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Want to know what guys think when it comes to girls and relationships? Read these 24 facts about guys that’ll reveal everything you need to know:  #1 Your boyfriend will feel easily threatened when you flirt with another guy in front of him. But at the same time, your boyfriend will feel like he’s on top of the world if you cling on to him in front of other guys who are attracted to you. Make him feel lucky to date you when there are so many other guys who like you and he’ll love you more. #2 Guys are attracted only by the physical appearances of a girl at first sight. But it isn’t always about a perfect ten body. It could be a girl’s cute smile, the way she flicks her hair, or even the way she stares at him from across the room that draws him to her.  #3 Guys do want to talk about their feelings too. Just because they don’t initiate heart to heart conversations doesn’t mean they don’t like talking about it. Find a perfect way to make him open up to you. #4 Every guy will d

We all possess qualities good and some not so good. The key? The good outweighs the bad, which in relationships isn’t always easy. Some qualities of a good woman are highly overlooked. And, if you aren’t paying attention, you might miss them. If you find a woman with these good qualities, you are one hell of a lucky guy. Don’t let her get away.   #1 She is nurturing. Nurturing is one of the best qualities that women possess. It is the ability to care for someone and to see their individual needs. Nurturing someone doesn’t mean that you “take care of them.” You recognize a person’s individual needs and seek to fulfill them when you can. If you have a woman who nurtures, you are golden. #2 She is forgiving. One of the best qualities of a good woman is forgiveness. Some people just say, “I forgive you,” and some people mean it. There is a supreme difference. The woman who truly forgives doesn’t bring up your past ills at every fight. If she forgave, she has forgotten. It remains in the pa

Guys, making a woman happy is not an uphill task, it is easier than you think. You do not need to have all the money in the world to know how to make a woman happy. Women love expressive men who are not afraid to tell them how they feel. Guys, if you can learn how to say sweet things to your girl, you will have the best relationship in the world. I love all the stars in the sky, but you shine brighter than them all. Our love is sweet only because we are perfect for each other When you need someone to be there for you, I’ll be right there by your side always! I valiant man is not scared of death but living without his love scares him to death. There is no point to stare at the clouds at night; the stars are in your eyes, my beloved. A women's smile tells a lot about her heart, then your's is priceless. Life is fantastic but what is life without you. Your heart is the only world I want to spend my whole life. I do not have any fantasies, I already have a fantastic woman. Your lov

Most young ladies in a relationship love a ton of things yet are generally bashful about how to tell their accomplices. Tragically for certain men, they don't have the foggiest idea how to guess what them girlfriend might be thinking to truly understand what she needs. In this article, I will put down 8 things in which your better half needs from you yet are consistently timid to advise you. The following are things ladies love yet won't advise you. 1. Acquainting her with every one of your companions at work Most young ladies loves their men to do this since it causes them to feel exceptionally pleased with themselves. Yet, it's shockingly to such an extent that most men disregard this. 2. Making her to feel cherished. By causing her to feel cherished consistently doesn't infer that you call her or something like that. Yet, play with her, convey her on your arms could likewise suggest that you're causing her to feel herself. 3. Giving her cash. This is the main pie

How to get him in the mood for sex isn't a hard task especially when you know how to turn him on the right way! Sometimes it's hard to find the signs that he's in the mood, so, you need to take charge and initiate some sexy time. Use these tips to get him at the right place; 1.   Take a hot shower Noting says sexy like a steamy hot shower. Once you’re done, give him a little massage to pamper him and he'll definitely be pulling you in. 2.   Sexy lingerie Never underestimate the power of a sexy lingerie, but it should be something that makes you feel good and confident. Put on lingerie and he won’t be able to resist easily. 3.   Sexting If you're staying at home waiting for your husband, make sure to let him know you can't wait to see him. A simple text like 'I'm going to show you what love is tonight', will not only make him desperate to get home. 4.   Look into his eyes Show your husband you want him by giving him that look. A seductive look that he

Love is very complicated and we are mostly so sensitive to it because of what it means to us and everyone alike. When you have a crush on someone, it's very common to feel shy and awkward but that should end. Here are some tips to help you break the shyness around the guy; 1. If you're still testing the waters and getting to know the guy, the first thing you should do is give yourself some space to start things out casual and slow in order to make sure he's the one. 2. With the mindset that you're in control and you know your worth, breaking away from shyness should become easy. Have fun, get to know him, no pressure. 3. If he is in the circle of friends, then you can see each other more often by going on group outings. Take the chance to get closer and start a conversation. At least, make your friends notice your move towards him. 4. If you're sure he's the right guy for you and you trust him, then start talking about deep, meaningful and personal things. This,

Having a lady who is interested in you for the better period of her life is the kind of a wish every guy makes. But the reverse do happen most of the time. You will realize that a woman is actually very interested at the beginning but the interest fades with time. It is never her fault and you should never blame her. It is your own fault. We normally stress some points in our articles that you should be careful on how you treat your woman. If you treat her good with an intention then she will go. Most guys think that being nice to a woman makes her love them more. The truth is, women do not like nice guys, they wants those guys who treat them poorly and who constantly irritate their emotions. It has become very obvious that relationships breakup after a period of time. Nowadays, there are less probability of getting married to a lady you are dating most so, for the nice guys. If you have been wondering why suddenly a woman loses interest in you, then there is this one thing you keeps o

Women love men who are bulls, they want someone who can make love to them until the climax or reach their conjugal satisfaction. If a man is unable to satisfy his woman in bed, the woman may be tempted to seek satisfaction in a different man. This may cause a lot of problems in relationships. The following are some of the basic things a man should do to prolong his ejaculatory period. i) One should take a deep breath when highly aroused and nearing the climax. This practice will help by briefly shutting down the ejaculatory reflex action. ii) Take short breaks while thrusting. This will allow the stage of arousal to fall temporary to avoid spontaneous ejaculation but one should be careful not to allow her partner's arousal to fall by continuously arousing her other sensitive parts. iii) Try different positions and determine the one in which you will last longer and perfect on it. Some positions are more arousing in men for example missionary as compared to a woman on top. iv) Have

We all know that women who can convince their husbands to do anything can actually make them do whatever they want. However, not every woman knows how it is done even though they wish they knew something. For that matter, make sure to read till the end. 1.   Ask more than once Asking a man for something you want once won’t get you anywhere, he will definitely forget. So make sure you ask him more than once, to make sure he heard you and finally want to do something about it. 2.   Don’t fight or argue Let’s be clear, fighting and arguing with your husband will only make him say no to whatever you want him to do. The secret is to ask for what you want in a nice and respectful way. 3.   Make him think it was his idea Men can be really stubborn, so if your man is that kind of a man, then you’ll have to turn around things to make him think that he came up with this idea. This is another best way to make him do what you want. 4.   Let him know you’re proud of him Men love it when their wives

It’s easy to think you’re a failure after a failed romance. But learn to take that leap of faith by understanding how to love again after being hurt. If you want to know how to love again and experience a better relationship, here are 3 steps that can help you experience a happier relationship and a better life. #1 Accept that your old relationship is history If you want to love again someday, learn to accept that your relationship is over. Many heartbroken lovers pine and dwell over lost relationships like they’ve lost their own lives. It could feel that way, true, but it’s all in your head. You have the choice to bring a smile back on your face if you choose to. Convince yourself that the relationship is over instead of holding your phone in your hand hoping your new ex will call you back and make it up with you. Remind yourself that it’s over. As painful as it may seem, it’ll give you the strength to move on. #2 Where did you go wrong? The breakup may have come out of the blue or it

 You have to be aware of what your partner’s concerns are. Before they even say anything, it is good for you to know what they might want to talk about. Everyone has a billion thoughts that they might want to talk about with their partner, but there are some topics that are more common for people in relationships. #1 The little things. They can be chores, requests, favors or even a short narrative about how their day went. These things may seem unimportant at times, but the fact that you are paying attention to them can go a long way with your partner. If they feel that you are ignoring even the smallest of things in a conversation, it could hurt them more than you realize.  #2 Their feelings. Some people would prefer not to talk openly about their emotions, but your partner may want to. If they feel that you are belittling their feelings, they might resent you and feel as if you are ignoring them. In a relationship, talking about feelings is not just an occupational hazard. It is also

In recent times, the divorce rate has been keeping up with countless marriage certificates, all over the world. Even in a country like India, where marriage is believed to be sacred and divorce carries a highly negative connotation, people are heading for splitville. After all, they realise that being forced to live with a partner you feel no connection with can be extremely tormenting. However, people still give their best towards keeping their marriages alive and intact. But sometimes, it is just not enough. What causes a marriage to end? Emotional restraints are one of the biggest factors for ending marriages. Once the love, connection, understanding and trust is gone, it’s hard to get those feelings back. Couples, however, still manage to go on with their lives and focus on different things to avoid the glaring differences in their marriage. No matter how hard they try, the will to cover up the mistakes is a rare privilege only a few have. Don’t get me wrong. Not that it’s good to

One of the secrets of having a happy marriage is to be a married couple who's always working together on your relationship. We notice that a lot of women know their roles in marriage, and few men sometimes fail to understand that. That's why this article is here to guide men, help them support their wives, and be understanding partners. 1.   A good man is kind A good husband appreciates and values his wife and is ready to make her happy by being understanding. He needs to take note that a healthy relationship requires work. 2.   Sharing responsibilities A man can make his wife happy by helping her out in all aspects of her life, whether she works or not. Helping her out will make her feel more relaxed, and guess what, stress-free women can do wonders. 3.   A good man listens All you have to do is sit down with her, know her worries, and help her figure a way to solve them. These types of gestures make a woman feel safe and assured that you’re there for her. 4.   A husband shoul

Every lady has the dream of one day walking down the aisle and tieing the knot with the man of their dreams, but it’s not something that happens out of the blue. Before you decide to spend your entire life with this person, there is a need to be sure of yourself and the decision you’re about making. If these points apply to you, it’s my advice that you hold on with the wedding plans until you are better; 1.   When you have cold feet If you’re dreading your wedding day already, then it’s best to hold on with the marriage plans. You need to be excited about your decision, but if it is rather causing fear, then, it’s best to stay clear. 2.   Poor communication between you two If you’re still having fights over simple things and not able to communicate properly with your partner, then this is all the sign you need to hold off the wedding. If you can’t communicate now, then your marriage is doomed. 3.   Still not sure if you want the marriage Are you taking the relationship to the next step

To the surprise of many women, guys don’t really take notice of things that they think men do. For instance, she is willing to cancel a date simply because there is a pimple on her forehead. While it is important that guys take notice of very important things, they really don’t and instead, see the bigger picture. Here are some few things guys really don’t take notice of; 1.   Shaved legs or not Yes, don’t be surprised, guys don’t really see this and don’t even care in the first place. If shaving your legs makes you feel awesome, go ahead, but don’t expect a compliment from him. 2.   How much makeup you did You look great with makeup, but honestly, men like it whether you’re on makeup or natural. They appreciate the effort you put in trying to look great just for his sake. 3.   Beautiful mascara or killer cat eye Your amazing eyes look brilliant, but for most guys, there is nothing really different between a terrible mascara and a brilliant one. Sorry, but he really can’t see the diffe

Romance  it’s exciting and fun and makes us feel good  so why don’t we do it more?         Romance is often overlooked as a key component of a healthy relationship, especially if we have been with someone for a long period of time. We live busy and stressful lives so it’s common to find it hard to make time to be romantic, but without it the love can slowly start to demise. Romance is about getting closer and reminding our loved one how much we value them and care for them. Many people put a lot of emphasis on sex in a relationship, but without romance the sex can start to feel less significant and even lose it’s appeal. Much like other healthy practices like keeping fit, or meditating, romance needs to be kept a constant in order to reap the rewards, and it doesn’t have to take a lot of effort to keep it going. Small romantic gestures can be savored and will strengthen your bond. If you feel a bit useless when it comes to romance and you’re not sure where to start, you may

We all know sex is fantastic but you know what’s the one thing that is irritating and oddly uncomfortable about sex? The painful sore feeling in your vagina, every time you have intercourse. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it? Sex isn’t supposed to painful, but quite enjoyable. Rough sex is approved and considered to be a prime form of pleasure and enjoyment but if sex hurts, it becomes quite uncomfortable. Painful pangs of a sore vagina isn't something want to experience at all. You need to accept the fact that rough sex can result in unbearable cramps or agonizing pain and can be really inconvenient the next time you have sex. This is a perfectly natural occurrence that no one needs to be ashamed of. In case, you are hurting from painful sex and frequently end up having a sore vagina, then you should talk to your partner or consult the gynaecologist. So, it’s important to identify the reasons why it’s hurting so much. We have listed down a few reasons why you might be having

The end of a relationship can be tough to acknowledge, more so, if you're not the one ending it. Usually, along the way, there are signs that point towards your partner being over you. Some signs can be very subtle and you might overlook them, but they aren't non-existent. Non-verbal communication is generally overlooked in relationships. This is why we've made a list of overlooked signs that can tell your partner is totally over you and the relationship has come to a dead-end. 1.You feel distant If you start to suddenly feel clingy in your relationship, it's because you've been feeling distant from your partner. Your partner spends time away from you, physically and mentally. This means their priorities have changed. When your partner starts to take less interest in you or spends less time with you, it generally means they're disconnecting from you with a purpose. 2.You get to rarely hear 'I love you' All the butterflies and sunshine only stay in the be

Whether you’re a night owl or early bird, there are oodles of reasons sex is a great way to start the day. Maybe you like it for the energy jolt. Or the stress relief. Perhaps the just-left-the-spa glow? Make morning sex a habit and it’ll quickly overtake coffee as the best part of waking up. 15 reasons to have sex tomorrow morning Starting your day with a little action between the sheets is fun, but there are other ways it can benefit you in the bedroom and beyond. 1. Your bod is so ready Did you know estrogen and testosterone levels peak in the morning. And science says the higher these hormones are, the hornier you feel. Strike while the iron is hot! 2. He’ll stay harder longer Back to those hormones. Healthy testosterone levels could lead to better sexual performance and a stronger erection. 3. You’ll feel lovey-dovey for the rest of the day Research shows that penile ejaculation releases oxytocin, aka the “cuddle hormone.” Morning sex could help you start your day with

If you’re going to make room in your already full life for a guy, he needs to be worth it. While some of the stuff you’re looking for in a relationship and a potential partner will be unique to you, there are certain qualities that any man who’s “boyfriend material” will have right off the bat. If he does these things, you may have finally found a keeper: 1. ERASING ANY DOUBTS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. A good boyfriend doesn’t keep you guessing about how he feels, where things are going or anything else because he knows you deserve better. Plus, he knows you’re a catch and that if he doesn’t step up to the plate, some other guy could swoop in and steal you from right under his knows. He knows what he wants, and that’s you. 2. THINKING YOU’RE THE HOTTEST GIRL IN THE WORLD.  Any guy who’s boyfriend material thinks you’re the most beautiful woman that ever existed and he tells you so through his words and actions. Yes, he’s physically attracted to you, but he also thinks you’re

You’ll notice that the times when you feel the least motivated to have sex with your partner is on the rise. There is a certain uneasiness every time you think of sex. Most of us relate the lack of sexual desire to eminent sex problems. Upon knowing this, such individuals refrain from finding possible romantic partners because they think they won’t be able to provide them with sexual satisfaction. But what most of them do not know is that while it may not be a physical problem, some of them are rooted in emotional and psychological reasons that have had an impact on their sex life. What causes lack of sexual desire? To get answers for such an imminent lack of sexual desire, researchers have conducted analytical studies to prove that one’s surroundings play a huge part in arousing one’s desire. Experts suggest that one part of the brain processes our emotions, that includes our sexual responses as well. It pumps fear, aggression, love, sadness, despair, adoration and all sor

I have been broken many times in my life. I have had life deliver blows that have knocked me to the ground. The pain and the feelings of hopelessness and despair have consumed my life for many months. I wondered if I would ever survive this, or if I would live a life where I felt happy and safe. Slowly, over time, my life got better and I got stronger. Now when I look back, I realize that these events, though they were painful at the time, were the catalysts for me to change my life. Now I am living my life doing what I love – writing, speaking and coaching . For us to live our lives to the fullest, the only way we can achieve this is by overcoming the challenges that life throws at us. We have to experience the pain, the betrayal, the adversity, the feelings of hopelessness and the despair in life, because how else do we learn about who we are ? There is no other way for us to learn how to be resilient, courageous, hopeful and optimistic about life and our future. Though w

🍒Talk dirty in bed Whisper dirty things in his ear and we can assure you, his mind will explode in ecstasy. Start dirty talking in bed and whisper your wildest thoughts. Call him names and ask him to do things to you, really dirty things. There’s nothing more sexually exciting than talking dirty while making out.  🍒Experiment with him Every man wants his girlfriend to be, as Usher puts it, a lady in the street and a freak in the bed. Take the lead in bed and show him your moves. Missionary is cozy and loving, but having other positions and tricks up your sleeve will only turn him on more and desire you more. And hey, he’s going to learn a few moves to please you too. So it’s win-win in any case. 🍒Take control If you’re trying to turn a guy on in bed, take control and see how it works. You don’t need to do it all the time, but an occasional romp where you play the mistress can work wonders in turning him on. Hold him by his hair and push him down, spank him, and command him to do you

To keep a guy interested in you, you just need to remember a few ways to keep his interest aroused and his desire in you peaked. Here are 30 sexy ways to do just that! Use these tips on how to keep a guy interested in you, and you’d see how easy it can be to make him want you all the time. #1 Be spontaneous. Shock him, awe him, make plans for the evening or plan an entire elaborate date by yourself. Surprise him and never be too predictable. #2 Don’t change yourself. Stay true to the real person that you are. Don’t change yourself constantly assuming he doesn’t like your personality. Be creative, but stick to your comfort zone. #3 Take initiatives in bed. Your guy may like taking control in bed, but when you dominate him and show off your confidence, he can’t help but be awed by your confidence and sexiness in bed.  #4 Smell great all the time. Always smell great around him but don’t overpower subtle fragrances with sickly sweet perfumes though. Always smell good, and pay special atten