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Not slowing down on porn Cybersex addiction has posed as a great problem amongst those couples, whose partners are greatly addicted to porn. Many people have complained of erectile dysfunction, low sexual desire, ejaculation problems when it comes to sex. Due to this, couples have been facing problems in their sex life. Not understanding that passion doesn’t last forever Couples have the wrong idea that great passion and love lasts forever and that they will always remain excited in their love and sex lives. What they need to understand is that in real life, the passion fades away, and the charming idea they have of their partner will also fade away, presenting a more realistic face. Passionate sex will not last forever, but realistic sex will. Not enough foreplay We understand that waiting for the final act in sex is way too slow and that getting into it is way more exciting. While all of it is true, couples often forget the golden rule of sex i.e., foreplay. Some sensual stimulation

Every couple goes through good times and bad. Playing the blame game is a very unhealthy communication style which will only lead to the couple fighting unfairly and bring the irrelevant past into current arguments. If this is the case with your relationship, you can find a solution. Here's what you should keep in mind when your partner plays the blame game. 1.Speak up for yourself Make your partner understand that you're feeling blamed and do not delay talking about it. When you leave such situations undiscussed, it will end up as a pattern in the relationship that is seen to be okay. Let your partner know how you're feeling in a clear manner. Make a conscious effort to listen to what your partner is saying and try to change your behaviour for the sake of your relationship. 2.Ask your partner to be gentle while pointing out issues You must always calmly and rationally point things out to their partner. If your partner thinks you're "always" to blame, then the

A happy, satisfying sex life has positive effects that reverberate through various aspects of a couple’s life. Even couples that get along like a house on fire will say that fabulous sex makes their relationship ten times better and more fun! Want to make sure your woman is satisfied? Look out for these signs. 1. The way she moans You could be living in a joint family/have neighbours living beyond the flimsy walls of your home, but if you’re rocking her world, it will not be easy for her to contain her joy! If her face expresses ecstasy, well, you have nothing to worry about; keep up the good work! 2. She will be grateful A satisfied woman will be grateful and more often than not, she will want to return the favour. If you have lovingly and passionately pleasured your woman, don’t be surprised if she wants to love you back more and more. A definite sign that you’re doing it right. 3. She wants more sex No one can have enough of a good thing, least of all mind blowing sex. If you’re doi

Kissing is the most basic way to show any sort of affection or attraction towards someone and if you're on a first date with someone, it's but much obvious you'd end the date with a kiss, with due consent, of course, which could act as a catalyst to recon date number two. But kissing is an art, which is mostly taken for granted, only because everything needs to get to the eventuality of what kissing initiates- s3x. People seldom forget that kissing someone is the most seductive and sensuous part of a s3xual experience and it should be mastered like a pro! So, we're going to list some simple and basic dos and don'ts for people who enjoy kissing and think it's the most essential part of a good making out session: Keep your tongue intact Don't take your tongue out foolishly to kiss at first. It's just bad manners! Leave a little room for your lips to explore hers. Don't take your tongue out and slobber her face with it or try and stick it down her throa

There are a lot of ways to be intimate with your partner, foreplay is one. Sex experts say that foreplay has the ability to lead you to a deeper sense of who you are and what you prefer sexually. The more you get in touch with each other's sexual selves, the more comfortable you both will be in sharing your fantasies, desires, etc. Hence, we thought of listing down a few ways you can have the best foreplay. 01 Think  outside the bedroom First and foremost, your go-to foreplay routine shouldn't start in the bedroom. It can start with slow, intimate kissing and touching each other in your living room making your way to full-fledged sex on the bed. 02 Sext  them a little something Sexting can be a hot form of foreplay, especially when it includes teasing your partner on the other side of the screen. Let your partner know what you are going to do to them or what you want them to do to you. Let them imagine little scenes in their head and they will be all too excited to get home for

There are countless ways to tell someone you love them. If you can’t find the right words to use, here are some ideas. You can even use them when you’re composing your vows!  8 Undeniably true reasons why I love you. #1 You accept me for who I am.  We’re all of us different in so many ways and I am no exception. But whereas others have tried to change me, to try and make me fit their personal expectations, you always accept me for who I am and love me for being that person. #2 You make me feel attractive.  There is never a moment when a compliment does not pass your lips, nor a second when you are not eager to share with me your good opinion on my looks and appearance. #3 You support my aspirations.  Never would you entertain the thought, for even the merest of seconds, of telling me that I am being unrealistic or silly. Everything you can do, either through kind words or encouraging actions, you will do to help me make my dreams a reality. #4 You listen to me.  Sometimes all I want to

As pleasurable as sex can be for both men and women, it can be as painful when parts of one’s body is not in its best form or condition. Painful sex can be caused due to many reasons. While we may not realize the problem until and unless it affects us, it is extremely essential to understand the causes before it becomes a matter of grave concern. Painful sexual intercourse a.k.a. dyspareunia, can be caused due to many things ranging from illness, infection, lack or personal hygiene to even psychological conditions. While many ignore the early signs of pain, many find it embarrassing to address the concern to their personal doctors. That being said, in case you experience pain during or after sex, feel free to self-diagnose yourself but also consult a doctor for a better diagnosis. To help you further, here are some of the common reasons that could be triggering the pain during sex. •Causes of painful sex in women Dyspareunia is a condition very prevalent in women. In women, the pain du

Remember the old saying “The pen is mightier than the sword”? Well, in this case, let's substitute the pen with words. Words if spoken harshly, can really hurt a person.  They can hurt so much like blades cutting into you and words from a trusted loved one can do the worst of damage. A harsh comment passed by a random stranger is easy to ignore and forget.  But when your partner or your spouse does same, it can serve a devastating blow that may hurt you for the rest of your life. I guess we can all say that mean words from our loved ones hit a different type of nerve. Because of this, the best thing to do most often is to think before we speak. Here, we have to observe the golden rule of treating others the way we would like to be treated.  If you lose your temper and can’t control what to say, then walk away. Give yourself a chance to calm down. Sometimes you can apologize and make amends for something you said in anger.  However, there are some types of statements that can hurt m

You must all know that a person's body language is the way to know their inner thoughts, even when they don't literally say it. It's a way how people express their feelings. A smile, hand gestures, head tilts, etc can tell a lot about how someone feels. So if you've been wondering about how that cutie you've been hanging out with feels about you, pay close attention to his body language. 01 He  has an open posture This means his feet are shoulder-width apart. His shoulders are relaxed and his arms are uncrossed. His jaw could even be unclenched. All of this indicates that he is curious and attentive to you. 02 You  can see his hands at all times When the guy is into you, he won't keep his hands in his pocket or behind his back. If he feels comfortable with you, his hands will usually be visible to you in the front. 03 He  tilts his head in two directions When a guy tilts his head side to side, it shows that he is tuned in and curious to know more about you. You&

🍑I love you The simplest and most clear of all the signs is if he tells you he loves you. However, several people will say this without meaning it, and while he might actually be truthful when he says this, it's an even better sign when he says this while also saying or asking some of the other things on this list. I love you alone, with none of the others on this list, might not be real love. 🍑I miss you The guy who truly loves you will love to spend time with you and will think about you all the time. Two people in love simply cannot get enough of each other! If it's easy for him to ignore you and fill his time with other activities and people, he probably isn't all that vested. Guys that just pop up every once in a while and say they are too busy to text you back, probably isn't truly in love with you. 🍑You are my best friend True love usually has a great friendship base, and that doesn't mean who two had to be BFFs before you started dating. You might have st

Women have a way of showing men that they like him in subtle ways. They might not tell them outrightly that they like him, but from their body language, you can always tell. This is because they are not sure if the men like them too, so they come subtly so that they will not get rejected by the men in an obvious way. Is a woman a mystery to you too? Do you find it difficult to understand what she really wants? What is she up to? What feelings does she have towards you? Does she really love you? Do you always feel that she is giving you mixed signals? Are you scared of being in the “friend zone”? Could you be misreading signs from her? There will be many women around you at your workplace or in your classroom. Some may talking to you very easily, and some won't even notice you. But for you, all that matters to you is your "dream girl". You always notice her signs that say what she feels for you – signs of how she treats you. You want to do everything just to know whether s

We can’t go around it, sometimes sex can just be awkward. It doesn’t mean it’s bad. It’s just not always mind-blowing. Especially when we are having sex with someone new, we expect that he is not going to understand what we want and how we want it done. We are more able to express what we do and don’t want sexually, but it’s not always the same for men. Most men have learned how to use certain expressions to express their lack of self-confidence in bed or even if he wants to do something different. Here is exactly what he means when he says it: 1. When he says, “Do you like that” he’s just making sure you actually like it Most often when he asks you if you like it’s not because he doesn’t know whether she likes it or not, but because it turns him on to hear you moan while you try to say that she does. Other times too, when he does, he really needs to know. Maybe he tried something new and he isn’t quite sure if he should stop or not. He wants to make sure you’re enjoying it as much as

Trusting someone can be the hardest things to do, but when you do and the trust is broken, then it becomes even more difficult to trust someone with your feelings again. However, it takes effort and time to build trust in a relationship. It takes equally as much effort to maintain it. The downside is that trust can be broken easily. Once the bond of trust is broken, it's difficult to get back. At that point, many people choose to walk away from their relationship. For the people that decide to stick it out and fight to rebuild trust, a rough journey is ahead. Here are five things that can be done to help get trust back. 🍏Take it slow Understand that it will take some time to build trust once it has been broken. Rebuilding is more challenging than establishing trust at the beginning of a relationship because now it has been broken. 🍏Spend more time together Spending time with someone typically makes people feel close to one another. More quality time should help mend the bond that

Have you ever used sex to get your partner to do things for you? Or maybe even threatened to take it away from them if they did something you didn’t like? If you have done any of these things, you’ve used sex as a weapon, and here are the reasons you should refrain from doing that: #1 You’re sending a bad message about your standards This is by far the worst part about using sex as a weapon: when you show someone that you are using your body as a means to get what you want, it definitely sends a bad message about your self-respect and standards. 2. You’re not confronting the issue When you use sex as a weapon or a reward, you’re not really getting to the center of the problem at hand. When you use sex to “solve” your problems, all you’re doing is pushing those issues out of the way by having sex, and then keeping them there until the next time you get angry. 3. It won’t solve anything Because you’re not actually addressing the issues that lead to you wanting to use sex as your weapon,

If you love someone but scared of going back to her, maybe because your previous relationship didn’t work out well, or maybe because an issue came up and you got separated, it is your duty to try everything you can do to win that love back, it is very hard to find someone whom your heart beats for. There are steps in which you can follow and win her back. Those steps may not be easy for you, but sometimes there are things that you need to do or sacrifice In order to get what you desire for. So if you are looking for the way that can help you win your girlfriend back or win your woman back. In this article today, we are going to write on how you can win her back, and every steps will also be written down. So we urge you to pay attention to carefully read and understand it, so as to carry on with you plans on her. And believe me, with that you will win her love back and she will definitely come back to you. Below are the tips on how to win her back. 1. Admit that you are wrong before her

A kiss we know is an expression of love, affection and want. However, with so many styles of kissing, do you think it can mean just that? From you simply testing the waters, diving right in, igniting unrestrained passion in your lover or just evoking feelings of comfort, your kisses reveal a lot about the kind of intimacy you share with your loved one.  Here are five  kissing styles and what they mean for you. •Soft and romantic   A kiss like this starts rather slow without much pressure. Your lips are filled with nerve endings and even a slight brush can make you weak in the knees. Kissing like this means teasing,  in the sense that it delays satisfaction. Basically, it means that you and your partner are not rushing through things. He or she cherishes you and would like to take it slow and capture every bit of pleasure there is. •Single - lip kiss   A single-lip kiss involves you concentrating on one lip at a time. It’s romantic and not aggressive. Though not scorching, this kiss giv

You feel yourself starting to fall in love with him, but you're wondering if it's just infatuation. You give yourself a little more time and then realize this is definitely the real deal, at least on your part. You don't want to freak your BF out or feel rejected if he doesn't say it back. What do you do? Here are five signs that it's time to tell your partner you love him. 🌶️You'll be okay if they don't say it back right away This is one of the biggest considerations when it comes to telling your partner you love them. Are you okay with not hearing it back? You need to make sure you can honestly say yes to this because there is a chance they might not feel ready. You need to make sure that not hearing it back will not crush you, and that you told them not because you wanted to hear it back, but because you honestly felt it was the right thing to do. 🌶️They talk about a future with you in it This is always a good sign that your relationship is built to las

1 . Love: Before you enter into any relationship, love is marriage is what you have to consider first before any other options. Our intention to marry is to live forever, but not to divorce. No one decide to marry his/her enemy. Some may consider the religion but that is not so. View pictures in App save up to 80% data. 2 . Relgion💒: Before you marry your dream husban or wife, you should also consider the religion, and should be the second thing you should look out for. You cannot marry someone simply because you are in the same religion with showing the love. Previous studies reported that less religious people are more likely to divorce since religious people are more likely to have stronger moral beliefs in marriage (Guerrero et al. ... (1999) indicates that people who are more deeply involved in religion are less likely to die than those who are not involved in religion . NB : You can marry someone you love without considering the religion. Even the the Bible says that. Genesis 2:

It's no myth that sex, whether kinky or romantic, is a powerful way to increase intimacy with your partner. Even science says so. During sex, your brain floods your body with hormones and neurochemicals, especially oxytocin, which is best known as the "love hormone" and with good reason. Oxytocin decreases feelings of stress and dramatically increases feelings of trust, security, bonding, and love, says California-based couples therapist Mary Kay Cocharo, L.M.F.T. Skin to skin touching triggers the release of these hormones, making stripping down with your partner one of the quickest and easiest ways to deepen your relationship. Want to take things a step further? Here are seven simple and sexy things that will make your next romp more intimate. Keeping quiet during sex means you’re missing out on an opportunity to build your bond with your partner. Tell them what feels good and what doesn't and vocalize the pleasure you're experiencing, Cocharo says.

Women are unpredictable beings. They are emotional and they change their minds easily. They can be impulsive and surprising. They can easily fall in love, and later on have a change of heart. This is one of the causes of men' s heartbreaks. How will you find out if your girlfriend or partner really loves you? How do you know if what she has for you is real love? Here are some signs that may help you find the truth out. 1. She takes care of you like a mom. You would know how much your girlfriend loves you based on how she takes care of you. Her mother instinct makes her do everything to ensure you do not get sick and you stay well. She serves you as much as she can to accomplish this. She cooks and brings you food, reminds you to take vitamins, and scolds you when you stay up too late because of online games. 2. She is willing to sacrifice for you. Your girlfriend can sacrifice her own needs to help you. I know some girlfriends who would do the assignments or projects of their boyfr

Your  mind is just as sexy as  your  beauty. I miss  your  smile. You 're an amazing friend. I can't believe I found someone  like you . I get excited every time I see  you . I  love  making  you  laugh. You 're my  best  friend. I'll always have  your  back.

Turning her on and making her horny doesn’t have to be difficult. Just try some of these sexual questions to ask a girl over text. And then let the texting begin. #1 Do you sleep naked? This is a great question to ask to get into a more sexual tone. Maybe she sleeps naked or just in her underwear. Either way, it’s sexy. #2 What’s your favorite position? Everyone wants to know this answer. What position makes her lose her mind? Find this out, and the next time you have sex with her, blow her mind. #3 Doggy style or cowgirl? This is a good way to see how she prefers to have sex – does she like to be in control or let you be in control. This is one of those useful sexual questions to ask a girl over text. #4 If I was to be in your bed right now, what would you want me to do to you?  Oh yes, let her imagination run wild with this. This will get her into the mood. #5 What turns you on sexually? You don’t know until you ask. Let her do the talking and you take notes. #6 Where’s the craziest