, but you don’t just want...

So, let’s say there’s this guy you really like and luckily for you, he also feels the same. Well, it’s great to love and be loved in return. Now, a new relationship involves a lot of first times for both of you and kissing is no exception. Kissing a guy for the first time can always prove to be a tricky affair. You likely to have a lot of questions going through your mind: What if I do it the wrong way? Will he like the kiss or not? Will he still like me if I make a mistake? Don’t think too much. A first kiss should happen naturally. Instead of panicking, just relax and do what feels right. Things will flow naturally but only if you take it easy. Do not be in a rush to show your romantic side. Even though kissing a guy you have never been intimate with may seem complicated at first, as soon your lips meet his, everything will fall into place. Remember that romantic kissing is the beginning of an enjoyable intimate life so, be good at it and keep him glued. Here are some tips that you c...

Love that lasts is the result of partners embedding themselves in each other's brains in a positive way. Memory circuits and pleasure get all wound up together so that the other person becomes integral to the very structure of your brain, and you become part of the structure of theirs. Here are some steps toward making your love last: 1. Take your partner's breath away. Do something amazingly thoughtful and out of the ordinary and try to incorporate an element of surprise to it: a loving note tucked into a pocket. A special dinner on an otherwise ordinary night. A playlist made up with his favorite songs. These thoughtful acts will embed you in your partner's memory. 2. Do something special on a regular basis. Call them every day just to touch base for a few minutes. Make their favorite meal once a week. Once they begin to expect these things, you will always be close to their awareness. 3. Engage in lots of eye contact. New couples seem to do this naturally, but don't ...

Women sometimes have weird ways of expressing themselves. It is one thing guys will never understand. They will say something but mean something else. Other times too, her emotions can get the better part of her and she can say something she probably doesn’t mean. I know it can get confusing for you men but to make it easier for you fellas, to understand her better, here are 9 things women say but probably do not mean: 1. I HATE YOU In the heat of the moment if she blurts out the three-letter words “ I hate you” do not panic cos I hate you, in this case, could probably mean the opposite which is “I love you” or it could also mean she wants you to treat her right or she wants you to show a little care unless you have been very bad to her then maybe she actually means it. 2. I DON’T NEED YOU If she says this when she is angry, she does not mean it. She says this just so you wouldn’t think she is weak or look at her as someone who is vulnerable. 3. IT DOESN’T MATTER This statement is a li...

Sex is a wonderful, joyful, and pleasurable thing. You may just be discovering the joys of sex, or you might have been having sex for years. You may have had many partners, or you may have only had a handful, or even just one. No matter what your sexual history, knowing how to make love to a man can be the difference between having vanilla, okay sex and having a mind-blowing romp in the sheets. Sex is different for everyone. However, one thing does stay constant, and that is the need and desire to pleasure your partner. It doesn’t matter if it’s your husband or a one-night stand, knowing how to make love to a man can bring a huge number of benefits. Not only will it make him seriously grateful and amazed by your sexual prowess, but it will also make sex more enjoyable for you! So just how can you achieve the greatest sex you and your partner have ever had? Follow these 20 tips for mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex! #1 Talk to him. Being a good lover is all about having gre...

Having sex for the first time with a new person can spark a little bit of anxiety. First off, I know you want everything to perfect but funny enough the things that we always wish for do not always come to past, that is the reality check you need but hey, not to be so much of a party pooper, here are some simple things you should avoid doing when having sex with your partner: 🥢Don’t act like a starfish What I mean by this is that, when your partner is in the mood and makes a move on you, do not lie on the bed and let him or her do all the work. Sex is for your pleasure and it takes effort from both of you to have the best time of your life. The truth is, that is the only place where you can be as wild and as crazy as you want, so why not take advantage of the moment. 🥢Don’t focus only on an orgasm We all know the end game of sex is to climax but If you focus too much on an orgasm, you won’t be able to enjoy all those other things to do with sex. You need to put some effor...

Let’s be real here. We’ve all told lies before. Even though lying can sometimes help you get out of dire situations, it isn’t always the right way to handle things. Usually, when the truth of the matter comes to light, things that can get very messy. Lying in relationships is no exception. However, a relationship built on lies is always a recipe for disaster. Now, not every guy will lie to you about big things. Sometimes the little lies could be the worst offence he’s guilty of  but there are some who are dishonest at their core and can’t help but to deceive you at every possible turn. While it’s impossible to notice liars from the beginning, there are some warning signs that he’s being dishonest that you should look out for. Here are 6 of those signs.  HE OFFERS FEW DETAILS Most guys tend to recognise that when they lie, less is more. Those that don’t know it tend to figure it out quickly. If he’s lying, he’s going to say as little as possible and try not to get dragged down ...

Within the vast abyss of countless relationships and love a woman has had in her life, she always tends to remember those who have left a lasting impression on her. Particularly, while shuffling in between life’s unpredictable chapters, a woman is believed to meet three types of men who leave the most quintessential experience in her life. These three men are the ones, least expected but fortunately the ones she will remember all her life. One, who she wishes to be with her in bed; second, who she wants to be with all the time; third, the one who fosters her memory. The first type of man every woman wants is someone who can quench a woman’s thirst in bed, with passion and warmth. Every time her bed feels empty, that one man will always be ready to fill the gap and nurture her with all sexual desires and passion. A woman fantasises a man who can make her feel feminine and delicate, and not have to put up as a strong woman all the time. The bed during night time is her own sanctuary wher...

If you still love your partner and are willing to work on your relationship, follow these easy steps on how to fix a relationship. They’re so easy it almost seems silly to try. But really, what have you got to lose? It’s easy and can bring back the happiness that’s lost in all the confusion and pain. 1. Start communicating again. How did you deal with the situation the last time you disagreed with your partner, or had a little fight? Most couples prefer to just end an argument with slammed doors and sulking evenings rather than face the situation, sort it out and clear the air. Blame it on egos! You could give each other some space for a couple of days and wait for the issue to get sorted out by itself. But by avoiding a confrontation, you would end a fight but you really can’t understand each other or help each other. Problems that are brushed under the carpet have a way of raising a stink every now and then. The next time you’re feeling frustrated and lonely, talk about it with your ...

Let's stop complaining about poor performance in bed and just start enjoying every bit of sex we have with our partners. There are very little things we can do in order to enjoy a good sex, we don’t have to complain about before. Here are some simple things you can do in order to have a better sex; 1.   Forget about the kids Every super mum wants to think about their kids every time, even when they are about having a good time with their husband, but try not to think about them. If you really want to enjoy your sex life with your husband then forget about your kids when the time is ripe. 2.   Get the lube Don’t be ignorant, just get lube in the house for your pleasure sake, you’ll not always have all the time to enjoy good hours of sex. The lube is there to reduce pain during sex and it even enhances pleasure. 3.   Don’t call for perfection First of all, you don’t have to compete with slay queens or p0rn stars in our bedroom, men hardly notice y...

While personal tastes vary considerably, there are certain things about a man that are almost guaranteed to turn a woman’s head, and ultimately her heart. The more of these traits a man possesses, the better. 1. Confidence This is a big one and is present in body language, tone of voice, and in every way you interact with her. A healthy dose of confidence says you have something to be confident about; let her guess all that it entails! 2. Handiness Men are valued more for their savvy when it comes to fixing things and it’s something women love since this doesn’t come as easily to them. Fix her computer, leaky faucet or windshield wipers and she’ll think you a big strong man capable of making her life a little easier when she hits a snag like this in the middle of her hectic day. 3. Hygiene Looking good and smelling good are crucial factors in the sexual appeal of a mate (and it’s only fair to assume that if you want to attract a woman who is put together nicely that you should put some...

Most of the women are dissatisfied with the way their assets look, either it has something to do with the shape, the size or the fact that their breasts don’t look young anymore. And, if you too have been pondering over where that baby-like softness has disappeared, it’s time to tend to your breasts and pamper them! 1.   Cucumber and egg breast mask Mix half a grated cucumber with 2 egg yolks. Apply the mixture on the breasts for 30 minutes and wash it off with water. Repeat the procedure 2-3 times a week to achieve desired results. Cucumber is known for rejuvenating skin cells and tightening sagging skin. On the other hand, egg yolks are rich in nutrients and can help in improving the overall appearance of breasts. 2.   Fresh cream and almond oil breast mask You can also try using a mixture containing 4 -5 tablespoons of fresh milk cream with 2 tablespoons of almond oil. Apply it to your breasts and massage in an upward circular motion for 10 minutes. Leave it on fo...

If you’re going to make room in your already full life for a guy, he needs to be worth it. While some of the stuff you’re looking for in a relationship and a potential partner will be unique to you, there are certain qualities that any man who’s “boyfriend material” will have right off the bat. If he does these things, you may have finally found a keeper: 1. ERASING ANY DOUBTS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. A good boyfriend doesn’t keep you guessing about how he feels, where things are going or anything else because he knows you deserve better. Plus, he knows you’re a catch and that if he doesn’t step up to the plate, some other guy could swoop in and steal you from right under his knows. He knows what he wants, and that’s you. 2. THINKING YOU’RE THE HOTTEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.  Any guy who’s boyfriend material thinks you’re the most beautiful woman that ever existed and he tells you so through his words and actions. Yes, he’s physically attracted to you, but he also thinks you...

When you’re introduced to a girl or when you walk past her on the streets, you have to remember that she’ll judge you and build an opinion about you within the first few seconds. Want to turn her on and make her fall for you immediately? Use these 15 suggestions. #1 Dress really well. Dress like a million bucks. Improve your wardrobe and dress in clothing that enhance your assets. Girls are immediately attracted to a guy who looks good in the clothes he wears.  #2 Your confidence. Confidence is a huge turn on for any girl. Not cockiness, but confidence. Don’t be nervous or reveal your awkwardness when you’re around a girl and she’ll love your company. #3 A guy who can pursue her and make her feel special. This is rather important. Girls love to be pursued and wooed by a man. Giving her a good chase when she teases you is the best way to let her know how much you want her and appreciate her. #4 A man she’s proud to be with. Are you proud of yourself and your achievements? If you are...

Just like how women love sweet and flattering words, men also love hearing the right words that will lift his spirit. But most women always count it unnecessary to say sweet words to their man, therefore, forgetting that he is also human and that flattering word is not only meant to be said by the men to their woman, but it could be vice versa, love needs to be reciprocal. However, every man likes to hear from a woman to make him feel unique and special. In this context, there are some compliments, comments, strings of conversations, and even verbalized observations that a woman can say to her man as well. Here are a few selections that women can express to her man when on a date or in a serious relationship. I trust you Keeping ourselves guarded and not being able to trust anyone completely is frustrating. Trust is important in a relationship and if you don’t, your man will feel insecure. Having to bear a retaliation all the time is annoying. He will not open to you or speak out his m...

1. You are the one who always initiates and prolongs the conversations. It’s like if you didn’t initiate any conversations between the two of you, you wouldn’t even be talking at all. And whenever you do talk, it’s always you who has to be the one who carries it. It’s always you who has to be the one who keeps things going. Otherwise, you’d only have 5 minute conversations about the weather. 2. You are the one who is known to be more intimate and affectionate. When it comes to affection and intimacy, it’s always you who is the initiator. He never wants to get intimate with you (unless he just wants to have s*x). But when it comes to establishing a real emotional connection with you, he’s not really having it. You’re going to have to pick up the slack on that front. 3. You are there for him on a physical and emotional level – while fails to do so in both parts. You are there for him physically and emotionally. And he might be there for you on a physical level – but it’s the ...

Have you wondered how long foreplay is supposed to last? I don’t think it is supposed to go on for 5 minutes or 10, but for as long as the two of you want to keep things going. In the early day's, foreplay lasts hours, fast forward a year, well not everyone is a fun of the game. There is always one thing in mind once you get to the bedroom, sex. However, what do women really think during foreplay? Here are some of the things they think of; 1.   We have been kissing for more than 30 seconds, this means he’s definitely going to go for the big show, sex! Good. 2.   Wow, how does he already have one hand in my pants and the other grappling my b00bs? How is he so good? 3.   Okay, this is uncomfortable and it kind of hurts. Why wouldn’t he just remove my jeans and go ahead? 4.   Huh, I have no clothes on. Is this happening, like seriously and now! 5.   Why does he keep rubbing his hard p3nis against my thigh? That’s cute, but am I going to dea...

Honesty is very important and in fact, the best policy for a successful relationship, but no partner really wants to be the one to break the news that someone is pretty bad in bed. Many men suffer from sexual prowess and the truth be told, they hate it when anyone spill the beans. But don’t worry, we are going to give you some good tips that will help you to honestly tell him. 1.   Suggest you guys try something new It shouldn’t be something you have no idea of, but aware that it will make things better than before. By saying it’s a ‘new thing’, you avoid hinting that you’re not satisfied in bed but prefer a new style or position. 2.   Never fake out It might be a boost to his confidence, but not for long and once he discovers that you’ve been lying things will just get worse. There is no need to fake orgasm just to make him feel good, just hold on. 3.   Talk about it It’s either you do the talking during the act or right after the act that way,...

1. It relieves stress. Hormones and endorphins are released into the body during sex, which helps to reduce cortisol and relieve stress.  And whether you are in a committed relationship or a new one, anticipation provides mood altering sensations that benefit our desire for sex. 2. We sleep better. And who doesn’t like a good night sleep! Vasopressin, released during orgasm, is associated with better sleep, as is oxytocin. 3. We bond with our partner. Oxytocin, considered the love hormone, released during orgasm produces feelings of warmth and connection with our partners. And there are some studies that indicate that falling asleep shortly after having sex indicates that desire to bond. And isn’t it delicious to sometimes sleep in the arms of your beloved? 4. We live longer. Interested in living long and well. Cultivate good sex. Here’s my take away on this oh so hot topic: It may be about the destination (orgasm), but it’s the journey that gets me there. Ask yourself ...