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You love your partner, but when it comes to affection, it’s not your forte. But there are simple things you can learn on how to be affectionate. #1 How do you express affection?  You are affectionate, just maybe not in the same way as your partner. And that’s fine. Not every couple matches perfectly in this department. What you need to do is find out how you and your partner both express affection. Usually, there are five ways: acts of kindness, giving gifts, physical touch, quality time, and words of assurance. #2 Talk to your partner.  If you’re not feeling loved or your partner is feeling neglected, talk about it with them. You don’t need to become upset or angry; this is a moment for you to self-improve. Be honest with each other and see how you can work things out. #3 Start being affectionate.  You may want your partner to be more affectionate, but sometimes they need a helping hand. So, why not make the first move? Make your partner breakfast in bed, pack their lunch, or hold the

Whether the problem is big or small, there are many things you can do to get your sex life back on track. Your sexual well-being goes hand in hand with your overall mental, physical, and emotional health. Communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, availing yourself of some of the many excellent self-help materials on the market, and just having fun can help you weather tough times. Enjoying a satisfying sex life Sex. The word can evoke a kaleidoscope of emotions. From love, excitement, and tenderness to longing, anxiety, and disappointment—the reactions are as varied as sexual experiences themselves. What’s more, many people will encounter all these emotions and many others in the course of a sex life spanning several decades. But what is sex, really? On one level, sex is just another hormone-driven bodily function designed to perpetuate the species. Of course, that narrow view underestimates the complexity of the human sexual response. In addition to the biochem

Feelings of jealousy are quite common in a relationship. After all, if your partner is closely interacting with someone, feeling jealous is quite normal. Making your partner feel jealous can be fun but not when it becomes so frequent that the other partner starts feeling suffocated because of the overwhelming jealousy. So, we bring to you 6 ways that will help you to deal with overwhelming jealousy in your relationship. 1.Practice trust This is the most essential rule of all relationships. Even if you are in fear of the unknown and what might just break your relationship, you still have to trust the bond between you two. To trust is to love-this saying is quite true, because until you trust your partner completely, you can't love them nor can be happy in the relationship, with guilty feelings of jealousy clogging your mind. 2.Don’t act on your jealousy Acting up on your jealousy can be really destructible. Often, when you are extremely jealous, you also tend to be angry and speak h

First love is sweet, exciting, and also confusing. Let me give you the heads up on what you should know before you take the plunge. Here are things you should be aware of when you first fall in love. #1  True love emotions can sometimes be overwhelming and confusing.  Falling in love doesn’t literally mean that you are actually in love yet. When you’re falling in love, you feel infatuated, giddy, creative and sensational, but sometimes, these feelings can turn into obsession and co-dependency. If you don’t control your emotions, you will feel that you can no longer live without that person, and then, instead of a healthy relationship, you become a relationship addict. Relationship addiction can be emotionally destructive, demanding and abusive. Learn to control yourself and your emotions, as not doing this may lead you to become excessively clingy. #2  Unreasonable expectations are usually on the agenda. When you fall in love, you may start to expect certain things from your partner, t

Have you wondered how long foreplay is supposed to last? I don’t think it is supposed to go on for 5 minutes or 10, but for as long as the two of you want to keep things going. In the early day's, foreplay lasts hours, fast forward a year, well not everyone is a fun of the game. There is always one thing in mind once you get to the bedroom, sex. However, what do women really think during foreplay? Here are some of the things they think of; 1.   We have been kissing for more than 30 seconds, this means he’s definitely going to go for the big show, sex! Good. 2.   Wow, how does he already have one hand in my pants and the other grappling my b00bs? How is he so good? 3.   Okay, this is uncomfortable and it kind of hurts. Why wouldn’t he just remove my jeans and go ahead? 4.   Huh, I have no clothes on. Is this happening, like seriously and now! 5.   Why does he keep rubbing his hard p3nis against my thigh? That’s cute, but am I going to deal with it today? BJ, oral sex and all?   6. 

Love is a good thing. Love gets awesome when it's reciprocated. But it also gives one headache when its coming from one end but the recipient doesn't care. 🍅Why do you love me? By any chance a lady tells you this ,you just need to go out of your way and tell her some all sorts of sweet things she needs to hear of herself. 🍓Can't you see am here. It shows that you not giving her the attention she needs, almost all ladies needs attention it's very important. 🍎If she stops calling you. Once a lady stops calling you just know that she wants to how much you care about her, so you should take the responsibility and call to check up on her it very important. 🍑Someone is asking for my hands in marriage If any lady tells you this she simply means she ready for marriage and you need to do your best. 🍇Can you drive. Some of the ladies have mostly a sense of luxurious style, so by any chance a lady asks you the above question she needs to know if you own a car. 🍉Can i call yo

Nowadays the issue of what women want is quite difficult to get a answer to. Knowing what people want in a partnership has been difficult, the majority suggest people are obsessed with wealth, so if you don't have that, you don't have a chance to be accepted. Women are different and they're going to be more interested with the little stuff than the big issues, you 're going to find that in a partnership scenario the popular perception that women only want money is just not true. In a relationship those that are involved in money appear not to be real. There are four things here that would help them stay in your life, which they are never going to be honest about. Intelligence Many women are sapiosexual i.e. they are drawn to individuals who are creative and who can find answers to problems in real time. Such groups of individuals involve anyone who can talk fluently in public, which attract people's attention for the insight they show while discussing problems. Thes

Yeah, don’t deny it, I know you know his every move. If you’ve been eyeing a guy and you want him, well, there are a couple of things you can do to help avert his attention in the right direction… you know… in YOUR direction. So, it’s time to switch your method up and read about these 5 ways to learn how to make a guy want you. #1 Confidence. This is huge and probably the most important factor in learning how to make a guy want you. You need to be confident, and you need to show that you love yourself. There’s a reason why men drop their jaws when they see a woman walking confidently down the street  she is spewing sex appeal and confidence. She doesn’t need them, and that’s what makes her sexy as hell. If you want the guy, you need to think that you don’t need the guy. #2 Body language is key. Have you ever seen a couple sitting at the bar? They’re facing each other, leaning forward with feet pointing in the other’s direction. Before you even have to open your mouth, you can signal yo

Women and sexuality is a topic that's quite important in my practice. Many women come into my office, with or without their partner, concerned about their low libido and general lack of interest in sex.   The most recent Diagnostic Manual has combined female sexual arousal and desire/interest together because you cannot separate the arousal process from having sexual desire.   In other words, for many women, having the desire is a circular process, during which they must become aroused before desiring sex. For these women, arousal comes as a response to their partner and their environment, and may then lead to desire. When it comes to libido, men generally have a more linear process. Depending on your culture, family role models, and religion you were brought up in, you may have learned some ideas about sex that deprived you of healthy sexual selfishness.   Many women have learned that sex is about pleasing the man, especially when in committed relationships.   I have heard phrases

Want to know what guys think when it comes to girls and relationships? Read these 24 facts about guys that’ll reveal everything you need to know:  #1 Your boyfriend will feel easily threatened when you flirt with another guy in front of him. But at the same time, your boyfriend will feel like he’s on top of the world if you cling on to him in front of other guys who are attracted to you. Make him feel lucky to date you when there are so many other guys who like you and he’ll love you more. #2 Guys are attracted only by the physical appearances of a girl at first sight. But it isn’t always about a perfect ten body. It could be a girl’s cute smile, the way she flicks her hair, or even the way she stares at him from across the room that draws him to her.  #3 Guys do want to talk about their feelings too. Just because they don’t initiate heart to heart conversations doesn’t mean they don’t like talking about it. Find a perfect way to make him open up to you. #4 Every guy will definitely ta

That’s my advice. If I was able to get over my ex, I am sure that you will too. Even though it feels like it, it is not the end of the world. There is still someone out there waiting for you who will find you no matter what. Be thankful and learn from your past and use that to become a better and more lovable person. Realize that there are different kinds of people that we are meant to meet in life. Some of them are just passing by to give us lessons, some will make us stronger, some are meant to show us what real world is like and there are some who will stay with us forever. Love yourself more and you'll see that new love is coming along soon enough.

First of all, know that it's very normal to notice a change in your man’s sexual drive after marriage. The reasons could be many, so don't feed yourself the thought that he doesn't find you attractive anymore. Take the necessary steps instead to make sure your husband gets in the mood, especially when you want his attention. Don't force anything but trying these things will definitely get him in the mood to share intimate moments with you. - Initiate sex: One of the simplest ways to get your husband's attention in bed is to be the one who initiates sex. Don't always wait for him to take the lead. It can get boring for him to always take charge and seduce you to be physically intimate with you. Turn the table at times and see how quickly it changes the mood for your spouse. - Become the sexy masseuse: Once in a while, it's okay to give your man a relaxing massage. You have no idea how a massage can turn your man's mood around. Take some effort

We all know how it feels when we like someone and the joy of seeing the person becomes something we can’t escape or hide even if we want to. Most of us can attest to the fact that we have not always been lucky having someone to confess their feelings. It’s either we are friend-zone or they can’t tell where we even belong. It’s not the end of the world for you yet, because there is a way to show someone you like them and want to take things to a deeper level. If you are really close the person you love, here is how to reveal your feelings; 1.  Always show up in outings and make sure you're seeing a lot of each other, so others can even take notice. 2.  Try to give him and yourself space to miss each other. This could help you figure out where he stands. 3.  Put an effort to get close to his friends.  4.  You don't have to agree with everything he says. Be open and honest and also voice out your likes and dislikes.   5.  Try to increase your 1 on 1 time as much as pos

Everyone lies in their relationship – either to keep arguments from happening, to save themselves from looking bad, or even to save their relationship. There are different degrees of lying, and men have a ton of lies that they commonly use. For men, the lies told are quite unlimited. In their relationships with wives and girlfriends, lies seem to be so widespread that some now believe that 18 out every 20 men are guilty of these. So what are the lies that men seems to enjoy telling? Below is a list of 8 lies to look out for when dating: 1. I will never cheat again! Everyone wants to believe their boyfriend will never cheat again, but if he cheated once he will probably cheat again. Cheating becomes a habit, one that is difficult to break. If you find out your boyfriend cheated on you, that is a clear sign to move on. He clearly does not respect you or the relationship you are in. 2. Yes, I was listening This isn’t as serious as cheating, but it can be quite frustrating. Whe

Listen carefully girls, because I’m about to uncover some very powerful sex secrets, which will drive men absolutely crazy in bed. I’m going to reveal things I love women to do to me, and other things men have confessed to loving in bed. I’m keeping nothing secret, so sit down and pay attention. And don’t worry if you’re single. Bookmark this page for when you do meet a special man. Make sure you take notes, because the 5 simple tips I’m about to share with you, will make men feel they’re with the best lover they’ve ever had. And here’s the truth… If a man believes you’re the best lover he’s had, he’ll never want to let you go! To make a man want to commit to you for life, you need to rock his world in the bedroom. So, without further or do, here are 5 ways to drive men wild, and have him begging on his hands and knees for more. 1. Learn How To Sext   In order to drive a man wild with desire, you have to drive his mind wild first. Texts, or “sexts,” turn a man on more than

Many women have admitted to planning their big day even before finding the right guy. Men behave very differently. Only once they have determined that they have found their ideal woman will they even start thinking about settling down. Even then, it may take them years to finally pop the question. This can be very frustrating for women, especially those who sense their biological clock madly ticking away. Sure he may say he loves you, but that alone is not an indication that being with you forever is part of his grand plans. There is no denying that if you poke and prod too hard, you may send him running off into the arms of the next sexy charlatan who comes along. So how do you know if the man you’re with wants to marry you? Be on the lookout for these 5 signs below and it may give you an inkling into whether or not he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. #1 He uses the word “we.” When a man peppers his sentences with ‘we’ instead of ‘me’, he already thinks of the two of you

In this generation, so many dating terms have been introduced and friends with benefits seem to be the most popular one. Few relationships are as intense as being friends-with-benefits, mainly because it sounds amazing and yet seems impossible to maintain. The idea of having fun, casual sex with someone that you already know and trust certainly has some appeal. However, it also has a lot of downsides. If this is an idea that you and one of your friends have thought about, here are a few key rules to abide by to try and make a no-strings relationship work for the best. 1.      FIRST AND FOREMOST, YOU HAVE TO BE COMFORTABLE WITH THE GUY  This might be pretty obvious, but it bears stating anyway. You might be attracted to a male friend, but take a second to imagine actually doing the deed with this person – a guy who has, perhaps, witnessed your “vomit incident” in elementary school or watched you make a drunken fool out of yourself freshman year of college. Now, this could be exciting fo

These are things you won’t hear men talking about, but trust me when I say; they are on their minds. 1. A partner who has their own identity One thing that happens in a relationship is partners get comfortable with each other. This is good for many reasons, but there is one negative aspect to getting comfortable: losing your identity as an individual. You can end up identifying yourself and what you want out of life through the relationship and not as a person. They want a partner who is committed to the relationship but also committed to being the best version of themself. There is nothing s3xier than a strong and confident person. 2. A partner who is self-motivated When you see problems arise in a relationship, it’s often because one partner lets himself or herself go. This can relate to weight, habits, work, ambitions, or a variety of other areas in a relationship. They’ve lost their self-motivation and rely on their partner for their strength. At first, this is cute and flattering.

I must admit that most of us have done some silly things just to get the attention of someone we like. I’m guessing that was when we were younger and didn’t know much. Now, we’re older and with age comes wisdom. Frankly, it can be difficult trying to get someone’s attention when they’re not giving it to you. But rather than constantly blowing up their phone with messages or asking them to hang out, sometimes the best thing you can do is give them space. Creating distance between you and your crush is a good way to gain their attention. Once they feel you pulling back or if they think your attention is being focused elsewhere, they’ll be motivated to get you back. The following ways to give him space are sure-fire ways to get him to pursue you. 1.        GO ON A TRIP WITH YOUR FRIENDS Going out of town is the ultimate way to put distance between you and your love interest. He would be left in the dust knowing that you’re with your best friends having a blast. To be fair, going on a vaca