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Relationships are sometimes the best moments one can ever experience in his or her life. It's something that we are always meant to undergo provided we are very normal. Now, we all have different approaches when it comes to this. That is there are certain things that men will always feel happy when they are done to them. These vary from what ladies will always feel happy and excited when touched. Of course, for all genders, the basic thing that everyone wants is being shown, true love. However, deep down, there are certain specific things that we always want. When it comes to ladies, there are certain things that they will always feel happy when happens to them. Of course, we know that they always like it when they are shown love by either being touched or when anything positive is done to them. Like most of the time, when you find ladies seated together, they will always dedicate their time and mend each other's hair. This is something that keeps them together and

Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for couples. Many of us feel embarrassed about our bodies or have been sexually rejected at some point. Not to mention our culture and life experiences which have created feelings of sexual shame, making romantic and intimate sex a scary endeavor to even talk about. Sexually satisfied couples are emotionally attuned to each other inside and outside of the bedroom. The key to long-term happiness then, sexually and otherwise, is for both partners to support and value their friendship. Below are five steps to make sex more romantic in your relationship. •Learn the art of sex talk A major obstacle to having good sex is talking about sex. Since it can be such a sensitive topic, many couples “vague out” rather than vulnerably tell each other what they need. Only 9% of couples who can’t comfortably talk about sex with one another report they’re satisfied sexually. Talking about sex is a powerful way to deepen intimacy and emotional connection. It allows partn

Modern dating is an infamous concept nowadays. How the previous generation viewed dating has a high contrast to the current millennia's dating concept. A person’s way of perceiving their dating life can be via old-school books, online dating perceptions and even through peers. Meeting countless people in your life can also engrave different ideas and opinions within you and as a result, people nowadays are really picky while considering the ideal dating partner. We understand that you might have some preferences, but you should let go of the ideal list of things your partner should have. After all, truth be said, love is blind and feelings and understanding are the only things that matter at the end of the day. So we have rounded up a list of things you should completely avoid while looking for a fulfilling life partner. 1.Their overall looks No matter how much we deny it, we do end up considering the person’s hair, looks and height. We are normally attracted towards the exterior p

“Last night was fun, but will he call me back again?” If you find yourself asking that question after you had sex with the guy you were dating, then it’s time to stop and think. If you don’t prefer one-night stands then you have to be careful with whom you share extremely intimate moments like sex. Most women fear giving themselves to guys as they feel they’ll lose their power once both of them have had sex. Since ages, sex has been emotionally constructed as a powerful tool that can determine one’s intentions towards their prospective partners. If they prefer to not talk after they’ve had sex, means that they are not interested to pursue it further. While others who want to go for dates after such an intense night can be considered as ones genuinely interested. Modern pop culture has portrayed sex as an easy tool to satisfy one’s needs without ever considering their feelings. Women often find themselves asking if they like the guy they just slept with and question if their decision to

In a relationship, you find many people always protecting the interest of the women and giving the man most of the jobs to do. Meanwhile, the man also deserves those goodies. Don't be deceived that men are strong and can handle everything. 1.Men Don’t Read into Things Very Much. That's why a lot of times, ladies will get upset when they ask for our opinion on things that matter to them, and we reply I don’t know. Ladies please don't get too upset about that, though it can be annoying but know that he isn't trying to hide anything from you. Safe Ways To Avoid And Remove Skin Tags 2.Men Cry Too Remember It’s a new age now and it’s okay for men to cry. Guys can get very emotional too. They’re humans, right? Don’t ever expect that men will always be the hard, strong, rough, and unbreakable figure that they try to present themselves to be.  3.Men Also Crave Attention. It may interest you to know men also yearn for attention and time. Don’t, even for a second, think that guys

According to research, nearly 60 percent of couples don’t disclose their salaries or actual salaries to each other before saying, “I do”. It’s only after the wedding that reality hits couples to begin to wonder why they never had specific conversations before saying ‘I do’. They never talked about job relocation, fertility issues, extended family and the new lifestyle. However, these are the kind of things that are supposed to be discussed. Whether you’re deeply in love or too obsessed, talk about these five things with your partner; 1.   Handling your finances it is one of the most exciting things to talk about with your partner and it is for the better. From savings, financial goals, debts and everything relating to finance, make sure to talk about it. 2.   Sexual views This is a must-have discussion. Understanding each other’s sexual opinions is no more a taboo because what happens between the sheets is a marriage factor. If you suspect that you and your partner might not be sexuall

You can try to turn yourself on, but for most of the time, you may just end up feeling lost or even bored after a while, especially at the beginning. But instead of focusing on turning yourself on or orgasming, if you could just relax and try to have a good time by yourself, you’d be able to see how simple and liberating self help can actually turn out to be. For the first timers and even the seasoned pros who want to have a great time turning themselves on, here’s a guide on how to turn yourself on, using nothing more than your five senses, and a few add ons that can pleasure you and satisfy you, more than you can imagine. If this is your first time, try not to stress yourself out. Instead, just give yourself an hour or so of self time and have a great time, all by yourself. Sight – Watch what excites you Watching a bit of nudity can be exciting for anyone, be it a man or a woman. Lie down or sit down with your laptop nearby and visit a few of those websites your nanny wouldn’t allow.

When you feel it, say it. It’s that simple really. But as simple as it may seem, there are a few things you should remember to make sure your loving words have the impact you desire. Firstly, before you say ‘I love you’, you need to have a vague idea about your date’s feelings towards you. Saying ‘I love you’ is like a binding contract, even if just one person says it to the other. And once you’ve said it, there’s no turning back. Your date has to accept your proposal at some point of time or the whole things gets called off. But you don’t have to be scared though. Love is a leap of faith, and there’s no point in playing safe in the world of dating and love.

Knowing you're in love feels different for everyone. Some have been in love often and know the feeling well, and others may be not so sure if it's love or just a deep infatuation.  Luckily, your body has some pretty sneaky ways of tipping you off to whether these feelings for your partner are more than just a passing phase. Keep an eye out for these tell-tale signs the next time you catch yourself wondering if you're actually in love. 1.You can't stop staring at them. If your partner has ever caught you staring at them lovingly, it could be a sign that you're head over heels. Eye contact means that you're fixated on something, so if you find that your eyes are fixed on your partner, you may just be falling in love. Studies have also found that couples who lock eyes report feeling a stronger romantic connection than those who don't. It goes the other way too: when a study had strangers lock eyes for minutes at a time, they reported romantic feeling towards ea

We have all have the same dream, a perfect relationship, our wedding and the marriage that follows with a lot of love and care from a partner. Which is why, when anything shifts from the thought-out plan, it leads to disappointments. Relationship arguments are not uncommon, remember it’s about two people sharing their lives and it’s natural they have different opinions and ideologies. However, trouble starts when fights become more important than the relationship itself. This can also be the fault of society who always teaches us the idea of a soul mate. One person cannot become everything to you and neither should it be like that. You cannot always dump all your problems on your partner and expect them to understand. They are human as well and have issues to deal with. They shouldn’t expect you to have all the answers to their problems. But this is something we all ignore. We often burden our partners even if they are not in that headspace to deal with it. Are you wondering, is it hea

Have you wondered how long foreplay is supposed to last? I don’t think it is supposed to go on for 5 minutes or 10, but for as long as the two of you want to keep things going. In the early day's, foreplay lasts hours, fast forward a year, well not everyone is a fun of the game. There is always one thing in mind once you get to the bedroom, sex. However, what do women really think during foreplay? Here are some of the things they think of; 1.   We have been kissing for more than 30 seconds, this means he’s definitely going to go for the big show, sex! Good. 2.   Wow, how does he already have one hand in my pants and the other grappling my b00bs? How is he so good? 3.   Okay, this is uncomfortable and it kind of hurts. Why wouldn’t he just remove my jeans and go ahead? 4.   Huh, I have no clothes on. Is this happening, like seriously and now! 5.   Why does he keep rubbing his hard p3nis against my thigh? That’s cute, but am I going to deal with it today? BJ, oral sex and all?   6. 

When a friend tells you, “Love really hurts” there is always a reason and you don’t have to laugh about it. Sometimes even the happiest relationship comes with a lot of agonies, problems you never saw coming. There are a few things that a girl does after a break-up. For example, they might start stalking their ex on all social media channels, they might think of messaging their ex again. We think these things are mostly done by girls just to get over a guy they’ve so much but broken up with; 1.   Hangout with friends This is the first thing she does especially if she was close to her friends while dating. Doing this will help her to get over the guy quickly and sometimes, they end up doing a lot of crazy stuff in the process. 2.   A lot of shopping Her friends will encourage her to now focus on herself and spend what she used to spend on the guy for herself. They go out buying everything they think they need but don’t really have use for. 3.   Try new things Yeah, ladies mostly want to

If you've been wondering when love feelings come to you and for a woman let me tell you the truth ... not the first time you will meet for a date but the second time. Here's where the two of you romance begins. This is a major problem that many men fail to understand.   You find a man dropping all his weapons on his first day with a woman ... a very serious mistake. Ok I know what you think.   What about meeting a woman the second day when you can score the first time you meet?   Well, I'm not suggesting that it's not bad to close the game the first day.   In the beginning I am among those who are proud to receive such an allocation. But believe me if I tell you that over time the flange will reach a level where you will give up your pro women's quest and you will want to find a normal woman to start another level relationship.   Sex is just the beginning.   So it is best to start looking for a woman who matches you with your mind and attitude. THIS SECR

Do you think you really know what your man is craving for in the relationship? I’m sure some ladies would probably give answers such as; “Men want a woman who always agrees with him” or “Men crave for sex or possibly want someone with a perfect body. The truth be told, every man or most men would like to have everything that has been mentioned above, but they would do whatever it takes to get pleased by a woman without putting in too much effort. Men crave praise and admiration more than anything else. Men are in fact powerless when it comes to resisting a woman who truly and wholeheartedly shows her admiration for him and what he does. Another thing is that it isn’t as simple as just saying a nice thing to him, there is much more to it than just admiration. Here are 3 ingredients for making him powerless to resist you. 1.   Be a woman worth his admiration It’s not about being perfect, but actually demonstrating the values. Does he feel lucky to have you in his life? Are yo

Running into an ex is not the best feeling in the world. But here are 7 tips to make sure you still feel super-awesome after that awkward moment! Read the signs when you bump into your ex #1 Keep it simple and brief. Don’t stretch the conversation with your ex. Be warm and friendly, but keep the conversation short to avoid awkward moments or new complications in love. #2 Prepare your mind. Visualize yourself having a short and courteous conversation with an ex of yours. It’ll help you stay prepared for that chance meeting. #3 Reading between the lines. Don’t try to read between the lines while talking to your ex. Exes can be sarcastic and rude, or at times, they may speak in riddles or hint that they’re still missing you and want you. Trying to decipher your ex’s mind will only confuse you or trick you into assuming something that may not be the truth. #4 Don’t be bitter. Life is too short to hold on to grudges with an ex, unless they tore your heart and shoved it through a paper shred

I am all about giving everyone the needed respect and never bring anyone down out of spite especially women. In fact, one of the reasons I like to write about relationships is so that other women can benefit from it and share our experiences online.  That way, we can at least not feel alone in what we experience. We are all in this together and we deserve to be loved in a way that makes us happy. We really don’t need men who are terrible at being good boyfriends while we are trying to be the best versions of ourselves.  So how can you tell if he is a good boyfriend? There are several ways but coming down to the basics, he shouldn’t ask you to do these things. CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK Be yourself as a woman and a good boyfriend would love you the way you are. It shouldn’t matter what shape, size or colour you have. It wouldn’t matter if you prefer a certain look or clothes.  He lets you express yourself the way you want and would never make any silly demands like asking you to change you

Modern dating is an infamous concept nowadays. How the previous generation viewed dating has a high contrast to the current millennia's dating concept. A person’s way of perceiving their dating life can be via old-school books, online dating perceptions and even through peers. Meeting countless people in your life can also engrave different ideas and opinions within you and as a result, people nowadays are really picky while considering the ideal dating partner. We understand that you might have some preferences, but you should let go of the ideal list of things your partner should have. After all, truth be said, love is blind and feelings and understanding are the only things that matter at the end of the day. So we have rounded up a list of things you should completely avoid while looking for a fulfilling life partner. 1.Their overall looks No matter how much we deny it, we do end up considering the person’s hair, looks and height. We are normally attracted towards the exterior p

Trust is the foundation of a great relationship. When that trust is broken, and you’ve been betrayed by your former boyfriend or husband, it can feel like you can’t trust anyone but yourself. Learning to trust men again after a devastating betrayal might seem like a long shot, but it is definitely possible. Here are some of the ways you can work towards learning to trust men again. 1  Stop blaming yourself. It wasn’t something you did or said that caused your partner to betray you. It was as simple as the fact that you picked a bad egg. You got it wrong last time by putting your trust in someone who didn’t have the decency to value that trust, and you most definitely learned from that experience. Remember that when someone betrays their partner, they are not a loyal and honest person of good moral character. You didn’t want  someone like that in your life, and you shouldn’t blame yourself for someone else’s bad behavior. 2  Feel your feelings. Make sure you go through the feelings of g

Women love receiving compliments from the man they love but for so many men out there, this isn’t an easy task. Every man ought to master the art of giving compliments because it makes women feel loved and desired. Before giving compliments, you should identify what the woman likes about herself, the things she wants for herself, and the things she wants to improve about herself. You should also ensure your compliments go beyond her beauty and only use compliments about her beauty when it makes sense like when you’re together for a special occasion. Compliments appeal more to women when they happen naturally as this shows you are honest. This is because she knows you didn’t have the time to plan. Now you understand the basics you need to know before giving compliments, here are compliments that would make her heart melt: 1. I’ve learned a lot from you Women appreciate it when a man acknowledges how knowledgeable they are. Women hate it when it is just their beauty that appeals to you.

 Most women believe they know most things about Guys, what turns him on and off during bedroom time , bit that's not real true as your going  to find more things you're not aware from your man The act of sex is mostly familiar to everyone but there are some things you need to understand on your man that will make sex enjoyable  these are ,, >During the middle of intercourse  men become happy with everything he sees >When he is in deep thrusting all his physicalogical sysmptoms including heart rate , breathing and muscular tension are at peak >And when he is in the way of finshing or climaxing  he surrenders by touching your body parts tightly these parts includes boobs,nipples thus when you observe such situation try to do the same to create same ending too.

It’s never easy to recollect when the relationship actually started going bad. At times, it may be a simple roll of the eye, or a time when you felt underappreciated or felt that nagging feeling of insecurity. And at other times, it may be something more glaring and obvious like an affair or an argument.  The start of an unhealthy relationship isn’t easy to decipher, but it almost always begins with these 18 signs. If you see any of these unhealthy relationship signs sprouting in your romance, weed them out immediately. Doing so will not only save your relationship, but also bring more love and happiness in your relationship. Do you see any of these 18 signs in your love life? Communicate about it with your lover, and the happiness will seep right back into your lives stronger and it would last longer! #1 Dishonesty and secrecy. Do you cover up a lie with half truths even if it’s something as trivial as what you’ve been up to the whole day? Or do you have a secret crush on someone and

Each relationship has its own curve and details that decide the longevity of the relationship. You must be really happy in your relationship and felt that you have finally ended up with the 'right' girl only to realise later that things are becoming too clingy. Even if you both feel a connection, the go-with-the-flow type of a relationship can turn to an insecure and suffocating relationship. So let us address the big elephant in the room and crack a solution if your girlfriend turns clingy. How do you think you should handle a clingy girlfriend? Many guys think breaking up is the easiest solution to getting rid of such girls. But if you're genuinely into her and wish to keep the relationship going on, there are a few decent ways to deal with your clingy girlfriend too 1.Understand your part To start dealing with your clingy lover, you need to first understand why is she acting like that. Because what you see as "needy" could be her way of expressing what she need

Nowadays the issue of what women want is quite difficult to get a answer to. Knowing what people want in a partnership has been difficult, the majority suggest people are obsessed with wealth, so if you don't have that, you don't have a chance to be accepted. Women are different and they're going to be more interested with the little stuff than the big issues, you 're going to find that in a partnership scenario the popular perception that women only want money is just not true. In a relationship those that are involved in money appear not to be real. There are four things here that would help them stay in your life, which they are never going to be honest about. Intelligence Many women are sapiosexual i.e. they are drawn to individuals who are creative and who can find answers to problems in real time. Such groups of individuals involve anyone who can talk fluently in public, which attract people's attention for the insight they show while discussing problems. Thes